Posted by Rosemary (204.60.237.74) on October 06, 1999 at 21:38:07:
In Reply to: CH & Sex posted by Bill McCuistion on October 06, 1999 at 19:37:12:
From a womans point of view, that is with someone who has ch, sometimes the sexual part stinks. I can deal with not having it as many times, as we do when he doesn't have them. But what sucks for both of us is the feelings of anger or guilt when we're in the middle of it and the stupid beast comes and ruins the whole thing. He gets angry because it won't even leave us alone then, and I feel guilty that if we didn't try maybe he wouldn't get a ch. May sound crazy but all I can think of is how your blood gets pumped up doing it,and maybe it sets off the ch sometimes. Kind of like if you do or do not know you have a heart problem and by getting your blood pumped up and heart racing you could have a heart attack.