Posted by Linda Garratt (62.172.22.207) on July 23, 1999 at 17:14:51:
In Reply to: Upset/Angry Supporter, Help! posted by LadyStahr on July 22, 1999 at 22:34:10:
I know exactly what your husband is going through - and PLEASE be patient with him! I suffer from clusters - I am just starting another bout now after 12 months of none (usual cycle) I can see and feel myself "lashing out" (emotionally, not physically) at my (new) husband (got married three weeks ago) Luckily he has the patience of a saint and just leaves me alone. Another symptom of my clusters is depression , which he understands, but I do explain to him in my lucid moments that its not him, its the headaches, and he is not to take it personally, and even though it kills him to do nothing its better that way, so he doesn't catch the brunt of my depression/temper during a bout
Please be patient with him
Linda