Posted by Buddy on May 19, 1999 at 21:30:25:
In Reply to: Spouse of a CH Sufferer posted by Cathie on May 19, 1999 at 20:38:20:
I have a wife that suffers HC. I have stayed up night after night with her. I have also slept wile she had hers many times. I have so many times felt as you do. It is a helpless feeling. I have learned one thing. She does not want to be touched, she does not want me to talk to her. She knows I care. She knows all she has to do is touch me and wake me. I am always there for her after it is over. She needs me most afterwards. Ask him how he feels what he wants. I was told different thing from different people. So I just asked her and she told me. Everyone is different in what they want and need. I read the board and I try to learn as much as I can. I let her know I
LOVE HER. What else can we do.