Posted by Jamie (152.163.204.178) on March 06, 2000 at 08:53:38:
In Reply to: Gosh I don't know how to deal with this posted by NickD on March 05, 2000 at 10:52:08:
I was very upset reading this message I am a sufferer of sexual abuse,it is out there I also am a member of this message board I have CH. I can not believe how insensitive you are to sexual abuse,this is just plain crap I am hearing from your message,I was abused by my father and older brother from the time I was 2 till I was 9 I now an diagnosed with PTSD because of it YOU are a very selfsish person I would rather have my all my limbs cut off then to have to deal with PTSD all my life,no you can't just get back up and walk away like it never happened it happened and it was years doing so it is going to take years of theripy to undo some not all but some of the pain that is being felt.I know I have been in counciling since I was 10 for this and I am 33 now and I am just getting through some of the torture,You was wrong to be like that to your wife she told you what happened she is trying to reach out to you and all you can see in front of you is a divorce,WRONG BAD MAN you are very selfish but like they say what comes around goes around you will get yours and maybe sooner then you think it all adds up. I feel for those kids that you think you are protecting,they need to know it is out there and can happen to them and they need to be safe from harm and the only way to do that is inform them all the time that not all people are ok to be around I know I thought my daughter was safe but she was abused by my exhusband,her own dad the same that happened to me you mister need to check out reality.