Posted by hub (209.183.121.220) on January 13, 2000 at 06:43:11:
In Reply to: What blame? posted by Susan on January 12, 2000 at 17:14:21:
Susan,
I am not down on you. I am just giving you some observations I have made. You have given me and anyone else who cares that right by posting in a public forum. Listen I have seen a lot of denial and rationalizing in my day. Shoot I have done a huge amount of it myself. I have to say though that you are classic. You cry out for help in your posts and then deny the need for it.
I aint no shrink er ennythin' but I been around the block enough times to see it.
You know the trouble is we never see the need to get help until our lives have become unmanagable, until we are sick and tired of being sick and tired. We never look up until we have come to the point of not being able to look down any longer.
I reckon you'll reach that point some day.
However you may not.T'would be a shame. Denial is not bliss. It's filled with misery.
If you don't think any of this applies go back and read all your posts. If after that you still don't see a need, well then go smoke some more pot.
your friend,
Phil(hub)