Posted by Donna (63.20.108.69) on December 01, 2001 at 10:04:17:
In Reply to: I need to bare my soul with you guys cause I am hurting.... posted by nancyc on December 01, 2001 at 06:39:31:
only one way to get out of this rut (I've been there a few times more than I care to think about)and that is by pushing yourself out the door. You will make plans and then excuses not to go.
Once you literally force yourself out a time or two, things will get back to normal.
This is definately not a fun position to be in.
Decide what you are going to wear a day early. Do your hair early in the day. Otherwise, at the last minute, you will be puting clothes on and flinging them off because nothing will look or feel right and you will have found an excuse not to go.
Good luck sis, and be strong. Don't make plans too far in advance because that won't work.