Posted by Ted (152.163.207.192) on August 12, 2001 at 16:40:25:
In Reply to: I could use suggestions... posted by Flip on August 12, 2001 at 16:21:00:
need different things during an attack. Some people want to be left alone (which I'd imagine must be the hardest thing a supporter can do. I mean watching or hearing the pain and not allowed to do anything but just know it's happening) while others want someone with them. Your best bet is to ask him exactly what he wants for you to do to comfort him.
I'd also suggest you keep reassuring him he's not disappointing you if he's not.