Posted by Joy (207.1.45.150) on July 30, 2001 at 21:23:37:
In Reply to: what do i do to help??????????? posted by ray (gizi's hubby) on July 30, 2001 at 18:27:57:
This is a great beginning--you care enough to ask for help. Seem to see a lot more female supporters than males on the board. I'm a "clusterwife" and Mike and Frank have already given you some good ideas...best suggestion I can give you is to be there for her--no matter what...and reassure her that you'll do that. I think there's a question in most clusterhead's minds about whether their husband/wife/S.O. will "stick it out"...bottom line is I love my hubby, clusters and all..well, actually, hate the clusters, BUT love my hubby, so plan to be around for the long haul! LOL Take care, Ray--lots of other supporters here--you're in good company!