Posted by NickD (24.240.212.148) on April 12, 2001 at 14:20:10:
In Reply to: Listen to Margi, she speaks from experience.. posted by Darleen on April 12, 2001 at 13:26:45:
to get this support from his own wife and family, I am not sure that the knowledge that "other wifes" support for their husbands is of any consulation, can make a guy feel just a tad more envious. From a divorce therapy group I attended, the therapist pointed out that the man is the breadwinner kind of thing and any weakness is interpreted as laok of security for the wife, and there are some that will look elsewhere. So does that mean as long as husband can adequately support his wife he will have a secure marriage? Managed to do okay with just clusters, guess my bad accident was too much for my beloved, but I am recovering and guess who wants to come back? I am happy to learn that there are wifes that are compassionate and understanding and did indeed marry for better or for worse. I am in the process of getting my marriage annuled besides the legal divorce and can say I am much happier not living with my ex anymore. I didn't do anything to get these CH's nor nothing wrong to get hit and never tried to be a burden to my family, but I guess these things happen. One thing I learned, you can't do anything to change a person or how they feel.