Posted by nancyc (152.163.197.193) on April 03, 2001 at 16:52:06:
In Reply to: Hi Kiddo posted by Margi on April 03, 2001 at 15:14:54:
Julie, your letter really touched me. You have to be a nurse (according to margi's post, medically trained). I am a nurse too but in no way did I realize how people suffer thur clusters till I had them..I had never seen anyone or known anyone that had them so I was totally unprepared. Margi gave you some excellent advice and I agree 100%. There are alot of terrific women that post here that deal with their husband's clusters. Keep in touch with them . Do not be afraid to email them for advice. One thing that is hard for me is that I do not like anyone to see me when I am having an attack. Sometimes, I even push people away because I do not want them to see what I go thru. So if DJ needs to be alone, realize it is because sometimes the pain gets so bad, you have to be alone. When he wants you there, just like Margi says, ask him beforehand what you can do. We all share this pain but we are all different people so what works for one does not work for another. And know everyone on this board is there for you too. Keep us posted and may God bless you. smiles and hugs, nancyc