Posted by Darleen (198.103.221.3) on March 13, 2001 at 08:12:39:
In Reply to: Need a supporter... posted by L. B on March 13, 2001 at 02:58:40:
I hear where you're coming from. My husband has suffered for almost 10 years and I have been there for all of them. It's horrible having to watch them go through the pain but John always knows I'm there when he needs me. I ask him when he's not having a cluster what I can do for him when he is and all he wants from me is the knowledge that I'm there to get him whatever he needs. I know everyone is different when they are in pain. Ask him when he is not in pain what you can do when he is. I know I wish I could go through the pain instead of him but that's not possible. Since we have found this site, it's been a godsend. The support from this site is just out of this world. Please email me anytime you need to vent. We are all here for you.
Darleen