Posted by stevevr (208.136.227.35) on February 05, 2001 at 08:09:03:
In Reply to: Selfish Is As Selfish Does ! posted by MOB on February 05, 2001 at 05:26:40:
I agree, go figure. You see it one way ... I see it another, we are not going to agree on this one.
So what now ... is there a new rule that should be posted on the welcome page that if you want to be welcome here ... you have to spend x amount of time per year here or you are labeled selfish?
Am I allowed to disagree and state that in my opinion O.U.C.H stands a better chance of growing if we get away from all of these pecker contests and accept people unconditionally. I've watched about every kind of fight on this board but when someone comes back after their cycle starts again, in pain and are greeted by O.U.C.H representatives suggesting that they are selfish ... Well, if that is our creed than I can either voice my concern or simply fade into cyberspace.
People with clusterheadaches will continue to visit this site for information. Try as you might, you will never be able to paint them all with one brush. I respect what the regulars do for those that suffer ... you are gifted at what you do. I also respect what the returning sufferer can offer. I am tired of come and go sufferers being tagged as only takers. If you watch their posts the majority give and receive.
Are you sure that chastising people for being come and go visitors on this board will attract allot of new members?
stevevr