Posted by Elaine (172.133.188.107) on January 31, 2001 at 21:10:04:
In Reply to: PEOPLE PLEASE posted by Paula on January 31, 2001 at 19:11:13:
Something is very wrong when people like to fight more than help.
Ueli is my friend and I repect him highly and would defend him to the end. Knowing Ueli as I think I do, I think he would be happier if we left it alone, and get back to the thing that matter, such as CH and the pain and friendship.
Attacks hate, can destroy, but only if we let it.
Give a bad post just what it deserves, give it nothing to feed on and it will not grow and it will die. Give the post for help every thing it deserves make it stand out, let those people know they came to the right place.
Its a known fact we are all human and we have conflicts on the board at times. I have learned the hard way on this board what to post to and what not to post to.
If I see a post I strongly disagree with I try to post nicely as to why I do, and hope people understand. If I get a bad post about me, I just look the other way now. If I see a bad post about my friend it upsets me, but I do not answer it because it does not change my opinion of my friend. Instead it changed my opinion of the poster. If I see someone who post is just there to get a reaction, I don't feed it I leave it alone. If I don't like someone who post I don't go looking through their post thrying to find a reason to attack them. I don't email people and say don't post under that person because I don't like them. I mean we are grown ups here, get over this people cause if we don't we can kiss this board and a lot of good people good bye. You have to learn to read through the post and answer the post that are important.