Posted by (Mr.) Andrea on February 06, 1999 at 16:24:26:
In Reply to: Dear Mr. Andrea posted by Phil on February 06, 1999 at 14:12:29:
Phil, let it go. I sent you two personal e-mails already, opening a private channel for further discussion (if you wish). I don't understand why you can't just write to me (like you have already) instead of posting this stuff on this site. Can't you see that all we're doing is CLUTTERING it. Just like I'm cluttering it now by posting this response (arrghh!)-- but this is got to stop. Dude, there's NO war! There's no weird feelings! It’s OVER. Man, I even sent you an e-mail warning you about the antidepressants your doctor is giving you... what's it take to make you realize that I'm not out to get you? Let it go. I'm bored to tears of this whole thing, it was days ago. C'mon Man, let's get serious here. I'm sick of seeing my name involved in this exchange... it makes me feel awful to be part of something that is hampering the exchange of VITAL information within this site. My position is very clear -- I wish to keep this site clean, so that people can easily jump from posting to posting reading about possible remedies, cures or whatever. I don't want some guy with a killer headache to have to wade through "he said, she said, you're a butthead, I'm a butthead" crap. I want that guy to effortlessly get some ideas on getting rid of the pain NOW.
Dear Phil, if you want to talk about this write to me and WE (you and I) will deal with it in a civilized manner, but enough of this already. I am not antagonizing you. I antagonized an Anonymous posting. I had no idea who Anonymous was, or what problems he/she was dealing with. I did not antagonize a serious CH sufferer with depressive tendencies. I simply antagonized an Anonymous character who for dubious reasons felt compelled to post a controversial statement (check out all the follow-up postings to "do we need this pain", mine is more brutal but the message is the same) and then refused to disclose his/her identity (why, Dude?). Take responsibility for that and let this thing go. Please!