Posted by Urkie on December 22, 1998 at 00:04:24:
In Reply to: How do I get her to understand the pain I experience posted by Mike on December 21, 1998 at 22:20:36:
I don't think it isn't because she doesn't care. I'm sure she tries to understand you and your pain. It just makes it hard on her too. She's also tired of them. I'm sure she wished them away too. So errands could get done, be able to go on picnics, or a drive on a beautiful day. Get appreciated for sleeping very little when a 9 mon has gas or is hungry or just wants to play. She has feelings too. I think what would be best is a nice talk without yelling or jumping on each other's butts. Try to stop having stupid arguments over who is right and what is better. Also when you DON'T have the headache, give her the 'time off' from doing chores and taking care of girlie. I hope everything works out for the best. Urkie