Posted by Margi (207.148.146.144) on February 09, 2000 at 11:42:23:
In Reply to: definate diagnosis posted by monique on February 09, 2000 at 11:34:00:
Does he have the gun with him THIS time? If he does you need to take action.....call the police. If he doesn't, just try to calm yourself down - he NEEDS you to stay calm, Nique.. I know how hard it is but you need to let him deal with this on his own terms. Being out in the fresh cold air WILL help him and if he gets a headache while he's driving, he will pull over to the side until it passes. You need to settle down and try to think rationally. He is probably not able to right now so one of you has to, ok? Maybe he is just needing a little time alone and doesn't want to worry you by having you watching him in pain yet one more time...
I certainly don't mean to downplay the seriousness of this situation and you know WAY better than any of us - I am just offering experience here. Sometimes Mike just needs to be by himself to deal with his pain.
Keep us posted, please.
Margi