Posted by margi on November 06, 1998 at 17:25:32:
In Reply to: Is it common for these to jump sides? posted by Barbara on November 06, 1998 at 15:47:29:
Hi Barbara,
I, too, am a "CH Wife" and I know what you're going through. My husband has also had them switch sides and they seem to be more intense when they do. This is a horrific affliction that affects everyone in the family and I do completely understand your feelings as the supporter. If you ever need to talk to one who has been going through this for the last 13 years please feel free to e-mail me. Don't let it affect your marriage - he needs you BIG TIME - he just can't express his feelings during a cycle, let alone an attack. Be patient with him, Barbara, and it will help both of you if you read back in these messages for suggestions for pain relief.
The biggest breakthrough we have found is from Jerry and his water treatment - read back to mid-October to his message called "Water, Water, Water" it suggests water on the half hour and it is really working for us.
Again, if you need a shoulder, let me know.
Hang in there and here's hoping your hubby has a pain free night.
:)
Margi