Posted by Jerry on October 24, 1998 at 05:43:29:
In Reply to: Sufferers, but SURVIVORS posted by Marcus on October 23, 1998 at 15:59:32:
Yes, it is vital to look at the way we se ourselves. The more we position ourselves (introspectively speaking) as "one under" to the cluster, the more we'll loose. We need to, in terms of self-esteem and visualisation of ourselves, see ourselves as "one up", to the cluster.
Jerry