Posted by Tim M (205.188.192.187) on October 05, 1999 at 09:33:30:
In Reply to: at the end of my rope posted by Scott on October 05, 1999 at 03:56:32:
Scott, it sounds more likely that your wife was at the end of HER rope. You need to be there when she runs out of rope. The suggestion to get a good doctor, get a referral to a good neurologist, is probably the best and most important advice you've received. Getting a good marriage therapist is on the list, too, but a little farther down. I understand that you think she did this TO YOU, but I would say that such thinking is pretty selfish. When she is able, I'll bet she tells you she did it just as much FOR you. Listen to her. You were right when you said you don't know her. IT'S TIME!! Good luck to all of you. Please keep us "posted".