Posted by Debbie (207.218.158.8) on August 15, 1999 at 02:17:07:
PLEASE DO NOT TAKE OFFENCE TO WHAT I SAY.
It is not my intention to be mean.
I have been coming in here for a while now.
Sometimes I post other times I just read the messages.
Why I come here is for support, information and friendship.
Friends all trying to fight the same battle.
Friends trying to help Friends with the problems that
they face in their lives and not just with the ch's.
I have read cruel and mean words said.
I admit that at times I wanted to write something rude
to someone who I thought was'nt very nice. But I've
had to sit and think that maybe this person is having a bad day or maybe he
just doesn't understand. Or maybe he really is a jerk and
wants attention any attention.
you see, when I read the messages I try to get the best out
of it. If I can't then I try to let it go.
In here I feel as though we all try to be a family.
And in families there our different opinions..
but one of the greatest things about families
is that they are willing to forgive you..
I know from being on both sides of the coin, that
saying "sorry" is sometimes hard..But for families to survive
hearts have to heal.
In here I have seen great friendships and Love.
I have read you all support one another in good times
and in bad..
I have recieved alot of support in here. Being able
to come in and talk to people who understand
first hand what ch's are and what they do. Also being able to
get support from you all as supporters. You are all a
great bunch of people.
The way I see it is Life is just to short.
And my family means the world to me. If I can make their hearts
feel loved by saying I love you, then saying Im sorry can heal
the hurt I caused.
This is only my opinion.
If I offend anyone with this message I am truly sorry.
Best wishes and Good Health
: )
Debbie