Posted by David Chalfant (208.30.14.38) on July 08, 1999 at 13:57:02:
In Reply to: Transformation posted by Bob P on July 08, 1999 at 11:30:32:
Hi Bob P. It seems natural that the emotional effects, arguments, attacks, and offences occur. This is probably a unorthodoxed way of expressing my view on this matter,but here I go. When I first met my girlfriend, we had a wonderful time sharing getting to know each other. We thought we had this wonderful chemistry and things were great. Gradually the excitement began to subside.We began to have conflicts of values,idocyncratic annoyances, and arguments, name calling, personal attacks,you name it. But we managed to work things out but still butt heads. This is just a allegory (?) but we still need your input. I read most all of your post and followups, but I do understand the need for time out periods. Stay in touch. Glad you are in remission. I think I may be headed that way. I hope.
Enjoy DC