Posted by Mary on June 08, 1999 at 06:44:14:
In Reply to: What can I do to help her? posted by Ted on June 07, 1999 at 22:43:18:
My husband knows how you feel. He basically does whatever I need without fuss and hassle. One of the things that I struggle with is the guilt about all the things i'm not able to do whilst I'm suffering. Try and think laterally about what could be done to help her afterwards. To be honest once you are "in one" apart from rubbing neck/feet, catching vomit, wetting towels etc theres not much you can do. Just don't give up on her. I feel so unloveable when I'm in a cluster so its great to know he still loves me, finds me attractive (?) etc. just a few thoughts. Some of us are VERY lucky to have partners like you!!!!!!!!!E-mail me anytime and if you want I'm sure my husband would be willing to share with you too!
Bless you.
mary.