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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #50 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:04am

I can't begin to fathom your pain Annette;

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WHEN I MUST LEAVE YOU

When I must leave you for a little while,
Please go on bravely with a gallant smile
And for my sake and in my name,
Live on and do all things the same -
Spend not your life in empty days,
But fill each waking hour in useful ways -
Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer,
And I in turn will comfort you and hold you near

Helen Steiner Rice

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Native American Prayer

I give you this one thought to keep --
I am with you still - I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush, of quiet birds in circled flight,
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone --
I am with you still -- in each new dawn.

Anonymous

You have my sincerest sympathy.
No goodbye's Annette, just until you meet again.

Cat

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

If yer gonna be stupid, ya gotta be tough

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JimLaff CH.com Veteran Offline OH CRAP!!!!! Posts: 146 x1\|Springfield\|USA\|usa\|486\|122\|PA,Pennsylvania Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #51 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:06am Annett - My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #52 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:08am Wow. I am shocked! I just got back and saw this. I'm sorry for your loss. Please accept my sympathies!!
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Jeannie CH.com Sponsor Offline Live, Laugh, Love.... Posts: 2333 St Louis, Missouri Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #53 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:14am I am so sorry for your loss and pain. I pray that God will hold you and your children in the palm of His hand. Peace and heartfelt condolences, Jeannie and Family
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jace77 CH.com Junior Offline Posts: 88 x0\|grove city\|USA\|usa\|0\|0\|OH,Ohio Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #54 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:26am Annette, I am so sorry, you are in our thoughts and prayers Dorothy & Mike
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Gator Ex Member	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #55 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 10:37am I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. Mike
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seasonalboomer CH.com Hall of Famer Offline CH messes with my isness Posts: 2517 Charlotte, NC Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #56 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 10:51am Annette, I am so sorry to hear this news about your Daniel. My prayers at Mass this Sunday will be for you and your family. I am just so, so sorry to hear this Annette. Please be strong. With condolences, Scott
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #57 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 11:26am

Yes Annette, please do share your thoughts and feelings with us.

We love you and want to talk with you regularly. We would like to share all the stages with you and be here for you.

Daniel was very loved and he knows that. You are a wonderful person and you were blessed to share your lives with each other.

There are not enough words to express................all these feelings.

Love you,
Donna H

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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #58 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 1:36pm

Annette and boys,

I am sitting here in tears wishing I had some way of taking some of your grief and pain. I don't have anything profound to say other than you are loved far more than you can understand by many of us. Annette, you have been such an encouragement and help to so many of us that we selfishly don't want to see you leave, but I understand the constant reminder of Daniel by your presence here might be to much to bear. You are in my family's prayers, and I just requested prayer from the church as well. I know the words sound empty, but I pray for God's peace for you and the boys.

Jerry

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broomhilda CH.com Alumnus Offline Ride it! Posts: 2576 British Columbia, Canada Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #59 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 1:47pm With deepest condolences to you and your family, sending hugs and prayers from Canada Andrea
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nani CH.com Alumnus Offline Clusterbusters Posts: 8356 Los Lunas NM USA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #60 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 1:52pm I continue to pray for you and your boys, Annette.
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Jennifer CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 3265 Supply, VA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #61 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 2:19pm Annette, I am so sorry for your loss You are family here. Know that we love you and will be here for you just as you have always been for us. My deepest sympathies, Jen
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #62 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 2:45pm

Second night after he has gone, I rolled over in bed and reached out to touch him like I always do and realised that his side of the bed was empty, I woke up, cried my eyes out and could not sleep anymore.

During the day people come and go and I ride through the pain of time passing on their combined energy. Right now I feel so utterly and profoundly alone. I miss his touch and I miss being to able to just reach out and touch him.

I have been through many challenges in my life but so far this is the hardest yet. It hurts deeply walking through life with this big cold emptiness inside of me and with half of me missing.

Please pray for me and the children. My 8 years old has not fully understood it yet but Edwyn at 12 years old was much closer to Daniel and it has hit him really hard to.

Please pray for peace for all of us and please pray for Daniel in Heaven.

Thank you

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Melvyn CH.com Veteran Offline We all need to relax sometimes, somehow. Posts: 105 \|Yeovil\|England\|europe\| Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #63 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 2:58pm Annette, my heart goes out to you and your boys - I promise I will remember you and Daniel in my prayers. May God bless and love you all and may the spirit of the Holy Ghost give you the strength and courage you need. Regards & love, Melvyn
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thebbz Ex Member	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #64 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 2:59pm No words. Our condolences and sympathy's thebbz
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #65 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 3:19pm

Annette,

I wish that there was some way to take the heaviness of the pain that you and the boys will face. Try and make sure that you take some time for you. Yes I know and understand wanting to be strong for the kids, but you need to make sure that you have some time for you.

We are all here, and love you.

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Mat CH.com Junior Offline I Love CH.com! Posts: 85	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #67 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 6:41pm Oh Annette, my heart breaks for you. I got a call today that told me about this thread. There are no words to express my sympathy. I can only state that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You have done so much for my family, I only wish I could do something for you..... Maffumatt
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Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye
Reply #68 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 7:25pm

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During the day people come and go and I ride through the pain of time passing on their combined energy.

Annette:
I went through a period of extreme stress about 4 years ago - absolutely nothing close to what you're going through - and found that as long as I completely exhausted myself, I could sleep. That meant actively doing things until I knew I would sleep. Then, when I went to bed, I had the television on (and set the "sleep" to 30 minutes). It worked for me. My mind didn't continue to race when I went to bed, and I rarely woke up.
Maybe this will help you.
Lizzie

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HappyElaine CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 603 Flovilla,GA Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #69 - Jun 20^th, 2008 at 9:01pm I am so sorry, I without words here. Just know you and family are in my prayers.
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Barry_T_Coles CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 2073 Karratha\|,West_Australia Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #70 - Jun 21^st, 2008 at 12:14am You and your family have our deepest sympathy and condolences. Barry & Nina
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mezza CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 415 north carolina Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #71 - Jun 21^st, 2008 at 12:23am Annette- I'll be thinking of you and your family in this sad time. I'm very sorry for your loss- please stay connected here Kelly
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Sandy_C CH.com Sponsor Offline There is no such thing as a stupid question. Posts: 3371 Jamestown, NC Gender:	Re: Daniel has passed away, time to say goodbye Reply #74 - Jun 21^st, 2008 at 1:41pm Annette I just saw this thread and am totally shocked. I have no words to express how sorry I am to hear this terrible news. Please know my prayers are on the way for you and the boys. Sandy
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