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Title: Hello Post by helplesswife on Oct 19th, 2012 at 9:03pm
Hi there. So glad to find this amazing resource. My screen name says it all...helpless wife. My husband started with cluster headaches in 2006. At the time, we didn't know about this disorder, but in researching, we quickly figured it out. The research was disconcerting because it didn't offer much hope. After trying various prescriptions from doctors, we decided to ask for oxygen, as some of the research offered that as an effective treatment. We thought: "What's to lose? It's non-invasive and can't hurt." The doctor looked at us like we were crazy, but prescribed it. It helped somewhat, or at least made it bearable.
It's been two years since the last set of attacks (which were so severe, happening every couple of hours throughout the day and night), and they are starting again. To watch my husband crumble like a helpless child and not be able to do anything is the worst feeling in the world. He's scared of what's coming because he lived it. As he says: "I'm standing on the tracks, the train is coming and I can't jump off." And I'm scared for him, which is why I'm here...I just need to know that someone out there understands what we are going through and maybe find some hope.[td]e [/td] |
Title: Re: Hello Post by AussieBrian on Oct 19th, 2012 at 11:17pm
"Standing on the tracks..." Regrettably that's an excellent description of this nightmare which must be so much worse for people like youself feeling helpless.
Fortunately it's the other way round and just what you're doing now is of massive importance. Research. For knowlege is power and our number one weapon against the beast. Fantastic that you already have oxygen but there's a couple of tricks to get full value from it. Top left of your screen is a button "oxygen info" which will help a lot and then just ask questions. That's why we're here. Many people get good results by chugging a can of Red Bull at the first sign of a hit. Sounds strange, I know, but it's to do with the caffiene/taurine mix. Also slip down to Medication and Therapies board and check out a thread called "123 pain free". Lot of people putting Batch up for sainthood. In any case just try to battle on. Supporters like yourself are pretty special round here and we'll back you every inch of the way. Full steam ahead and damn the torpedoes, Brian down under. |
Title: Re: Hello Post by Kevin_M on Oct 20th, 2012 at 8:08am
Using oxygen can be difficult with patience because of its hesitancy before working. You might wake up with an attack ramping fast, get on the oxygen and start breathing... and breathing. For the first five minutes while the hit only gets worse and worse, nothing is happening, you begin to think you are trying your hardest to do something, but not getting any damn results. This is the bearing time, stay with it.
It is the second five minutes that things happen. First, mercifully, it begins to just stop getting worse and worse. Keep breathing. Almost imperceptibly, but you will feel it and know it, a very slight alleviation of small impacts of pain, almost a tingling replacing it, usually in the head/temple area. Oh but it still hurts A LOT. Keep breathing, very shortly ANYTHING less painful than what you were previously experiencing begins to seem bearable. You follow that lead and keep breathing. Sometimes it gets so that there is almost a slight diminishing of pain on every other breath. When you begin to get consistent results from oxygen and begin to know it CAN take care of each hit, that makes the first five minutes a little more bearable -- there will be a short duration to withstand. Always a light at the end of the tunnel. AussieBrian wrote on Oct 19th, 2012 at 11:17pm:
A couple of bingos here. If you chug a power drink first, it will kick in about the same time the oxygen is, giving the hit a real good kick in the butt out the door. Suddenly it's gone. Equipment and technique is very important, oxygen's effectiveness can be dependent upon them. Preventive methods or meds is the way to stop the trains from running and keep him on track. This is real good to inquire about and pursue. |
Title: Re: Hello Post by Bob Johnson on Oct 20th, 2012 at 12:13pm
Please tell us where you live. Follow the next line to a message which explains why knowing your location and your medical history will help us to help you.
CLUSTER HEADACHE HELP AND SUPPORT › GETTING TO KNOW YA › NEWBIES, HELP US...HELP YOU Before we know that everything has failed, please give us a history of meds used: name; dose, duration of use. Second, are you working with a doc who has experience with headache? (Major problem is a doc who lacks experience and training in treating complex headache disorders.s) |
Title: Re: Hello Post by helplesswife on Oct 21st, 2012 at 8:57am
Thank you for your replies, To reply to Kevin, I know what you mean about the oxygen. It's slow, it doesn't always work, but it does help. In reading about caffeine and energy drinks, my husband actually tried the caffeine last night. He took 3 tylenol with codeine when an attack woke him up and chugged a strong cup of coffee with it and it seemed to help keep it from getting to the unbearable stage. The only thing was that he could sleep afterwards and was wide awake. Still, as he called it, "one small victory" as he wasn't crying in pain. Thanks for the tips!
Bob, we live in Ontario, Canada. As for history of meds, etc. that will be hard. As they started in 2006, he lived through the first series of attacks with over the counter meds (Advil). This was the time we were just discovering what this was. He didn't see a doctor because we aren't the type to run to doctors for every little thing, and by the time it got bad enough to go, the attacks had disappeared (about a month). Two years ago was the worst, and by then we had done quite a bit of research. It was unbearble so we went to the emergency clinic. The doctor gave him 3 different prescriptions. One of them was morphine but I can't remember the names of the other two. My husband did not like how the morphine made him feel and the other two didn't work at all (I can't remember the names or doses). Oxygen kept coming up in the research and so we went back to the clinic and specifically asked for that. The doctor was skeptical and obviously didn't know much about CH, but gave it to us. I can't believe he didn't want to, since he was so quick to give drugs before. Oxygen is so much safer than potent drugs! My husband had the oxygen for about 6 weeks, and went off work for about a month because the attacks were so bad and unpredictable. I read something about finding a good neurologist. Good doctors are not easy to come by here and it seems you almost have to rely on your own researching skills to figure out what you need. The plan right now is to go back to the clinic and ask for the oxygen. Right now the attack phase is in its early stages and they are not coming hard and often yet, but my husband says that's how it works at first and he knows what's coming. No hunting, no work, no leaving the house for the next little while.... :( This D3, calcium, magnesium cocktail looks interesting and I want to research more about it. Is this something that will take weeks before you see any results of it works, or will it make a difference right away? Honestly, my fear as a bystander is for him to end up with more problems by trying all these potent drugs, mushrooms, etc... For me, that's the scariest, but I understand that he may have to try some of these things if nothing else works. We aren't there yet, but I realize we may face that very soon. |
Title: Re: Hello Post by helplesswife on Oct 21st, 2012 at 11:53am
Sorry, I should have mentioned that the ER doc did refer my husband to a neurologist who did a quick workup and did diagnose him with Cluster headaches. Finding specialist is not difficult, finding a good one can be. Wait times are phenomenal around her as well. The neurologist he saw basically gave him a quick workup, gave him some prescriptions and did not offer follow up. It's frustrating when you deal with a doctor that doesn't work with you, look for solutions, ask alot of questions to try to understand what you are going through. It was a couple of years ago, but I clearly remember that seeing the neurologist did not feel like we were getting any additional support with this, hence our independent research. I suppose we can ask to see him again for this new episode, but yes, other serious issues have been ruled out and it is definitely cluster headaches.
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Title: Re: Hello Post by Bob Johnson on Oct 21st, 2012 at 3:49pm
Your story is all too common with Cluster folks: either poor docs or specialists not available.
Nulmber of our members (including me): ID any doc who you like and who is open to receiving medical information about Clusters. We have had success educating such docs, providing them with MEDICAL material about how to treat us. My doc came to trust me so that I could get anything I asked for, as long as backed up by supportive medical material. Had a fine 25-yr run with him. If you want to try this approach, get back and we can supply material, some via this site, some books which you can buy. In a large city, local medical centers/large hospitals, will have medical libraries where you can copy the journals, etc. which they have. |
Title: Re: Hello Post by helplesswife on Oct 22nd, 2012 at 6:29pm
No, you are right, he did not have the non-rebreather mask, bag, no holes, etc...just a small plastic mask that goes over the nose and mouth. I will pass on the info. Thank you!
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Title: Re: Hello Post by helplesswife on Oct 26th, 2012 at 7:00pm
Thanks for the info. After tons of research and discussion, we are going to look into one of the alternative treatments and hope that the positive info we are coming across works for him. Let you know what happens...
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Title: Re: Hello Post by Skyhawk5 on Oct 27th, 2012 at 2:14am
The alternatives work for many but not me. They have a tendancy to make it worse before it gets better. O2 is handy for these times.
If your husband has a beard the O2pti mask comes with a mouthpiece. These masks are made only for CH. Tell your husband I feel for him, I've been where he is and will be again. When I am suffering is the worst time for me to make decisions that need to be made. Don |
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