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Message started by Jeannie on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 10:51am

Title: A request...
Post by Jeannie on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 10:51am
To those of you who pray.   Two years ago, I told you of my sister's husband, Tom, a Vietnam vet and retired police officer, who had been put on the heart transplant list.   

Yesterday, his heart stopped beating 12 times.  Doctors worked from 7 till 11 to get it going again.  Today he is on a respirator.  His kidneys have failed and there is concern that he no longer has any brain function.   

My heart breaks for my sister and her children, young adults who still need their dad.  If you could remember them in your prayers, I would be grateful.  Please just ask that God be with them and comfort them in whatever the outcome may be. 

Love,

Jeannie

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Post by Jimi on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 11:01am
Your sister and her family have my prayers.

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Post by Brew on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 11:36am
Done.

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Post by QnHeartMM on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 11:59am
So sad Jeannie, especially this time of year. Will certainly keep all in our prayers.

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Post by Jackie on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 12:15pm
Keeping them in our thoughts and prayers.....

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Post by midwestbeth on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 12:25pm
You got it, Jeannie.

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Post by helplessnow on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 12:48pm
Sending prayers for them. :(  So sorry to hear of their anguish at this time of year. 

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Post by Jeannie on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 12:56pm
Thank you all.  I appreciate it more than you know.

I just heard from my sister.   Tom's brain is damaged and they believe that he will no longer benefit from a new heart.  He is being removed from the list.   Now the decision needs to be made whether to keep him on life support or not. 

Thank you again for your prayers. 


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Post by Brew on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 4:03pm
What a horrible position to be in. Prayers for your entire family, Jeannie.

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Post by vietvet2tours on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 4:50pm
Prayers from Montana.

     Potter

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Post by Linda_Howell on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 5:06pm
Oh Jeannie, I am so sorry and I hope you can feel our hugs.

I just lit my candle and will be praying for everyone.

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Post by Jackie on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 5:09pm
I'm so sorry.... :'(

My heart aches for anyone having to make this decision.  Having been there I can't imagine anything being harder.  God bless them.

Holding them all in my heart and saying prayers.

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Post by Lenny on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 5:58pm
i am very sorry to hear of this...your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers.....with much sadness,Lenny

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Post by flipperlips on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 7:32pm
Prayers, vibes and juju on the way.....

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Post by deltadarlin on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 7:32pm
Prayers from Louisiana.

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Post by jon019 on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 7:47pm
All I got Jeannie...family hug from this family to yours.

Best,

Jon

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Post by Guiseppi on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 7:56pm
[smiley=hug.gif]

Yough time of the year to face this Jeannie, all our love.

Joe

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 9:07pm
Prayers from Canada for you and your family. 

Hugs
Carol

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Post by Callico on Dec 22nd, 2011 at 9:13pm
Praying.

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Post by Jeannie on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 9:17am
My sister, Sandy, made the decision to let Tom go.  He died peacefully, last night, surrounded by his family and many friends.  As he had been awaiting a new heart, Sandy found it fitting that she donate his corneas and skin tissue to others who need a miracle of their own.   This donation will help two blind people regain their sight and will benefit burn victims and even women who have undergone mastectomy surgery. 

Thank you all, again, for your love, prayers and support.

Jeannie

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Post by sandie99 on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 9:49am
Jeannie,

Prayers are on their way from Finland.


Sanna

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Post by QnHeartMM on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 10:14am
Hugs to all. It's wonderful your sister was able to extend the gift of sight and skin tissues to others.

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Post by Melissa on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 10:35am
Prayers of peace and comfort in Gods arms for your sister and children as well for all who knew and loved him.

How wonderful of he and your sister to give such precious gifts!!

Hugs,
mel  [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by midwestbeth on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 11:44am
Condolences to you and your family, Jeannie.  What a generous gift for her to give.

Hugs,
Beth

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Post by flipperlips on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 12:13pm
Such a tough decision to make at this time of year.

So very sorry for your families loss.  We will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

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Post by Jackie on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 2:54pm
I'm so sorry....deepest sympathies to all.   :'( :'(


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Post by Mike NZ on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 3:11pm
Jeannie, you and your family are in my thoughts.

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Post by Lenny on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 3:42pm
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( very sorry to hear this.....Lenny

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Post by Charlie on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 7:29pm
Thoughts and prayers, Jeannie

Charlie

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Dec 23rd, 2011 at 7:34pm
So sorry to hear this sad news, but what a wonderful blessing Tom has left behind.  Condolences to the family.

Hugs
Carol

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Post by Kevin_M on Dec 24th, 2011 at 7:55am
An angel waited ready for him.  My condolences to sis, family, and yours.

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Post by Callico on Dec 25th, 2011 at 1:53am
I'm so sorry Jeannie.  Praying for your family.

Jerry

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Post by Mosaicwench on Dec 25th, 2011 at 9:24am
Our deepest sympathies.  Love you Jeannie.

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Post by Jeannie on Dec 27th, 2011 at 9:19am
All of your kind words mean so much.  Thank you.

With the holiday, things have been a little drawn out.  Today will be the visitation with the funeral and burial tomorrow.   He will be laid to rest in the Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. It should be a beautiful ceremony with the police bagpipes and full military honors.

My head has been very active this past week or so.  02 seems to be losing its effectiveness and, on one occasion, my Trex failed me.  I'm not used to having to endure that kind of pain anymore.  I'm praying my CH lets me get through the next two days.   

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