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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Getting to Know Ya >> New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1276508688 Message started by tarijo on Jun 14th, 2010 at 5:44am |
Title: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 14th, 2010 at 5:44am
Hi. I am the new wife of a clusterhead. We've been married almost a year. He is 6'3, 220 pounds, drives a payloader, carhauler and a 4x4 truck. And right now it's 4 in the morning and he is sitting in front of the ac unit at the kitchen table (where he has spent most of his nights for the past 4 weeks) with an ice pack on his neck and a bucket at his feet. And I can't make the pain go away.............I can't help him. I want desperately to wrap my little arms around his big strong body and take it all away............
He's suffered from these for 20 years now. I tried to get the doc to give us a script for O2 like you all say, but she won't do it because we don't have insurance. We make just a little too much for state aid and not enough to afford insurance. I want to make another appointment for him in the morning, I want to beg her for the O2. I just don't know what to say. Doctors intimidate me. They know more than me. He wants to try for a script for the Imitrex, too. He wants that first. He says when they gave it to him in the hospital it was like an off switch. There's alot of information on this site. Almost too much to process. I have filled a page in the hour I've been on tonight. Seems I have alot of research to do. He's so worth it! Hoping for O2 and Imitrex!! |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by RuVa on Jun 14th, 2010 at 7:37am
Hi there,
I'm sorry for you and your husband. Not a supporter myself but a sufferer. Imitrex works like a charm to me but knocks me out cold. It is pretty expensive in Belgium and probably much more difficult to get your hands on than O2. I don't use O2 but have an appointment scheduled to discuss it with my doctor. You know, topics like this dazzle me. People who are in dire need of specific treatment should not suffer more than they have to, insurance or not, government aid possible or not... It is the government who should make sure that people can get the treatment they need to get! It makes me angry... tarijo, I'm pretty new here myself (just a couple of weeks) but don't be intimidated by the info on this site. Ask al the questions you need, there are a lot of wonderful and helpful people here who can be quite understanding, posses a lot of experience and can therefore provide a lot of information on several different domains. I hope your hsuband will get rid of his attacks soon and that the pain will stop! Take care. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by QnHeartMM on Jun 14th, 2010 at 9:29am
Tarijo - Do print out the information on Oxygen here and take to the doctor. We often find that when a doctor thinks that oxygen is too expensive is because he/she thinks the sufferer needs a concentrator 24/7 and yes that would be expensive. Your husband needs a tank with a regulator that exceeds 15 LPM (25 would be better) and a non-rebreather mask (which you can buy here if the supplier cannot provide.)
This set up is much cheaper than the measly 6 imitrex shots my husband is allowed through insurance. We actually get 8 tanks of 02 at a time and that way when he goes through the first 5-6 I can call for more. Thank you for helping him. If you want to chat more about the support aspect please see us down in the supporters corner. We'd be glad to visit with you. Christy |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Charlie on Jun 14th, 2010 at 9:39am Quote:
Not necessarily so don't let them do that. Look around and maybe go armed with some of the good info found here. Lots of it if necessary. A good neurologist may be the answer but then without insurance, it would be tricky. A neurological exam is very non invasive and very boring, by the way. You might be able to find a way to obtain O2. For now, here is something to try that worked for me: Dr. Wright’s Circulatory Technique I am not sure what mechanism is triggered by this but whatever it is, at least indirectly helps kill the pain. This technique has nothing to do with meditation, relaxation, or psychic ability. It is entirely physical and takes some work. It involves concentrating on trying to redirect a little circulation to the arms, hands, or legs. Increased circulation will result in a reddening and warming of the hands. As silly as it sounds, try to think of it as filling your hand with redirected circulation. The important part is that it has to be done without interruption until it works. Do not give up in frustration. It may not work on the first try. Sometimes it can work quicky but it almost always worked after a time. Try experimenting between attacks. You will find that it gets easier with practice. I was given less than five minutes instruction in the use of this method. The doctor, while placing his arm on his desk, showed me that he could slightly increase his arm and hand circulation. After several attempts, I was able to repeat this procedure and use it successfully. I had about a 75% success rate shortening these attacks. My 20 minute hits were often reduced to 10 minutes or less. Once proven that I had a chance to deal with this horror, I always gave it a try as I had nothing to lose but pain. I used to try to imagine I was pushing blood away from my head into my arm. Use your imagination. There is one man who wrote that his standing barefoot on a concrete floor shortened his attacks. This draws some circulation away from the head and sounds good to me. Cold water, exercise, or anything affecting circulation, seems to be worth a try. My suggestion is to not let up immediately when the pain goes. Waiting a minute is probably a good idea. This technique is very useful while waiting for medication to take effect or when none is available. It costs nothing, is non-invasive, and can be used just about anywhere. It is not a miracle but it helped me deal with this horror. It can be a bit exhausting but the success rate was good enough for me and a cluster headache sufferer will do just about anything to end the pain. I hope this technique is helpful and I wish you the best of luck. Good to meet you too. Charlie |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Chad on Jun 14th, 2010 at 1:04pm
I didn't even get through your whole post and I irritates the heck out of me that the doc won't prescribe O2.
It should be no business to them if you have insurance or not. You can pay out of your pocket like a lot of us do, but without the Rx it can be frustrating unless your hubby has some welder buddies or contacts. We all know what he is going through...those years of suffering without abortive techniques/drugs. Keep at the doc for that Rx. Read or print as much as you can on here to get more info. Have your hubby try 6 or more mg of Melatonin/night (I've used 9mg in the past) to get a good nights rest. Energy drinks with 1000mg of Taurine at the first sign of a CH. Just read, read and read some more. PM any of us with questions that you don't feel comfortable asking us here. Best of luck and I wish your hubby some PF days real soon :) |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Guiseppi on Jun 14th, 2010 at 3:25pm
Welcome to the board.....supporters rock our world. ;) Sadly my poor wife has been there almost since these damned things started. We do hate how much it affects you guys.
Look into welders oxygen. It is exaclty the same as what's in the medical bottles and many people here already use it. When my insurance wasn't paying for my 02 I was renting E-tanks for $4.25 a month, and refilling them for $11-$13 apiece. Welders 02 is even cheaper. Do check out our supporters section, lotta pretty neat people who have been and are, where you are now. [smiley=hug.gif] Joe |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by bcsanders on Jun 14th, 2010 at 9:35pm
Tarijo,
Hang in there. I am a sufferer not a supporter, but in this case knowledge is power. Use this site (most of all) and other sites where they explain CH. Sometimes it is difficult for the patient to put in words what they need. You need to be his advocate. If you inform a doctor on the condition and you feel they are giving you a run around and not believing you, just keep asking "Why". Let them keep explaining themselves until you feel you have gotten an adequate answer. If they can't explain themselves, find another doctor. You know more than you think. Good luck. Brett C. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Linda_Howell on Jun 14th, 2010 at 10:43pm Quote:
I seem to be the 3rd. one to copy and paste what you wrote and say something about it. At one of our conventions we had a speaker who told us this: Doctors get exactly 5 hours of training in medical school on headaches. (let that sink in ) humming to myself. 5 whole hours!!!!!!! That is 5 hours on every type of headaches. Can you see why we have to do the research, the advocacy for ourselves? This site has more information on this condition than anywhere else. It was put together from years of research and learning by those of us who suffer and from the very very few Neurologists that we have on our side. Please look into welding oxygen due to the fact that you have no Insurance. I have both, but my medical 02 is only 10.00 per tank and is very affordable. Please stick around as I know you must have a 1000 questions. Linda |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Mike NZ on Jun 14th, 2010 at 11:39pm Quote:
Don't be intimidated by doctors. They are only human, just like you and I. The only difference is that they've been to medical school and most of us here haven't. With the amount of information on here, in a few hours you'll know so much more than they ever learnt at medical school, which will have concentrated mainly on standard headaches and migranes. I suspect that cluster headaches might have got little more than a passing mention. Once a doctor is working as a GP, it is likely that due to the relative rareity of cluster headaches that they have only come accross a handful of sufferes at the most. This means that a doctor is more likely to be intimidated by you knowing more than they do. A good doctor should be pleased that a partner of a sufferer has taken the time to learn as much as they can about cluster headaches as it will make it easier for them. Print out the information Bob posted in this thread and give your doctor a copy too. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Kate in Oz on Jun 15th, 2010 at 10:43am
Hey Tarijo,
Good to see you both made it here!! Kate (facebook) |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 16th, 2010 at 1:10am
It was you? THANK YOU SO MUCH!! [smiley=hug.gif] Thank you!
This site has been so very good for us! He wasn't gonna check it out at first. It was the oxygen thing I told him about. He went out and tried our torch oxygen. When that worked and the ideas about the frozen hat and frozen bandanna helped, and I kept reading little things to him he checked it out. I am so glad he did. THANK YOU AGAIN! I can't thank you enough!!! |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 16th, 2010 at 1:51am
All of your replies are so very appreciated! We've been working on the oxygen thing all day. The doctor that we seen last week at the hospital was actually a nurse practitioner who had worked for many years with neurologists. When I called her yesterday to make another appointment she said she wanted Perry to go to a neurologist and after calling in some favors she got an appt for him for this Thursday afternoon. Otherwise it was a 4-6 week wait. Way too long. She says that they always have samples of meds for cluster sufferers to try. I'm very hopeful.
We run an auto salvage yard out here and have access to welding oxygen. I did find out that the only difference between medical O2 and welding O2 is that they "vacuum" out the medical tanks before refilling them. Those things are pretty well sealed anyway. I can't imagine how anything could into the tanks anyways. I'm just not sure which regulator we're suppose to look for. M tank is the size we use for our torch. I need to call the company we use to fill those tanks. ANONYMOUSLY and ask if they require a script for those medical tanks. Or find out how much the deposit on more tanks will be. I had Perry pick up some melotonin at the grocery store today. I had read the name several times on here, but really had no idea you could buy it anywhere. He grabbed the 5 mg, though. We'll go tomorrow and pick up the 3 mg, too. I want more people to be aware of this condition. I feel like screaming when someone says "oh-migraines, huh? I've had those". NO. IT"S NOT A MIGRAINE! I've had migraines, I have chiari headaches constantly-but they are NOTHING -ABSOLUTELY NOTHING compared to what I have seen my beloved husband go through. Compared to what I've read other people go through with these hellish attacks. I want to make more people aware of the use of the Psychedelic drugs to help with these. Knowledge is power. The more people know. The better. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Kate in Oz on Jun 16th, 2010 at 7:51am
It was a little unorthodox.... but it worked ;)
[smiley=hug.gif] |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Chad on Jun 16th, 2010 at 9:20am
tarijo,
If you have those "M" tanks, purchase the optimask from the ch.com store on the left of your screen and get a regulator that blasts 15LPM or higher. Your other half should know the fitting size which should be a CGA-540 on those large tanks. Once you have that, get him on the tank at the very first sign and you should see great success once he gets it down. I just started O2 therapy this cycle and my aborts are at 100% within 5 minutes or less. Best of luck! Chad |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 16th, 2010 at 12:37pm
Awesome success rate, Chad! :) 5 minutes! Oh, to have him not hurting that fast!!
I have a friend who was an engineer in the army. He is really good at fixing mechanical things. He says he can make us a regulator that will work for this. Just show him the picture he says and he can do it. Was kind of wondering if that was -idk- ok? Personally I would rather have one from ebay. But I still wonder about making one. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Chad on Jun 16th, 2010 at 1:40pm tarijo wrote on Jun 16th, 2010 at 12:37pm:
The ones on Ebay that go from 0-15LPM are pretty cheap in price. The ones that go 15LPM and higher can get a little pricey. Get your engineer buddy to toy around with the regulator you already have on those tanks. You should be able to adapt the hose that goes to the mask with adapters you can buy online or medical supply stores. Best of luck! |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by bejeeber on Jun 16th, 2010 at 5:32pm
IMO if you're getting a hi flow regulator, you should get one that will go up to at least 25 LPM - some of the power users on here (and power users in training, like me) will hit that O2 at more like 40 LPM for a short while, hyperventilating.
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Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 16th, 2010 at 5:57pm
I need a conversion. psi to lpm. I found one. 1 psi = .3975. Not sure if that correct, though. I came out with 50 psi=20 lpm , therefore 150 psi = 60 lpm. Does anyone know if that sounds right?
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Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by deltadarlin on Jun 17th, 2010 at 9:03am
I looked and found nothing that converts psi to lpm. One has to do with pressure and the other has to do with flow rate.
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Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Chad on Jun 17th, 2010 at 9:20am
The gauge on the regulator should have PSI on it which is how much "pressure" is left in the tank. I look at it as a "gas gauge". Your LPM is the "flow" rate or how fast that O2 is leaving the tank. There is no conversion for this because they deal with two different conversions.
1 liter per minute is equal to 0.264 gallons per minute That is your metric to english conversion. |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Heavy Metal on Jun 19th, 2010 at 5:11am
I looked at our gauges today and funny enough in smaller red print it said lpm. so the torch o2 will work and the regulator, i only have one hesitation in using it so much. If any, ANY moisture gets into that iron tank it will rust and Im not to keen on inhaling rust particles into my lungs. emergency use I think
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Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Guiseppi on Jun 19th, 2010 at 9:31am
If I understand correctly from my old scuba days......
The only threat of rust is drawing your tank down to zero. As long as you have even 50 pounds of pressure reading on the gauge.......you have positive pressure and nothing can get into the tank. Joe |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by tarijo on Jun 19th, 2010 at 10:04am
I wonder if we could have Linweld take a look inside to make sure that its clear of rust. Or ask for new tanks. IDK. It's hard to figure some of this stuff out and I feel like idiot asking so many questions. But then if I don't ask-I will never know and then I really will look like an idiot!!
Still think we should've grabbed the tanks yesterday. 2 of them. Even if we didn't have the regulator for it. Just in case. I see my hubby was posting at 5 this morning. Gives me an idea how much sleep he's had. He was having tingles on his left side last night. Please, God, no!! He always has them on the right. Tingles on both sides. At the same time. I was wondering if it isn't trying to run away from the meds. Although if the beast was as smart as it thinks it is, it would know that the meds will work on both sides! |
Title: Re: New Wife of a 20 Year Sufferer in IA Post by Chad on Jun 19th, 2010 at 10:26am
Tarijo,
Never feel like an idiot for asking a question. We all did the same when we first found this site. I'd rather ask then sit in pain. Now, I use the medical tanks, but a ton on here use the welder tanks and they have had no issues with the dirt in the interior escaping. I would think it's almost impossible for a spec of rust or dirt to proceed through the fittings in the regulator. I would get the tanks and start using them as soon as he has an onset or shadow headache. The sooner you jump on that tank, the sooner you abort. If it doesn't work right away, keep on trying maybe every 10 minutes and continue ask questions. Mr. Batch seems to be the master on here and he would be a great person to ask questions. If it does work right the first time, stay on it for an addition 5 or so minutes after the pain is gone to be sure you killed the hit. Best of luck! Chad |
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