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Title: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by sandie99 on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 1:57pm
God works mysterious ways. It never stops to amaze me.
Today I said goodbye to my friend Eeva. She had a beautiful funeral and the feeling was as warm as she was (though the weather wasn't). It was good to see a packed chapel filled with people who loved and missed Eeva a lot. It did saddened me that the priest clearly didn't know that much about Eeva - she admitted that she had only had a "short" conversation with Eeva's family. I know that time is a luxury many of us don't have, but still. I wish she would have spend a bit more time getting to know more about Eeva... I found out that Eeva had known about my boyfriend- she had seen me and Esa taking a walk at my home street. I had not known that she had seen us and hearing that tiny piece of news warmed my heart, because I had wished so much that I could have introduced Esa to Eeva and now, in a way, I had. :) As soon as we left the funeral, it begun to rain. It felt appriate. When I got back home, I lit a candle to Eeva's memory. :) Sanna |
Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by Jeannie on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 2:15pm
Sorry for the loss of your friend, Sanna.
Jeannie |
Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by sandie99 on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 2:30pm
Thank you, Jeannie. :)
Sanna |
Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by barry_sword on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 7:58pm
Very touching. So sorry. :'(
Barry&Angie [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] |
Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by purpleydog on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 8:18pm
Sunshine is good, Sanna. [smiley=hug.gif]
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Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by Marc on Oct 22nd, 2009 at 8:22pm
I like your outlook in dealing with the loss of your friend.
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Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by George on Oct 23rd, 2009 at 1:49am
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Your friend was fortunate to have a friend like you. I'm sorry for your loss, Sanna. All the best, George |
Title: Re: Rays of sunshine on a tough day Post by sandie99 on Oct 23rd, 2009 at 2:27pm
Thank you all for your posts. :)
I'm so glad that I was allowed to take a day off from work. It would have been so odd to go there for just a half and hour before the funeral or go back after, knowing that my head is not anywhere near the pieces I need to work on (and I actually left the for home past 5pm, which means that it would have been way too late to go back to work.) Sanna |
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