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(Message started by: Margi on Aug 13^th, 2003, 10:28pm)

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Margi on Aug 13^th, 2003, 10:28pm

Ree you ARE one of the best supporters here. You know that as well as I do.

Is it time to take yourself out for coffee? Or lock yourself in the bathroom and have a candlit bubble bath for an hour? Take some Ree time and find your focus again. You can do it this time - you've done it before. As to Breezy - she'll get through this. She's your kid, remember? She comes from pretty damn good stock if you ask me. Maybe take her out to a movie and just find some girl time.

you know where to find me girl.

love
Margi

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Woobie on Aug 13^th, 2003, 11:03pm

I'm so sorry Ree.

The kids and I just leave. Ramon doesn't want anyone seeing him.. especially the kids.. so I make sure he has all his ammo, and doesn't need anything.. and then we just take off.. shopping, park, etc.

He calls me when he's feeling better, and the kids usually dont have a clue why we left, but they get to spend quality time with me, and probably get something new when we go shopping. I dont sit there and watch Ramon suffer trying to figure out what to say to him, or if i should say anything at all....
, and Ramon doesn't feel stupid... he can run around the whole house naked and screaming if he wants.. and no one to see him in his pain.

that's just what we do. And, Ramon seems to prefer us to not be there.

At first, I had a hard time with this. .. leaving him alone.. but.. it's what he wants.. and it seems to work out best for everyone. HERE atleast.

And, we're still new at this..

I hope things get better for you, Ree. Hang in there!

tina :-*

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Woobie on Aug 20^th, 2003, 12:45am

Hey Ree - what happened to your post??

i just wanted to post to see how you're doing now.

tina :-*

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Ree on Aug 20^th, 2003, 11:01pm

Dave is getting hit about twice a day for the past few days. On Saturday he actually had a break for 36 hours into Sunday some time... WE were thankful for the sleep and he is doing much better.
The reason for my missing post is that I actually thought about deleting all my posts from here... and started with this one... I thought all of thepeoples posts would just disappear under them... I'm a little disgusted at a few matters that have happened here over the past few days, but realize that the Cluster Headache in my house is my most important matter. If it sounds selfish so be it. Im going to be checking in periodically and reading the board when I can but for now I need a break.
I cannot believe how one person has tried to divide the board in two... not caring about the integrity here. Destroying friendships in the wake of a recent thread. The integrity of CH.com and OUCH ARE MOST IMPORTANT AND THIS FORUM SHOULD NOT BE USED FOR THE PEYTON PLACE ATTENTION THAT SOME PEOPLE SO DESPERATELY NEED. I think a lot of supporters and sufferers alike feel this way. I know that there are those that are finished here and will be sadly missed. Ree

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Darleen on Aug 21^st, 2003, 12:09pm

Ree,

I don't know what to say except that I hear the pain in your words and hope that whatever is going on will soon pass.

Glad to hear that Dave a break and hope that the break continues.

D :)

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by Woobie on Aug 21^st, 2003, 3:34pm

Ree --

I "ditto" what Darleen said. is this why Margi left too?

DAMMIT!!!

this pisses me off!!!

Ree.. dont leave. Take a break .. by all means.. but done leave! We need you here.

We need Margi too.

WTF??

tina :-*

Title: Re: THIS IS KILLING ME...
Post by cootie on Aug 21^st, 2003, 10:41pm

Stay here for 'everybody else'.......don't leave here "for them" !!! Pam that hopes you all stay and don't let them chase you away :-/

Hope Dave is doin better......I pick up and leave too when Brad gets hit......I go outside or into town or whatever......I get busy elsewhere.....he doesn't want me to hang around him. I set out what he needs and leave the room fer both our sakes...even my cats take off and stay upstairs. He wants total quiet and dark. It's not like leavein em when they been injured even tho it almost feels that way to us.