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(Message started by: Ree on Dec 9th, 2002, 6:32pm)

Title: Sorry...
Post by Ree on Dec 9th, 2002, 6:32pm
that I haven't been around much lately... We have been having some family issues.. Dave and I are fine... it's the little one.  She is having some problems with head pain go figure Mom is a Migrainer Dads a Ch'er... so we're hanging in there... its effecting school and everything. Life aint easy... ree

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by cootie on Dec 9th, 2002, 10:46pm
Hope everthin will be ok for you and your family....I am suprised how many young kids these days have serious ha's or severe sinus problems and asthma....'bad nuff to cause health issues for them functioning normal.......good luck !! I know ALOT of people that suffer migraines......an alarming amount is what I mean !!

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Ted on Dec 10th, 2002, 12:20am
Ree, I'm sorry you're having to deal with this all. It must be so awful as a mother watching your daughter go through any type of headache.
I also hope to hell you've received a lot of mail because I can't believe how little response you've gotten here, especially considering how much support you've given others on this site. You should have 1,000 responses to this. And I'm afraid I see 2, including mine. That's bullshit. Wake up folks. The one person who comes here everyday and offers support and listens, mouth shut how migraineurs are wimps while suffering through migraines herself, just told you all something bad is happening in her life. And you all sit thre. ready to whine again and hope she'll offer a shoulder. Why don't one of you who accepted her concern show some back to her? I'll shut up now, besides telling you, Ree, I hope the best for you and Breezy.

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Cathi on Dec 10th, 2002, 12:31am
Ree-So sorry to hear your daughter is having trouble too- so sad to be so young-I can't help but think how lucky she is, though, to have such a great mom to help her deal with this. You've got strength and you know you've got so many here who are ready to listen, help, offer a shoulder......I hope your Breezy will be well.

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Jill on Dec 10th, 2002, 12:41am
 I can not offer much but I can offer my hopes that all will work out for you and your family.

 I know how hard it is to get through school with head pain and all that flows along with it but I also know what a great supporter you are and your daughter is very lucky to have you.

 You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I am sorry that that is alll that I can offer to you.

Jill

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by tanner on Dec 10th, 2002, 3:16am
hi ree, my love and supporter, lin is finally getting some sleep. something i take away from her all too often as i'm sure you know. if a wish and a prayer from a stranger will help you've got it. i'm sending all the good juju i can muster your way !!! :) :D

                                                 tim

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by woobie on Dec 10th, 2002, 7:58am
:'( :'(   I'm sorry Ree!!   Please Give her a kiss for me!  

That is just NOT right.. NOone, much less a child, should have to go thru this BS***.    

MAN!  Hang in there Ree!  ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) to you and your WHOLE family.

Tina

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Margi on Dec 10th, 2002, 9:54am
My Dear Mrs. Reeba-Nana Orangebod...

I've been offline recently too and I felt the ass-kick that Ted sent out in this thread, and rightly so.  Sorry it's taken me 'til now to find this thread.  But you know I'm here for you always.

Do you actually KNOW how lucky your lil girl is, lady?  To have YOU for a mom, I mean?  Man, if there's ever a kid destined to have headaches, what better support system could she ask for, than you and Dave?  I pity the unfortunate doctor that would try to give you the runaround and blame Breezy's head pain on impending hormones or try to blow you off in any way.  It would REALLY suck to be that guy or gal!

My heart goes out to you, Ree - it's one thing to watch your spouse go through pain and be powerless to stop it, but at least they're adults.  Pain in children is just not fair - not even a little bit.  

Know that we will always be your soft place to land, ok?  We may also be powerless to stop Breezy's pain, but we can help you with yours ok?

You know where to find me, my friend.

Hugs





Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Peppermint on Dec 10th, 2002, 10:11am
Hi again Ree,

(TEd.. I hear what you're saying... I've not been coming to this board very often. )
Ree,
Great that you and Dave are doing well.
I'm sorry about Breezy... I wouldn't even know what to hope to say it could be... :(
Just know you have a friend who will listen and offer whatever support I can give to you... you have been so very supportive to me... and its the only way to give back to a friend.  
Hang in there sweetie.....the bright side is as everyone else above has said, you have a lot of knowledge and experience to work with, besides being a tough cookie.  If you have to, I know you'll be ready and armed.
We'll talk soon,
Peppermint ;)

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Margi on Dec 10th, 2002, 10:32am
Yeah, Peppermint, I'm surprised you haven't been 'coming to this board' much.  I thought you were wanting to be one of the supporters.
You're right about Ree, though - she is one tough lil cookie.  

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Jackie on Dec 10th, 2002, 10:43am
Good Morning Ree,
My heart goes out to you....enough is enough.
I'm hoping that there will be relief soon.
You're a strong gal and will tend to what you need to.
Keep the faith....what an understatement to you.
Keep us posted when you can.

Love and Hugs,
Jackie


Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Peppermint on Dec 10th, 2002, 12:33pm

on 12/10/02 at 10:32:20, Margi wrote:
Yeah, Peppermint, I'm surprised you haven't been 'coming to this board' much.  I thought you were wanting to be one of the supporters.

You're right Margi...  :(
I don't know... I find it impossible to know what its like to walk in a "true" supporter's shoes.  So I been chicken to be in here.   What can I say.  
Sometimes I find helping people through the rough times is all I can do.  My support has been in a different way than coming here I guess.  I'm afraid to say the wrong thing here.... all I can really do is provide morale support for those who have needed or wanted it.   :-/

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Ree on Dec 10th, 2002, 9:53pm
Hi again~~~~Thanks Troop... Wow I am so surprised with the response here ... Ted told me that he posted here (He is such a friend) and I came to look and found ALL of my friends supporting ME... sheesh...
 This all started with me appologizing for not being there for you guys remember... I am really fine... my daughter had a great day.(today) Her teacher really sucks... and Margi, a funny thing~~~they already are blaming hormones and she is only 8 years old... Tanner thankyou for that really nice post... you have a wonderful supporter too. Margi, Cathi, Pep Jackie, Cootie, Jill, Woobie and especially Ted... thankyou I am truly humbled by the love I feel from this family.  Thanks again I'll keep ya posted.               your buddy Ree

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by firebrix on Dec 11th, 2002, 1:07am
Sorry to hear you've been having such a difficult time Ree. I wish I could be of more help to you.
You know I'm always here; ready willing and able, should you need a little support.
Thinking of you all and wishing you happier days and NO PAIN.
Hugs and kisses
firebrix

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by rain on Dec 11th, 2002, 3:25am
I hope and pray that the little ones pain is gone.  I know how hard it is to see your child suffer...we watch as our spouses and loved ones suffer this CH pain but I guess somehow when it's our children's pain it just hurts our heart's...and as a mother we want so badly to take it all from them and offer them a world without it.... I know you must be going through so much stress right now...please try to stop ...sit down ...breath ....and just do the best you can ...one thing at a time*sigh* you are a wonderful helper to all here, and I can imagine at home you carry a big load ..just because you know no other way....you love. But you need to take care of you too..God bless, let us know if you need anything
Peace to you and your family...Rain

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Darleen on Dec 11th, 2002, 2:01pm
Hey Ree,

Been sorta busy with family stuff too (Dad hasn't been feeling good lately) so I'm still trying to catch up on stuff.  Sorry about all the stuff you and Dave are having to deal with but if anyone can the 2 of you certainly can.  Like Margi said I take pity on anyone trying to bullshit you guys.

Thinking of you all and lots of love going your way,
D :)

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Dec 11th, 2002, 9:47pm
Ree,
Vibes goin up to you.  This post isn't pressure from Ted, neither...I just noticed yer post :)

Moon that teacher too, would ya?  :)
Mast

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by Ree on Dec 13th, 2002, 11:51am
I would moon her if I didnt think that she would like it too much...lol  ree

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by KarenT on Dec 13th, 2002, 11:24pm
Ree,

I've been wallowing in my own sorrow for the last few months and didn't feel that I had anything to offer anyone in the way of support. But........... enough about me, how 'bout ya'll  :) ?  I hope things are improving for Breezy. Hormones...shmormones, what do doctors know?  ;)

Been missing ya,

KarenT

Title: Re: Sorry...
Post by cathy on Dec 14th, 2002, 8:43am


Hi Ree....sorry I didn't read this sooner....you have been so supportive to me lately, when all this was going on with you....God Bless You all and all my love to your daughter, thinking of you.
Cathy



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