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(Message started by: Ree on Aug 22nd, 2003, 9:35am)

Title: IRONIC.............
Post by Ree on Aug 22nd, 2003, 9:35am
IRONIC thats the only word that I can think of...That the time I needed you all the most you turn and run.  That when we at our house are hurting the most you stab us when we arent looking.  In my post I had said I would be reading the board periodically and taking a break because "the cluster headache in my house was the most important matter right now".  I worked all day to come on after and find that Margi had left, and now rumors of me leaving too... well as you see I am not gone... I know now that will dissappoint some of you that think all I am is a Meegrainer... whether that is the case or not I have been here supporting during my husbands wholllllllllllllllllle remission period of about 3 years.  Now when I need the support for MY SUFFERER  this board is so wound up in trivia and fighting that there is no one paying attention to the true CAUSE... I have been insulted and lied to by people I thought were my friends.  People that don't even realize what they do with their hateful words... Im afraid to say what this really is about for fear it will be deleted so what is the point... The board is divided thats all I can say...We used to be a family.  I dont feel that anymore... I used to feel like someone here I don't anymore.  I felt useful and helpful and I don't anymore.  You can see this as whining I see it as truth... Those of you that don't like me can keep your comments to yourself... why dont you like me??? can you honestly find a reason???Honestly I have never done anything to anyone here other than support them.  I try to stay away from the gossip. I could care less what someone does with their personal life.  This all started with a comment about someone trying to explain medication contents without ever having used or bought this prescription... and you know Margi and I were right and neither of us insulted anyone.  If the post was still up we could refer to it...Of course we cant now... I love Margi and she gave me the courage to come here and fight for a cause that made our family feel so alone.  If you cant understand that... If you would prefer to have strangers to our cause support you then so be it... please let this all drop and lets go back to the integrity that this board so richly deserves... I now have quite a few posts to my name and 99% are helpful posts and not flames...and not silly and not insulting... Maybe its the goodness in me that scares you.  I don't know... take care... Im taking a "BREAK"... sorry to bum you out.   If I see someone in need I will post.  and I will support the supporters that truly support...  Until my husband is cured or this site finally dies... I'll be checking in.   ree  
and Frank the turtle stays

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by cootie on Aug 22nd, 2003, 9:41am
Love you Ree !!! A fellow meegrainer and supporter also ( no one better touch that with a ten foot pole or else..........)  :)  Pam that is in a kicka ass mood  :o

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Jewel on Aug 22nd, 2003, 9:56am
Ree:  Please read your private messages.

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by fubar on Aug 22nd, 2003, 10:07am
Ree,

I think know I love you.  You are AWESOME.

;D

-Fu

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by TomM on Aug 22nd, 2003, 11:22am

on 08/22/03 at 10:07:12, fubar wrote:
Ree,

I think know I love you.  You are AWESOME.

;D

-Fu

Ditto. Luv you like a sister, that is.  

And...luv dat dam turtle!

TomM  8)

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by taraann on Aug 22nd, 2003, 12:47pm
Ree I sent you and email....

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by 9erfan on Aug 22nd, 2003, 1:15pm
Ree-

I don't know any of what happened, but you've got my support!

We need you here.

Love,
Virginia

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by kim on Aug 22nd, 2003, 1:19pm
Ree, if Dave (or you) need support, that has not changed.  

Nasty words spoken in a single glimpse of time cannot ever change that.

Well wishes.****

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Patrick_A on Aug 22nd, 2003, 1:23pm
Hey Ree,
             I aint got a clue whats happening, but you got my full support. Aint many times i get to support somebody!

Love ya, patrick

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Charlie on Aug 22nd, 2003, 2:08pm
If I have this right Patrick, it goes back to stuff I didn't think much about then as well as now.

Bleaugh

Glad you're still here Ree

Charlie

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by juvy on Aug 22nd, 2003, 4:22pm
Ree,

Check your mail.

*hugs*
Juvy

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by OneEyeBlind on Aug 22nd, 2003, 4:34pm
Huggs to ya Ree ......... I'm here if ya need me.  We've seen the nasties come and go.  Let's just leave them behind and get back to rowing the boat !!!!!!

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by M.R. on Aug 22nd, 2003, 5:43pm
   I have no idea what the big brewhaha (sp) is....but I am willing to stand up and support the supporters and Ree in particular. I owe Dave (and you too). I won't forget that ever. I'm sorry to hear that things are bad there, you have good vibes coming from me. Glad to hear that you are staying. Somedays I understand why I don't read all the posts here (even if I had time).

Peace out all

Mike

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by STABBINGPAIN on Aug 22nd, 2003, 5:57pm
  Hi Ree,
I'm new to this too and I'm with you .  Everyone here is our support link and if One person breaks the chain  it gives us all a pain.  GOT YOUR BACK SWEETY!

Karen /Stabbingpain

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by FrankF on Aug 22nd, 2003, 8:23pm
Hey Ree, I real do like you! You are a great supporter to Dave and many other CH sufferers here too! But the turtle that causes me to have epileptic seizures everytime I see it, must go.  ;D

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Edna on Aug 22nd, 2003, 9:48pm
Hey ree.....seems as though no one has anything negative to say NOW?????????????/


not sure what the hell has gone on while I wasn't able to read every single post here in the last few days......damn.......I sure in the hell hope that's NOT what this place is coming to, or else MANY people here will fast become disheartened!!!!!

Ree, you're doing a great job for Dave and yourself, keep it up pal

Still pf here for those who care,
EDNA

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by suzy617 on Aug 23rd, 2003, 6:55am
I thought you and Dave made a great couple together and I really enjoyed meeting you both.
Sorry Dave's been getting hit so bad lately, my thoughts are with him.
I hope I get to see you both again next year!

Suzy who wants to go to the baah in the caah with ya.. ;)

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by badfly on Aug 23rd, 2003, 9:18am
Ree my thaughts go out to you and your husband, I hope things start to get better at home soon.

Ree, (and Margi if you are reading the same goes for you) I just want to say that this is the nature of the board. Ppl here are individuals and ppl are imperfect. Bear in mind that all here on this board are going through tough times and have frayed nerves or are harbouring angst and or bad feelings in many different ways and forms. Who can blame them. I know that what ppl say, especially ppl close to you, can really hurt, but at the end of the day that hurt, although at the time it may feel different, is brief and will only amount to a few bits on some old hard drive one day. Ree, life at home must be a tremendous strain right now, and thats where you energys should be (I know you know this). Take a break if ya feel you need to but dont stomp off in anger and disgust pleeeaaasse. You are a wonderful person and EVERYONE here knows that, perhapse a few have forgotten. You inspired me and have showed me by example. You do make a difference and all these posts over the last few days in support of you, wishing you well, sending you vibes, asking you, no begging you to stay are proof that you are needed and wanted here. Margi I want you to know that if you have any doubt about why you ever posted let me put that to rest. I have been down and out and desperate. Searching for hope and encouragement, in times of dire despair you have lifted me up and pointed me forward.

Every day you fine ladies are away from this board will be ALL OUR losses.

LADIES STAY THE COURSE


John

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by don on Aug 25th, 2003, 12:04pm
I'd offer you both a big hug (OK maybe a handshake for Dave) but your friends with that BillL guy.

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by brain_cramps on Aug 25th, 2003, 12:28pm
Ree

I'm glad you decided to stick around.  Hopefully talk to you soon.

not being online much in the last couple of weeks, I missed everything that went on here.   (what else is new   ::))

the one thing i do know is that the MB has been thru some 'rough times' and arguments in the past and got through it.  every family has arguments.

i'm not sure if i really want to know what really went on here and i'm hoping that i'm not sticking my foot in my mouth    (blech   :P)

cmon people --- lets work together --- if we don't, do you really think anyone is gonna give a shit about finding a cure?

grant          ???

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by ozzman on Aug 25th, 2003, 12:41pm
Ree,

I'm glad the rumors on the subject of you leaving aren't true. We need our supporters!!! If someone does NOT need support, they might be in the wrong place.

Courage and Strength to you and Dave.


Ozzy

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Linda_Howell on Aug 25th, 2003, 1:29pm



              YOU ROCK LADY!!!!!!!

and so does Dave.  After reading your posts all along and then meeting you in NY, I know that you are a wonderful supporter and all-around good person.

                    Linda

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Ree on Aug 29th, 2003, 7:51pm
ok now this is a thread I will keep dear incase I am depressed...................LIKE NOW!!!!   I love you too fu!!! that was so sweet and the rest of you... thanks so much for loving me and those that dont go screw yourself because I have never done anything but give 110% here and you know it... ok I feel a little better... Now tell me my best friend isnt moving and I will erase this........................ life sux then ya die  


the turtle stays           love me

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by kim on Aug 29th, 2003, 8:13pm
Hey Ree Girl,

Glad you and turtle are stikin.  Why in the HELL anyone would say ya never gave over the top i can't fathom - cuz you always Give of Yourself.****

Yep, life's a bitch and then ya die.  Live and love while ya can cuz all too soon it's out of your hands.****

Well wishes.

No one can take away places in the heart.  They live forever ya know.  One person's heart might jes have a whole YOU can fill.  Now ain't that sumpin

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by CathiP on Aug 29th, 2003, 8:31pm
Things just keep getting scarier...I'm completely understanding Kimspeak now.....and (uh oh!)...I echo every word she said..... :o Smart, caring lady!
Ree, wishing you and Dave PF days and peaceful nights.
Cathi

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 29th, 2003, 8:47pm
Ree, I love you, dear, but unfortunately I have to disagree with you on one point.  I went in the back room and checked on the guage, and the reading is unmistakeable.  It clearly states that you have been giving 116.72%.   ;)

Also, maybe you can answer this question that George Carlin asked:
If a turtle doesn't have a shell, is he homeless or naked?

Love ya!!
Chuck

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Ree on Aug 30th, 2003, 12:48pm
http://tinyurl.com/lpdf

Mine is far from homeless.... I am going for naked as the answer Chuckles.... love you too and thankin Our Maker that you are ok.... ree

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by cathy on Aug 30th, 2003, 6:33pm
Ree....I love you and your turtle...hope Dave is doing okay.....hugs to you both....

Families stick together through thick and thin...

Cathy

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by nancyc on Aug 30th, 2003, 7:12pm
Glad to see you and the turtle back...I have not been online alot but someone had said you had left the mb...see how rumors start around here..You , Dave and your family have been in my prayers..take care and know there are people that do care about you..wish you could make it to FLorida in October....smiles,nancyc

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Cerebus on Aug 30th, 2003, 8:01pm
Cerberus reporting....

 I still love ya Ree :) :)
See....BOTH heads are smiling.

Ramon

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Charlie on Aug 30th, 2003, 9:00pm
Very glad to have you around for good. I love ya too.

More acoustic than your guy:

http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/turtle2.gif

Charlie

Title: Re: IRONIC.............
Post by Ted on Aug 30th, 2003, 11:51pm
That is the best picture I've ever seen! I'm still chuckling, Ree! Great shot!



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