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(Message started by: Drk^Angel on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:30pm)

Title: FUCK!
Post by Drk^Angel on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:30pm

I hate these fucking headaches... All they do is take and take and take... Nothing ever gets any better... It just keeps getting worse, and there's nothing anyone can do about it but complain about how fucked up I am... All I've ever wanted was a family that loves me, and someone to help support me through this Hell and try to understand, but the only ones that do is on this fucking box. No offense to any of you... You have helped me through a shitload more than I'll ever be able to thank y'all for, but I just feel like I need some real life interaction with someone who at least tries to understand, and tries to help, instead of complaining about how horrible I am for having these fucking things.

All you clusterheads who are lucky enough to have a supporter to love you, who tries to understand, and wants to help... You had better hug and thank your supporter as soon as you can, and as often as you can. Thank them for their care, and never take advantage of it.

To all the supporters... Thank you for what you do, and who you are. Keep up the good work. Even if your clusterhead doesn't say it often enough... It does help, and I'm sure they appreciate it more than you could ever know.

PFDAN...................................... Drk^Angel

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:36pm

You are so right about a supporter. I am really finding that out now. My wife of over 28 years has thrown me out. This series, that I am going thru now, is SOOO much harder here by myself, even though I need to be alone when I am actually having one.

All you and I (and all the others) can do is, somehow, make it till the next hour, and then the next, and then the next, etc.

My heart goes out to ya.

Chuck

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by 2late on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:37pm

it totally sucks that you don't have a bona-fide supporter, not sure where i'd be without my wife. i hope your situation improves. ..........Jack

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by vig on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:46pm

potty mouth...er, uh,...potty fingers.

I totally agree and couldn't have said it any better.

-p

three cheers for the supporters!

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by ozzman on Aug 15^th, 2003, 1:46pm

I'm really sory to hear from both of you. Sometimes I *do* forget how blessed I am with my wife, and the great supporter she is. I had to call her and say thank you. I love you.

Hang in there, you *will* find a woman worthy of you (both Drk, and Chuck)

Ozzy

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by taraann on Aug 15^th, 2003, 2:07pm

I totally understand....I had almost NO support or understanding until I found all of the wonderful ppl on this message board. My hubby can *sometimes* be understanding but only for a short period of time and that's it. Most of the time he gets very frustrated and impatient with me and it seems that NO ONE in my life understands! So I totally hear ya.....keep hanging in there though WE all understand completely!!!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by BillyJ. on Aug 15^th, 2003, 2:16pm

Dark man,
Diito to what you said about supporters!

You said- "You have helped me through a shitload more than I'll ever be able to thank y'all for"
Heres how you say thank you- NEVER GIVE UP!!!!!!

Life sucks sometimes but you will get through it,it will
get better.During the rough spots try to remember
that even the WORST day of your life Only has 24 hours,
you can handle anything for 24 hrs.and tomorrow is
a nother day,another start.Hang in there bro all of
here are vibing and praying that things get better for
you soon.
PF2ALL,
Billy

Title: FUCK!(sorry...can't beat that title)
Post by rumplestiltskin on Aug 15^th, 2003, 3:23pm

Well ....ya lonely whiner...do what I did. Hit on one of the lonely whining clusterchicks here. Meet them at an OUCH cornvention. Get laid. Move in with them. Then....marriage is optional butt I did it to shut her up. ....Small price to pay for young nymphomaniac with Clusters.

Georgia and I discuss Clusters a lot. We have this board "on" almost constantly and check it numerous times throughout the day.

The depth of understanding and support here for headaches is beyond description.

We don't share meds...as that would be illegal.

The house that pain built.
den

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by Patrick_A on Aug 15^th, 2003, 3:31pm

Bro, I commiserate with you. My wife is 8000 miles away. She supports me on the telephone amd she is good as gold. But shes not here, and that doesnt help!
I wish i could help you. All i can say is, I am here for anybody who needs help or support!
I am too struggling but i have enough in my reserve tank to help a fellow clusterhead!
I am swimming in Imitrex if ya need any!!

Patrick

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by Big_Dan on Aug 15^th, 2003, 3:34pm

I'll second the love for your supporter if you have one.

... I don't have someone to help me cope with it when I get hit. Hell... most times I get hit, I'm 150 miles from home in the first place....

... and Gaw Damnit... nothing sucks more than going through one of these fucking things miles from home, and alone.... trust me. :-[

-Big Dan

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by ZAIRA on Aug 15^th, 2003, 5:04pm

I'm thinking that your problem is what each sufferer feels... the supporters must be strong as we are with the beast, and I know, life with a CH sufferer is hard such ours the beast... :'(

I'm with you, Zaira :-*

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by Edna on Aug 15^th, 2003, 5:13pm

Hi drk, glad you came here where we can offer you the support we can.

Know that you're in my thoughts. and check your email pal.

You make me realize how glad I am to have an entire family that offers support for me here.

Sending strong vibes your way,
EDNA

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by Margi on Aug 15^th, 2003, 6:40pm

I'm sorry to hear that, Dark. This is a really nice post about supporters. Thanks for what you said here.

Title: Re: FUCK!
Post by cootie on Aug 15^th, 2003, 6:50pm

Thanks Drk !!! Pam that thinks Drk has more supporters then the average suffer jus bein here ;)