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(Message started by: River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:35pm)

Title: MY DAD!
Post by River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:35pm
I left a messege for ree and it made me start to think of my DAD, You see he had Clusters for years and years, He died before anyone ever figured out what he had!

How long did you folks have these things before you figured out what you had? My guess is, that you figured it out before your Doc did.

For me I went 11 years, with tylonal3's, Vikes, Motron 800's These ch's just laughed at that shit. I went to the Dentist, Eye Doctor and the Chiropractor. Finally a pharmisist told me they might be clusters I researched it and I was a text book case....WOW!!

My DAD----They made him wear a neck brace (wtf) They once made him go to the hospital every night for a week so they could take like 3 pints of blood and replace it with 3 pints of different blood (again wtf)
That poor guy had nothing.

Anyway, I thought this would be an interesting thread, Its funny to me that its so often misdiagnosed. Whats you story??


LEE

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by juvy on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:39pm
River_Rat

I was originally misdiagnosed with CH.  When the Neuro mentioned it, I had no idea what it was.  I did a littel research and ended up here.  Later (almost a year) it was found that I actually have CPH which is almost a form of CH.

Compared to most I was diagnosed pretty quickly.  From onset of symptoms to diadnoses was i think 3 years.

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by forgetfulnot on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:53pm
Hey Rat, I went to twenty Doc,s over five years and finally ran into an X- Vietnam Army Doc who made the call in seconds, said his father and brother both had clusters. He was scared shitless he would get them. He put me on verap, lithium and O-2, this was 1985. Sadly he moved and I had mucho trouble getting other Doc,s to do the same, they didn't have a clue.

Lee

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:58pm
I was sent to the eye doctor and ended up with glasses that I don't wear.  

My doc was the one who finally figured it out.  Took about 5 visits, a cat scan, and a mri.  And oh yeah, glasses...   8)

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by jonny on Aug 14th, 2003, 4:59pm
14 yrs till diagnose, 28 total chronic yrs.

Curently 6 weeks PF (My record PF) and counting.

.....................................jonny

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:04pm
[quote author=Gofishgriff link=board=general;num=1060900544;start=0#3 date=08/14/03 at 16:58:02]I was sent to the eye doctor and ended up with glasses that I don't wear.  

My doc was the one who finally figured it out.  Took about 5 visits, a cat scan, and a mri.  And oh yeah, glasses...   8)[/quote

HOLY SHIT!! thats the funniest thing I've ever heard, They actually gave you glasses. (WTF)

LEE

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:07pm
Yeah, they gave me glasses.  Actually, they didn't give them to me...  I had to pay out the teeth to get ones I liked.

My vision is still good, I think.  I hardly wear them, until my eyes are burning from looking at the computer screen all day.

I never wear them outside of the office either.  Hmmmmm.  Perhaps that's why my golf game is in the toilet right now.   ;D

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:11pm
Oh, as for being recommended to see an eye doctor.  My doc said he thinks those pesky headaches could be from eye strain.  Hence, the visit to the eye doc.

And the eye doc conveniently sells frames and lenses right in his office, soooooo, I imagine anyone who goes to that office ends up with subpar vision.   :P

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:15pm
Your killin me griff OMG!! ;D What a scame!!

LEE

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by 2late on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:24pm
i was real lucky....only about 1 year.....my p.c.p.  refered an excellent neuro who know's his shit.                                                                .............Jack    

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:30pm
This is probably a new one for y'all.  

This all started around 1980.  The first HA I had was during sex with my wife, and she was on top.  Unfortunately, we told them about it at the hospital.  I was in the hospital for about two weeks.  Ran all sorts of tests, and all looked fine.  The neurologist said I should be proud as he normally does not see such good tests from his patients.  

It was decided that my problem was psycological.  I spent the next 5 or 6 years getting treatment from various shrinks, trying to find out  "Why I didn't like sex with my wife, especially if she is on top."  They had me convinced that I was crazy.  Of course none of this did anything to the beast.  

It was my sister, who is a registered nurse, who came up with the idea of cluster headaches.  It took a while, but the right drugs were finally found that gave me releif!  --  What I wouldn't do for some drugs or something that would work now!!!

The above is why I will have nothing to do with shrinks.  Most of the ones that I went to were almost as crazy as I am.  They need to be locked up in nut houses!  I know thay can't be all bad, but I have seen over a dozen of them over the years, and there isn't a one of them I have any feelings of competence from.

To answer your question, it took about 6 or 7 years before they figured it out.

Chuck

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by jimbo on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:33pm
Had em since I was 12 (Episodic) Spring/Fall whatever.
Never knew WTF it was until about a year ago. Doc said no it's not CH. Thanx to this site I proved him wrong.

What the fuck did I pay him for? I got more 411 from this site than he could ever imagine, hell I think he maybe even learned something.  I could have taken the money that I paid him and used it somewhere useful like expensive booze, carribean stud games, and betting on football games.LOL

Seeya,

Jimbo

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by jonny on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:35pm

on 08/14/03 at 17:30:49, ClusterChuck wrote:
 The first HA I had was during sex with my wife, and she was on top.


How big are the titties?

Does she grind while on top?

Enquiring minds want to know ;D

..............................jonny

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by 2late on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:38pm

on 08/14/03 at 17:35:33, jonny wrote:
How big are the titties?

Does she grind while on top?

Enquiring minds want to know ;D

..............................jonny

                                                                                                                                         LMMFAO!!!    thanx 'bro i needed that! ;D

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:41pm
I should have expected this from you Johnny!!   Ha ha !!

Sorry to disapoint you, but only a "B" cup ...  

And let me just say that she more than satisfys me when she is on top!!!!   Nuff said !!!!!!!    Ha ha!!!!

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:43pm
OMG Chuck You had me in tears, I swear I've never heard anything as funny as that (still laughing), headaches because you hated sex with the wife on top HOLY SHIT!!

And if you want you can go ahead and answer Jonny's question!!

LEE

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:47pm
Lee, I can sure look back now and laugh at it, but at the time, they had me so screwed up, I was almost afraid to have sex.  In any position!  For a while, I was even afraid of Madam Thumb and her four daughters!

Chuck

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by jonny on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:53pm
Chuck,

You will learn that EVERYTHING you post will be questioned......I was just making you awhere of that, Bro ;D

..........................................jonny

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:56pm
Jonny, I am not at all upset.  I loved your responce!   It gave me a good laugh, and in my present set of circumstances, I need all I can get!

Thanks!

Chuck

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 5:58pm
Lee, and you thought my glasses story was funny...  

Chuck!  What's the matter with you?  You don't like sex with your wife?  Even when she's on top? ROTFL

Ding, Ding, Ding...  I think we have a winner!

Good one Chuck.

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 6:08pm
Gofish, I can't tell you how many times the shrinks kept on me about that!  They wanted to know each and every detail of our sex lifes together and my sex life from day one!!!   It was extreemly embarassing and humiliating!  

And then I also had the headaches to deal with at the same time.  They were convinced that it was psychological and not neurological as all my tests came back good.  Therefore, I was crazy.   -   Not that I disput that, but it sure and hell was not the cause of the torture that I was going thru!

Chuck

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Mark C on Aug 14th, 2003, 6:08pm

on 08/14/03 at 17:24:35, 2late wrote:
i was real lucky....only about 1 year.....my p.c.p.  refered an excellent neuro who know's his shit.                          

                                    .............Jack    




Hmmmm.....finally a Doctor who know's Jack's Shit!
Sorry.....

;D



Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 6:14pm
Good one Mark.

Chuck, I'm surprized they didn't want you and your wife to come in and go at it so they could analyze it some more.   ;D  Sorry, but I'm still ROTFL

You probably screwed up the old shrink.  For all these years, he thought it was the wife who got the headache...  ;D

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 14th, 2003, 6:19pm
Don't laugh -- on second thought, go ahead  -- but they did bring that up.  My wife and I put the squash on that real quick!  

I might be kinky and a bit of an exsobitionist (I know I butchered the spelling on that one) I was not going to have some sex depraved shrink watch us do it!

Chuck

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Gofishgriff on Aug 14th, 2003, 6:21pm
Enough already.  My ribs are hurting.  ;D

Isn't it great you can look back at things like this and laugh?!  

There's gotta be some other funny stories out there.  C'mon people, fess up...

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by River_Rat on Aug 14th, 2003, 7:03pm
Holy shit I'm dying here,honest to god that is the funniest shit I've ever read I had to call my wife and tell her ;D.
That horny sex deprived shrink knows how to make money tho!!

I'm sorry chuck, but OMG rotflmmfao ;D ;D ;D

LEE

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by Patrick_A on Aug 15th, 2003, 12:42am
My dad was also a CH sufferer. I was truly amazed when i was told that CH didnt run in the family. I always thought i got them from him!
My dad was one of the 1st to go through clinical trials on a antihistimine drip or histimine, am not sure of that.It didnt work of course. He suffered way worse than i do because he had no relief at all.
But amazingly, My Dad went into remission at the age of 43 and has now been pain free for 30 years.
I got my 1st CH at the tender age of 16, I remember it like it was yesterday. The funny thing about it, I didnt even mention it to anybody because i remembered how bad my dad suffered with it and didnt want to have to deal with all of the attention caused by it. I actually didnt start talking to him about it till i was about 25 or so. I got officially diagnosed by a Neuro around that same time.
Been a ClusterHead for 28 years now!

Patrick

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by cootie on Aug 15th, 2003, 1:16am
Hey Chuck...does yer wife wear glasses ? Exhibitionist ech.......can't wait to see you......I mean 'meet' you at the next convention. Pam that doesn't wear glasses or exhibit while exhibitioning  ;D

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 15th, 2003, 1:22am
Is this what I have to look forward to at the next convention?  My wife and I will have to perform?  

Well, OK, but we charge a lot!

Maybe I should take advanced ticket sales???

Jonny probably won't pay, though, but he will figure out how to get in for free!!!


;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D    :o :o :o  

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by zanychef on Aug 15th, 2003, 5:30am
went about 12 yrs with no diagnosis finally got told what it was but was then given no effective treatment (don't think the germans use imitrex)ended up in a looney-bin for 6 months which just confirmed the fact that i'm a nutter who has ch's am now fine with me verapimil and imitrex
ian ;D

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by taraann on Aug 15th, 2003, 1:15pm
OMG you all crack me up ....

Well I had my first cluster attack about 4 or 5 yrs ago.  For a week I'd have this sharp pain in my head that would dissappear until I was getting the pains one right after another......I had NO clue what was going on.  Then after a week of this I woke up one night with these pains and I just couldn't take it anymore Hubby brought me to the hospital.  They admitted me cause they didn't know what was wrong.  I was getting the attacks lasting about 3-4 hrs with only an hour or so break in between at that time and they hooked me up to one of those push button morphene (sp) machines well it wasn't really helping but it was knocking me out.  Well I stopped pressing the button cause it was making me sick and I was still in pain but the nurse kept coming in and yelling at me to press the morphene button again and I told her it was making me sick....well to end this story they OD'd me on the morphene oh i was sooo sick and still having that damn pain!  Well after 3 days i was getting the pain less and less severe so they sent me home saying I had muscle spasmns in my head!  The next couple weeks we went from doc to doc trying to fig  out why I was still getting these sharp pains......I didnt find a doc that knew what it was until last year.  So it took about 4 yrs to get a diagnoses....which isn't bad from what I've read of other ppls stories.

Title: Re: MY DAD!
Post by vig on Aug 15th, 2003, 1:25pm
I'm laughing so hard, there's milk coming out of my nose, ...

...and I'm not even drinking milk*...





*Eric Cartman/Colorado




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