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(Message started by: Elaine on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:41am)

Title: A long battle almost won!
Post by Elaine on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:41am
I got good news! I am almost scard to share it!

To start with I am 100% sure I am no longer chronic! I went almost a year pain free and I think I just ended a cycle. I been pain free over a week now. There is hope!

Second and heres where I need prayers and vibes. I leave here in about a half hour to go to my oncologst  and if all turns out well with all my test! I will be a labled as a Cancer Servivor. Its been a four year battle the longest four years of my life. Its been HARD! I am sure I am going to come home jumping up and down cause I feel wonderful!

I want each one of you to know that you all played a part in this. I could not of fought this battle and won alone. The support of my family and friends is what saw me through. Thanks for being here through good times and bad times. Thanks for standing beside me in all my moods bad and good.

DJ, Bob P and Margi ! You guys were here from the start for me. You never left my side for a second. Jackie you and Jonny came in in the middle you stuck with me. The best part of it all is you guys kept the faith and never let me down. You pushed when I needed it. You send love when I needed it! Yur great. I hope someday I can return the support.

I will never ever forget the love, the friendship and the overwelming support that I have recieved in the past few years form people I have never even met. I could not of done all I did without any of you! God Bless you all!

Jackie sorry I forgot to tell ya yesterday but it sliped my mind ! With sll the girl stuff we were talking about :-)!

Wish me LUCK !!! Talk to ya'll tonight!

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by AlienSpaceBabe on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:48am
Good luck today, Elaine....

and  good vibes comin' yer way.....

Lizzie

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:58am
Elaine,
HUGE vibes and prayers coming atcha today!!!!
Mast

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by 2late on Aug 8th, 2003, 9:10am
all the best to ya E!  great news & mega-vibes ae on the way!!                                                                                        .............Jack

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by JDH on Aug 8th, 2003, 9:17am
The very best of luck to you Elaine!
You're not only a survivor but a winner as well.

Jim

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by BonnieW on Aug 8th, 2003, 9:21am
Elaine - I'll be saying a prayer for you here - and thinking about you lots.  You take good care,
Love,
Bonnie

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Big_Dan on Aug 8th, 2003, 9:29am
Vibes are comming..... prayers too...

Good luck with the test results... and congratulations on being PF...

;D ;D ;D


-Big Dan

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Patrick_A on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:06am
Best vibes and great wishes to you Elaine.

Cancer sucks!

PFDANAWF, Patrick

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by ShariRae on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:06am
oh Elaine...heres hopin theres nothing but good news for you. Prayers & thoughts & vibes & all I can possibly send are comin your way...
Huggs
Shari

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Jayne on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:10am
Way to Go Elaine!!!!!

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by klp on Aug 8th, 2003, 12:49pm
elaine, how wonderfull!!. congratulations . life is good. krista

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by ZAIRA on Aug 8th, 2003, 4:02pm

:) Lady Elaine, I'm sending my best, best wishes and PF vibes your way... Zaira

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Svenn on Aug 8th, 2003, 4:20pm
Best vibes and great wishes to you Elaine.

Svenn

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by jimbo on Aug 8th, 2003, 4:39pm
You go girl!

Prayers and vibes on the way.

Peace,

Jimbo

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Jackie on Aug 8th, 2003, 4:59pm
I've just been on the phone with Elaine.  
She's got news to share with you all :D :D :D :D :D
She says to let you all know she'll be posting the details very soon.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FUCKENEH!!!!!!!!!!!


Jacks 8)

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by cathy on Aug 8th, 2003, 5:15pm
Elaine.....Positive Vibes from across the pond...luv and hugs coming to you!!!

Cathy & Wes  :-*

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Roxy on Aug 8th, 2003, 5:25pm
FUCKENEH LADY!!

See what laughter and love can do........ ;D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by eyes_afire on Aug 8th, 2003, 5:58pm
Excellent!, we're cheering for you, Elaine.  

You looked great at the convention.

--- Steve

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Elaine on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:03pm
Well I have a Teddy Bear and T-shirt and a pin they all say! I am a Cancer Surviver and a beautiful flower arrangement that My wonderful Doctor gave me.

I am sorry it took so long to get back to ya'll but its a long drive to my doctor now and each test take forever.
Some test results I have to wait for the results but Doctor gave me a tumbs up after my xray. I called Jackie as soon as I walked in the door. I had to call my mom and tell her and then when Buddy and Deveny came home well we been just talking and laughing and Thanking God for all he has done for this family.

The definition of a Cancer Survivor is anyone who has ever been diagnosed with Cancer and is alive today. In the four years I have fought this I have made many friends with others who have Cancer. Each and everyone I have grown to love very much. Some right here on this board I have met. I have lost some of those friends to Cancer. I Miss them ! I also have many that are Cancer Survivors along with me.

I say I am a Survivor because Of my faith In God, the support of my wonderful Family and Friends! The fact that God let me to the right Doctors and treatments. I want to thank everyone that send me every news artical and all info on different treatments. Never give up Hope, and always research and take control of your OWN health! I can never say enough as to what help I have recieved here on this site. The support here is outstanding! Its outsanding no matter what your problem is. To sum this up, FAITH, Family, Friends, and a positive attitude! This is what got me through it all! Also a good cry from time to time with a friend helped!

Thanks everyone!!!

Oh I just had to order a new computer from Gateway! Hopefully it will be here Friday !!! Pentium 4, 256 mgs memory 2.4 Ghz 40 G HD  64 mbites graphic Card, CD writer and a DVD player 56 K Data Modem !
I will be back up and running right in a week :-)!
I am back to work on OUCH and hopefully I can give back to ya'll what you have given me.

I am happy guys :-)

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by jonny on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:12pm
Im not surprised that cancer jumped ugly with E and realised it made a big mistake and jumped off, do you think cancer wants to be linked to a chick that begs for rocks on the internet?....get real!

Shall I go into the dumpster diving for the homeless? ;D

Johnnie,

Your a very special person in my life if it wasent for you I would not be here now (Everyone blame her) to give people hell like I do......LOL ;D

I love you, Johnnie  :-*

...............................jonny

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Elaine on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:21pm
LMAO! I Love you too Jonny! You know your special!

I am glad you stayed, and I am glad your my friend. I will take the blame for you being here !

You are very special too! Now I am not going to cry !

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by andy on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:24pm
Elaine, thats great news, im so happy for you!!!             ............andy

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Edna on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:25pm
:-* OH ELAINE!!!!


WOW Lady, I am so enormously thankful that you have such great news to report to us. I've been away from my computer the last few days, and I couldn't be happier than to come back to the mb and read your news as the first thing to get caught up here!!!!!!!!!!


Hugs, kisses, tighter hugs and congrats to a great person!!!!

Love to you,
EDNA

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Jackie on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:28pm
Oh, Elaine.....I've been grinnin' so big the last couple hours my cheeks hurt......and we ain't talkin' butt cheeks either... ;D

Now... I've got something to say to and about you....
You've given everyone credit and thanks for all the love and support you've received.  That is most gracious of you and we all appreciate hearing how much all this has meant to you.  I know you quite well by now and these thanks come straight from your "big" heart. :) I also know that we would never have considered NOT been there for you.

But...you forgot to give one very important person their due credit.  That person being YOU.  You fought like a wild cat.  You took experimental drugs.  You sometimes begged to get these drugs when they didn't want you to have them and told you they probably wouldn't even work.  You did all this time and time again.  You clawed and scratched your way back to health.

So...I want to thank you, my dear friend.  Thank you for fighting so very hard.  Thank you for doing what you had to do to get through the last (very difficult) few years.  Thank you for being brave.  Thank you for being a survivor.

Love to you my friend,
Jackie



Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Elaine on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:35pm
I can't reply cause I can't see the keybord Jackie! Happy Tears are here !
DJ I need a smily face with tears on this thing LOL

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Jackie on Aug 8th, 2003, 8:39pm
Ah, shit.......now ya got me squallin'.......

Jackie

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Aug 8th, 2003, 9:44pm
I'm.......speachless........



BIG ASS FUCKENEH ELAINE!!!!!!!!!!! ;D

Mast

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Peppermint on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:14pm
Elaine,

I know I couldn't put it any better than some of the people who've known you for years here.  I was afraid to even post until I heard for sure.  I'm superstitious sometimes that way... bUT..

Oh my good God!  I am so happy for you, and happy to have met you, to have talked to you, share some words and moments and now hear this wonderful, wonderful amazing news!  Revel in your joy and give yourself a hug, you fought it and won.....and that's the best prize ever.  

If we ever meet again, I hope you're fatter or I get skinny because I'm gonna give you the tightest hug you ever had!

Every day we live the Grace of God is upon us.

Peppermint

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by judyw on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:38pm
   :-* :-* :-*                                                                                         Fantastic News, Lady E...Once again prayers are answered...and to such a special lady...

Does this mean I have to buy lunch again, or what??? Shucks, I might even buy Buddy lunch if he will brave the chatter and show up... :D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Ree on Aug 8th, 2003, 10:40pm
Praying... everyday for you Elaine, lady in those red pajamas... I knew when I met you that you were not going to let Cancer get the better of you and you are a living gift to all of us, each day is a gift.  I am so happy for you for Buddy (who I just know loves you so much) and little JD and your Deveny... I am also happy for our Cluster family where would any of us be without you.  love ya "Lady in Red"..............ree

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by firebrix on Aug 9th, 2003, 12:51am
Great news Elaine!
It's the best news all week!
Stay well and happy
firebrix

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Linda_Howell on Aug 9th, 2003, 2:10am
damn where is cat........?

We need to cry here.


Linda

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by BILL_L on Aug 9th, 2003, 3:50am
Great news Elaine.
Very happy for you and your family.

                                           Bill

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by suzy617 on Aug 9th, 2003, 7:32am
Elaine, I'm soooo happy to hear of your great news! Dont know what else to say, you've made my day!

Love from your porch friend,
Suzy

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by GlendaB on Aug 9th, 2003, 9:00am
That is the best news I've heard in a long time!!!

YOUR ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ELAINE, ALWAYS!

THE VERY BEST OF VIBES BEING SENT YOUR WAY!


Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Prense on Aug 9th, 2003, 9:17am
Great news Elaine!!!  Thanks for sharing that with us!

Wishing you the BEST!!!

;D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Giovanni on Aug 9th, 2003, 9:17am
Hi Elaine:

Wonderful news here in clusterville with your victory over cancer.  All of us here are delighted and share in your joy.  WAY TO GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

Love,
John                           ;D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by nancyc on Aug 9th, 2003, 10:15am
Big smile here in SC for you, sis...God is good...smiles,nancyc

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by BobG on Aug 9th, 2003, 1:19pm
This is probably the happiest string posted here in the last four years  :D

It's making my skinny body grin all over.

Way-to-go Lady Elaine.  ;)

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by kim on Aug 9th, 2003, 1:27pm
Yes.  A very happy thread indeed :)
Elaine, I never met ya.  But I been around long enuff to know how you've CLIMBED A MOUNTAIN, TURNED AROUND AND ROARED IN TRIUMPH.......!  A marvelous celebration.  That is how I "tink" of you :)

Enjoy every moment and know that many spirits are smiling right next to ya!

Kim

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by brain_cramps on Aug 9th, 2003, 1:57pm
I'm SO glad to hear about your victory.  Cancer is such an ugly disease.  It is great to hear of someone surviving it.

YOU ARE A WINNER!!!!!

grant

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by CathiP on Aug 9th, 2003, 2:23pm
Elaine-That is wonderful news....congratulations! I think your wonderful attitude has a lot to do with your success conquering cancer....my mom is a 17 yr survivor....lucky you.....lucky family of yours!!

Grant, the fight continues for your dad......IT IS NOT OVER YET!!! Sending vibes, and asking for miracles.....they DO happen, y'know!!

Cathi

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by brain_cramps on Aug 9th, 2003, 7:54pm
Thanks a lot, Cathi.     I really appreciate it, as will my mom and dad when I send them the link for this thread.


grant

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Donna on Aug 9th, 2003, 11:14pm
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Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by BuddyH on Aug 10th, 2003, 6:54am
Baby I am glad your my wife and you are staying here with me. I don't think I could make it without you. Like Jackie said YOU did it. YOU fought hard and won! I am very proud of you. You were needed here more than in Heaven right now.

Johnnie I want you to know that now that your well, things are going to get back to normal around here. We both know who the BOSS is here.  

WHAT??? A COMPUTER??? Did they scan your BRAIN Friday?

I will have to finish this post later, Johnnie is getting up!  I need to run make her coffee. Last night when I was rubbing her feet, she said she wanted some grits, eggs, bacon, toast and tomatoes with bacon drippings on them, I promised her I would have them ready.  Just as soon as I get done, we are going to talk about this New Computer!  Maybe I will wait till after I get the ironing, and the yard  done.  

Yes Baby! Coffee is ready ................

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Miss_Deleny on Aug 10th, 2003, 7:15am
Elaine .. I am so glad to hear about your victory! I'm glad you have shared the wonderful news with us  :)

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Karla on Aug 10th, 2003, 8:19am
Elaine we are so happy to hear of your wonderful news!  This is an answer to many hours of long prayer.  Congradulations on being a survivior!  We will continue to pray for you that you continue to have good check ups.  Lots of love, Karla and Ted.

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Margi on Aug 10th, 2003, 9:29am
TS,

Now's the time to dance like nobody's watching.  And sing, like no one is listening.  Rejoice and get out there and LIVE!!

YOU did this - your will is SO strong.  I'm so flippin proud of you lady!!

Thank you, Lord.  :)

love ya

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Elaine on Aug 10th, 2003, 11:16am
Thanks everyone! There is just not enough room for me to Thank each one of you, DJ would shoot me if I did LOL! I am just happy and Thankful to the good Lord and rejoiceing. I am just Thankful to everyone!! My whole big secret is I decided to live to be a hundred, so I just put things in Gods hands. It looks like God wispered in everyones ear hear even the non believers! I thank you all.

DJ Thank you for letting this place be a little more than Clusters! This place played a big part in my recovery. the people kept me going, they kept me smiling when I wanted to cry, they pushed when I wanted to give up, they made me mad when I needed something to bitch about, besides my health. This place is a God send!


Donna that is beautiful! I love it!

Margi you know I been Dancing all week end. Margi you know me well enough to know I don't care who is watching LOL! Now you better be careful Lady. I should have my medical bills down soon so there will be money for plane tickets, so you never know when I will be knocking on your door. I think I will go back to my little trips I use to take ;-)

Bonnie send me your email addess Please, when my computer crashed so did my email addresses. How is Warren doing?

Roxey I don't wish any Hurricanes on anyone but I do hope we get to see each other real soon. I would love to see my roommates again. I think I had over 32 people rooming with me LOL!

Judy I will make damn sure Buddy is with us. I got a great idea come to my house! My Kitchen never closes ;-)That way the kid can play and we can visit and you can met the whole family ;-)!


My Dad who has Alzhiemer (sp) He understood what I was telling him :-) when I told them the news and mom and dad have been dancing too. This whole week end my whole famiy has been just overjoyed.


LMAO Buddy! Now guys Buddy cooks breafest evey Sunday he has been doing it ever since we got together.
He irons his own cloths he did it in the service and he has his own way of doing it. Most of the time he irons mine to. He irons better than me ;-)!!Now the rubbing of my feet, he must of dreamed that LOL! Now how I got the computer was I had a lap top from Gateway that is about paid off so I called them, asked them about getting anothe Computer. They are building me one and my payments stay the same but my payments go for many months to come. It did not change our monthly payments ;-)!  We work together, Your the Boss at work from 8 to 5 and I am the Boss here 24/7 ! LOL!  Buddy I couldn't make it one day without you either!

Now that I am back, emailing, chatting and hopefully back working on OUCH! I would like to ask each of you to do one last ting for me if you can. Help make OUCH work. It can and will. Get involved, less be a team and get the word out. If you are a member of OUCH get over to the OUCH message boards and get involved. There is a membership board there. Post your ideas, post your postive thoughts on there. Maybe you have a good idea that can help even if you can't figure out the details of your ideas, someone else could take the ideas and run with it. Read the other board there. We got a lot of people working hard on things, WE have some real go getters working  we need more. There are a 1003 members now. Out of 1003 Members there has to be at least a 1003 ideas ;-)! Lets ROCK and ROLL!

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by ave on Aug 10th, 2003, 3:56pm
I am so happy for you, Elaine! If anybody "deserved" being a survivor it is you.
You fought every half inch of the way.  You may have cried from time to time, being so tired, but you never, ever, whined.

You are indeed a great LADY


And now you are a happy one too. I rejoice with you

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Charlie on Aug 10th, 2003, 8:46pm
Fantastic Elaine.

I was wrong. Sometimes you do get a break. I couldn't be happier for you and yours.

My kids are celebrating too:

http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/DANCE 12.gif

Charlie

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by cootie on Aug 10th, 2003, 9:02pm
Boy jus what I like ta come on here and hear......GOOD FUCKENEH news about a person that deserves the BEST !! So glad for you Elaine ! Pammie that has been gone all weekend  ;)

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by cathy on Aug 11th, 2003, 5:23am
Elaine.....This is the best news i've read today, I am sooooo pleased for you and your family!

Fuckeneh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cathy  ;D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Mark C on Aug 11th, 2003, 8:02am

All I can say is......





http://www.clintkaseburg.com/flash/wow.swf



Cancer got my father, and his father. Needless to say I get checked pretty regular. You go Elaine, thats fantastic news.....wonderful!

PFDAN's
Mark

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by Roxy on Aug 11th, 2003, 10:16am
Elaine...just got off the phone with Cat.  When I told her about this thread....she wanted me to post for her.  She said it couldn't wait till she got online.

She said to tell you she is soooooooo damn happy for you!!!   ;D  That it is totally AWSOME news.  

Big smile and hug from Cat to you...... ;D

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by AlienSpaceBabe on Aug 11th, 2003, 10:36am
Congratulations on joining the League of (Cancer) Survivors!

Your faith and your will to live and your strength of spirit are amazing.

Lizzie

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by NotH20 on Aug 11th, 2003, 1:33pm
What a surprise Elaine.   ;D  I've been away from the board for the last several days - so I'm sorry I haven't responded earlier.  This calls for a celebration - you name the place and time and we'll chat our lips off.

We're all VERY proud of you Elaine.

Speak to you soon,
Mia

Title: Re: A long battle almost won!
Post by badfly on Aug 14th, 2003, 8:30am
Good on YOU E !



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