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(Message started by: suzy617 on Jul 7th, 2003, 5:45pm)

Title: Please say a prayer....
Post by suzy617 on Jul 7th, 2003, 5:45pm
As most of you know my Mom has been ill for a long time now. I would go to see her each week and watch her fail more and more. Sometimes I would get angry that God could be so cruel to keep someone here like this but I know there is always a reason.
I last saw Mom saturday and as always when I kissed her goodbye I wondered if it would be the last time. This saturday was the last time I would ever be able to kiss her. She passed away today.
With a very very heavy and sad heart I mourn for her but I am also relieved to know she is in a better place and with my Dad now.
Thank you all for being here in happy times and sad.
I love you Mom.... :'(

Susan
aka Suzy617

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by eyes_afire on Jul 7th, 2003, 5:55pm
Suzy,
I'm sorry for your loss.  I'm sending my best wishes for peace to your family.  Prayers said.

--- Steve, one of many...

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by catlind on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:02pm
Oh Susan, I'm so sorry for your loss  :'( :'( :'(

I can't even begin to imagine the pain your heart feels right now.  Know that we are thinking of you and sending our best.

Cat

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by jonny on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:11pm
Babe im so sorry, I know the hurt you feel and its a real punch to the chest. Like you I knew my Dad was out of pain and in a better place, this is what you have to hold on to. im so sorry  :'(

................................jonny

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by 9erfan on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:12pm
Suzy,

I'm so sorry for your loss.   Her suffering is over now, and she can be at peace.  I will pray that God will put your heart at peace as well, and give you comfort during this very difficult time.  He is there for you!

Hugs,
Virginia

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Peppermint on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:26pm
Suze....

I'm so very sorry.  I know your mom was suffering, and so were you watching her in the state she was in.  Its not easy to admit how hard it is, and to know that they must stay with us until it is their time.

She is not suffering now, and though you will miss her, be consoled in her peace.  

I'm sorry my run-around buddy - I'm here if ya need me  :-/.  

Pepsi-Cola

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:28pm
Suzy, sending hugs and prayers your way.  It's never easy to let go, even when someone is really sick.  My heart goes out to you.  

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Elaine on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:47pm
I am so very sorry. I wish I had words that could make you feel better.
I will be praying for her, and you too. Her suffering is over, but it will take time for you. She will live on in your heart !
Hugs
Elaine

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Ted on Jul 7th, 2003, 6:58pm
This is sad to hear, Suzy. Words won't take away your pain but they may comfort you, even a little. And so let me remind you that you were a very devoted daughter who showed your mother love often and made her feel joy at times it would be hard to find any. And not just while you visited, but her memories of you and your visits while you were away surely must have brought peace and love to her heart and smiles to her face. Now it's time to let her return that favor to you and let your memories of her bring peace and love to your heart and a smile to your face, albeit, between your necessary tears.
Peace be to you and your family.

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by BILL_L on Jul 7th, 2003, 7:04pm
So sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one is always hard.
Thoughts are with you.

                           Bill

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by CathiP on Jul 7th, 2003, 7:04pm
Awwww, Suzy.....I know it was tough to see her wasting away....the time seemed to pass so slowly, and you were uncertain and frustrated. it's no easier knowing she is gone, but you must believe the pain will lessen with time.
You were a good loving daughter.
I hope soon the pain you feel today will be replaced with the warmth fond memories bring us.
My sympathy to you, and safe passage for your mom.
Cathi  

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by ShariRae on Jul 7th, 2003, 7:29pm
I am so sorry to hear of your loss..please know you are in my thoughts and prayers...Hang on to the good memories...the smiles will outweigh the tears...
huggs
Shari

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Wendy the Brit on Jul 7th, 2003, 7:57pm
Suzy

Prayers being said for you and your Mum.
No words take away the pain, but she will always be with you when you remember the good times and watching over you in your bad ones. Talk to her often, I promise it helps.

Love from across the pond

Wendy

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Live4Fun on Jul 7th, 2003, 8:01pm
Suzy,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  :'(

Stay strong. You and your family are in my prayers.

Bryan


Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by cootie on Jul 7th, 2003, 8:13pm
Oh geeze I am so sorry about your loss...sumtimes I think this stuff is harder on the families then the one lost....good vibes to you. Pam that is very sorry to hear the news  :'(

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by oringkid on Jul 7th, 2003, 8:13pm
Suzy, even when they are sick and in pain and you just pray that God will grant them release, you are never prepared.

Know that she is free now, no more pain.  Now she watches over you and wants you to live and love and feel joy.  You will feel her in the sunshine on your face.

The love will never leave and that is the essence of all good human relationships.

My thoughts are with you.

Sherry

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Mark C on Jul 7th, 2003, 9:11pm
I am so sorry for your loss and I offer a little prayer to help ease hurting hearts.

Condolences,
Mark

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Charlie on Jul 7th, 2003, 9:30pm
Very sorry. This think hits so hard but things will get better.

You were certainly the good daughter and even though lots of things will fade a bit, all those good memories will be enhanced. It's that it works that way.  

Let us know how you're doing and keep pluggin away. It gets easier.

Charlie

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Roxy on Jul 7th, 2003, 11:12pm
Suzy, I know there are no words or gestures which can ease your pain right now.  Just remember how much your mother loved you, and how much you loved her.  The pain will become easier with time, but the memories of your love for each other will be there forever.  She is out of pain and at peace, it is just so hard on the surviving loved ones.  Know that my thoughts are with you, and I wish there was some way to make this easier on you and your family.  

Thoughts and prayers are with you,
Tracey


Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Edna on Jul 7th, 2003, 11:25pm
Suzy   please accept my sincere and deepest sympathy at your great loss.

May God keep you close in your time of grief.   In time dear, the sweet memories will again bring a smile to your face!!

God Bless,

EDNA

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jul 8th, 2003, 12:16am
Suzy,
So sorry to hear of your loss,
lots of healing vibes going up to you.
Mast

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by ZAIRA on Jul 8th, 2003, 2:03am


Susan, my heart-felt sympathy for this big loss.
Try to be strong, we are all with you,

God Bless

Zaira   :'(


Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by suzy617 on Jul 8th, 2003, 6:31am
I want to thank each and everyone of you for your kindest words. There is no other place better to go to find comfort.
I prepared myself for this long ago and I do believe my Mom really did leave us way back when she became a shell of herself. Her spirit had already left her to find a better place and thats what I hang onto.
You are an amazing group of people and wish I could hug each and everyone of you. I will be fortunate enough to be able to hug some of you soon though.
Love to you all,
Suzy

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by kim on Jul 8th, 2003, 6:50am
Suzy,

Sending heartfelt prayers your way.

***I know it was a long road........your mom is at peace now.  

***Kim

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by TomM on Jul 8th, 2003, 7:04am
Suzy, I have no words of wisdom to add. I am sorry for your loss and pray that the memories of your mom will bring tears of joy to your heart.
TomM

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by aprilbee on Jul 8th, 2003, 7:44am
Prayers to you and your family

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by CLR on Jul 8th, 2003, 9:06am

Dear Suzy,
Peace to you in this time of grief, keep the memories close to your heart.  Sorry you have lost your Mom.

Sending you warmest wishes,
Cindra

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by cathy on Jul 8th, 2003, 1:24pm

Suzy....Im sorry to hear that your mom passed away, but she will be with you always. Time will heal your pain. :'( :'(

Hugs and kisses to you my friend. You know where to reach me if you need me.  :-*

Cathy

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Danielle on Jul 8th, 2003, 3:47pm
I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

"Give sorrow words: the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o’er-fraught heart and bids it break"

~~William Shakespeare

Title: Re: Please say a prayer....
Post by Big_Dan on Jul 9th, 2003, 5:10pm
"When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal."  ~Author Unknown


... I'm truly sorry, Susan...

God be with you,
Daniel



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