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(Message started by: Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 12:49pm)
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 12:49pm
Freddy, I wish you all the luck in the world, and if this girl is worth anything, she'll only be empathetic and not run out into the night screaming bloody murder that her date is possessed.

;;Dmel

oh and P.S. I hope you don't get hit!  I really really mean that! :-*
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by BobG on Mar 21st, 2004, 12:53pm

Quote:
This is probably gone be a girly post. See if any men out there will give a hoot!
It's not a girly post and us sensitive men really do care.
Now pull up your big girl panties and get over yourself.
I'm just kidding.  ;;D I heard that line once and have been waiting for months to use it.  [smiley=laugh.gif]

Sure hope the date goes smooth but if the lady is present during an attack and sticks around when it's over I'd say she's a keeper.
Best of luck. Go for it!
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by jonny on Mar 21st, 2004, 12:56pm

on 03/21/04 at 12:44:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
from one of these online dating services.



DAMN!!!

You must be one ugly m*th*rf**k*r to go there....LMMFAO ;;D

Good luck, Freddy.....LMAO ;;D

..................................jonny
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Superpain on Mar 21st, 2004, 1:16pm
Over the years I've had more girls be understaning that ones that do not. Well, they don't understand really, but they try to understand or help, as if there is such a thing. There's probably a better chance that you'll make her cry than anything else. i guess it all depends on how ugly you are.... [smiley=laugh.gif] J/K ;)
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by FZfan on Mar 21st, 2004, 1:39pm

on 03/21/04 at 12:53:33, BobG wrote:
...if the lady is present during an attack and sticks around when it's over I'd say she's a keeper.
Best of luck. Go for it!


Ditto!

Whip out your sword? Too funny!  [smiley=laugh.gif]
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Edski_1 on Mar 21st, 2004, 6:14pm
Yeah, some are understanding, some not.  I was married young (at 22, she was 20), and developed CH a couple of years later.  She was NOT understanding of it...   :(

Consequently I have a different woman as my wife now.  This wife is far more understanding of my CH's and the impact...  :)

Honesty is always the best thing.  There were other issues in my first marriage, and the all centered around things that were not quite out in the open...but not supporting a so-called loved one with a physical trial, that's pretty low.  Everyone deserves better treatment, but often don't get it...
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 21st, 2004, 6:56pm
Hypno,

Well she met you and agreed to a date?

She's a keeper.

Now snap your fingers and bring her out of it Hypno.

Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Superpain on Mar 21st, 2004, 7:24pm
Hey Freddy, I checked out some of your mp3's. Pretty cool kinda like Pink Floyd meets Yanni...
I too am a keyboardist, although I suck... But I have a serious hardon for all things synth and gear oriented.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Opus on Mar 21st, 2004, 7:53pm

on 03/21/04 at 18:29:13, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
It was some Jim Carey movie. I didn't like it. It was awful confusing.
 


Good move, seeing a good movie is a great way to get hit hard.

born in Endicott? You weren't in IBM's toxic plume were you?

I don't live to far from there, I see why you moved to CT.

Opus/Paul
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Woobie on Mar 21st, 2004, 8:04pm

on 03/21/04 at 19:03:27, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
I have to speak in all honesty......

She is a bit heavy. I am a superficial arsewipe of a 31 yr old. She is 22. While she is heavily career motivated in the medical area and she is well-spoken,

I can't get past looks. It has to be there first and foremost. Heavy girls are what I am finding on this online dating services. I work out and play tennis and I can't get past it.  :-/

I think she likes me and if you want to see a pic of me (I am ugly, but not that ugly) go to www.segalweb.com/bio

Thank you.

                                         -Freddy


Oh MAN freddy......  :-[Fat girls need love too!!!!
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 8:19pm
Well, if this were the year 2002 and I were single, I guess that would have left me out too... :-/
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 8:43pm

on 03/21/04 at 20:34:10, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Unfortunately, I have invested time in my life to make myself "not obese"
In fact I am in the correct weight range for my height.


I can understand this.


Quote:
I just need physical attraction, some, at the beginning.


Obviously you didn't have that with this girl.   And that's OK!  If it would have been me, you would have had problems.....LMFAO ;;D



just kiddin,
:)mel

(now there's 2 ways to take this post, it's all in how you perceive it ;))
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Charlie on Mar 21st, 2004, 8:48pm
Well.........the thing is: 30 plus years ago, I was with Sally, who wasn't fat but she wasn't thin. That lasted nearly 4 years. We had fun. I'm surprised she could stand me. I looked anorexic back then....Oh that was in the Utica area Freddy.  I'm now at the other end of 86 in Jamestown.  

Hope you post more often.

Charlie
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 9:18pm
Scott, that's your personal opinion, and I'm not trying to attack you here.  I was overweight myself due to birth control and depression meds.  I finally broke free of that 3 years ago, until I got pregnant in 2002 and blew up like a balloon.  Anyhow, I'm not going to tell you to try and look beyond appearance, because when you come to the moment you become REALLY attracted to someone, it won't be because of the way she looks, but how she acts.  Love really is blind. 8)  

take care,
:)mel
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 21st, 2004, 9:28pm
Scott,

Don't worry about it, your 31, well-schooled, accomplished.  She's 22, and just ambitious yet only.  That can have something to do with sparks.  

You've learned a lot but being 31, yet to learn the reality of acceptance.  Without it you'll be mindblinded.  The things you won't see because you are not thinking about looking for them.  Didn't someone find a cure for polio in moldy bread.

It'll take a few more years to see the person someone has become, beyond a narrow focus.  A person's personality is a form of art they've created.  You'll appreciate that art at some time and it may not come in the form you may have expected.  Some have accomplished beautiful intelligent art beneath a rebelious veneer.  Being the art may be abstract, it may not be discernable to those looking for an Aphrodite sculpture.  
 There is a higher attraction than just physical, immediate presence as percieved by someone not knowing else.  And remember things can change.  Check
out Mel.  
 At your age ambitions are directed at what you see because that is easier than understanding the abstract
of a person's mind.
 Don't worry, I'm a lot older than you now and definitely had preferences.  However, body without mind is more of a void for mental sparks.  Try the challenge of an older woman.  You'll be begging.
 Your 31, have fun, it comes in all sizes, and ages.

Good luck,

Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by t_h_b on Mar 21st, 2004, 9:40pm
May I translate this?

**************************************************

on 03/21/04 at 21:28:19, Kevin_M wrote:
Scott,

Don't worry about it, your 31, well-schooled, accomplished.  She's 22, and just ambitious yet only.  That can have something to do with sparks.  

You've learned a lot but being 31, yet to learn the reality of acceptance.  Without it you'll be mindblinded.  The things you won't see because you are not thinking about looking for them.  Didn't someone find a cure for polio in moldy bread.

It'll take a few more years to see the person someone has become, beyond a narrow focus.  A person's personality is a form of art they've created.  You'll appreciate that art at some time and it may not come in the form you may have expected.  Some have accomplished beautiful intelligent art beneath a rebelious veneer.  Being the art may be abstract, it may not be discernable to those looking for an Aphrodite sculpture.  
 There is a higher attraction than just physical, immediate presence as percieved by someone not knowing else.  And remember things can change.  Check
out Mel.  
 At your age ambitions are directed at what you see because that is easier than understanding the abstract
of a person's mind.
 Don't worry, I'm a lot older than you now and definitely had preferences.  However, body without mind is more of a void for mental sparks.  Try the challenge of an older woman.  You'll be begging.
 Your 31, have fun, it comes in all sizes, and ages.

Good luck,

Kevin M

**************************************************
Eventually you'll be old, flabby and bald, with hair growing out of your nose and ears.  About the time you notice that the skin on your ass  might be getting saggy, you won't be so picky about the appearance of the women who will give you more than the time of day.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 21st, 2004, 9:50pm

on 03/21/04 at 20:50:17, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
but I see us Americans as becoming fatter, lazier, and eating more junk food.
 -Freddy


Remember Scott, being capitalistic, business has learned.

The cheapest commodoties there are happen to be salt, fat, and sugar.  The more you can stuff into what you sell people, the more profit you make.  This fact will not disappear.  Things are changing, but it will cost more and will be made less convenient.  Those busy people without the money or time will face these economic realities more often, especially when you have families.
 
Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:09pm

on 03/21/04 at 21:49:35, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Yes I will get old. I won't be bald (genetics), and I won't be flabby. I am 31 and I missed my chances earlier in life.
                             -Freddy


Yeah, and at 13 (1968) me and my buddies saw our older brothers and said we would never do drugs.  

You didn't miss chances, you are VERY accomplished.  Many of the guys in relationships gone sour with that girl that looked great at 2:00am are looking at you and saying the same thing.  Funny how the grass looks greener...
 Now you got time to look, hey only first date.  You got lots of time.  Good things aren't going to come easy.

Buck up,  the fun is getting there.  You got years to find what you like.  Just keep looking.  Failing is not trying, trying is an excuse for not doing.  Just make sure when you get my age, you got no regrets.  You got lots of years to do that.  I got just a couple regrets and they're raspy.  There's too many out there, too many options, choose wisely.

Good luck,

Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:10pm
Freddy,

You do not suck!  Also, 31 is VERY young dammit, it HAS to be!  I turn 30 myself this year, so stop making me feel old! LOL  

Anyhow, it almost seems like you want to give up... I hope that's not the case.  Perhaps you should just stop trying so hard, and enjoy your life during your PF time?  I found love when I wasn't looking for it.  I was just having fun at my best friends birthday party, and in walks this guy whom I really thought nothing about because he wasn't typically what I'd go for (appearance wise), until something like 2 hours later when he started flirting with me and making me laugh.  The next time I saw him we were discussing marriage, kids and our life history.  

I think ya just gotta do what makes you happy, and let a lot of this stuff roll off yer back.  Life's too damn short to be picky or worried all the time.  Also, don't be afraid to make mistakes, just try to learn from them.

As for your words below:

Quote:
The good ones are all taken.

Yeah, you could say that, especially since I am, LOL, but this is SO not true!!

I'm rootin for you here!
:)mel
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Peppermint on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:20pm

on 03/21/04 at 21:49:35, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
I suck.
                             -Freddy


For Pete's sake Freddy.. 31 is Not *Life over now I have to settle time*.  Take it back I say...

[smiley=ugh.gif]

btw, Mel is right.  Be your "whatever" self, stop looking, enjoy life.... There's nothing more attractive than someone who is smiling and loving life.  Then, when they flock, you can pick and choose.

DOn't give up.. and HAVE FUN dammit.  

I'm tellin you 31 IS NOT old.  

;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:24pm

on 03/21/04 at 21:40:09, t_h_b wrote:
May I translate this?

Eventually you'll be old, flabby and bald, with hair growing out of your nose and ears.  About the time you notice that the skin on your ass  might be getting saggy, you won't be so picky about the appearance of the women who will give you more than the time of day.


;;D  Guilty on grounds of roundabout verbiage.  

Well Thomas, getting the time of day was my line I used yesterday.  

Windexed your crystal ball did ya? ;;D

Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by jonny on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:26pm
31?

Get out the Depends....Your old....LMAO

........................jonny ;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Miklos on Mar 21st, 2004, 10:37pm
I wish I were 31 again and had your problems. Sheesh!

An understanding spouse of whatever dimensions is far more important than anything. I've got one. Neither of us is what we were. BFD.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by sandie99 on Mar 22nd, 2004, 4:36am
Freddy,

was that film Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind?

Anyways, good luck to you! You deserve someone who will understand CH. I'm educatinng my friends ;-)

PFdays,
sandie99
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Woobie on Mar 22nd, 2004, 11:47am

on 03/21/04 at 20:50:17, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
I have very little sympathy for an obese person. Just as someone could have no sympathy for certain things I may do......
                                 -Freddy



OK - I understand not being attracted.   That's cool  -- That's YOUR thing... and that's fine.  I TOTALLY understand that.   You dont want a big girl... no problem.

BUT - I really Really REALLY hope that you dont think that being overweight is a choice for all obese people.  

Yes, some over-indulge... and some are lazy - and some dont care enough about themselves....

BUT - there are a lot of skinny people that dont work out, and eat a lot of shitty foods, and are NOT healthy.    It goes both ways.  

Some people have illnesses that dont ALLOW them to be active.  
Some people take meds (... prednisone for one) that make you heavy - no matter what you do.  
Genetics play a part too... and Some people have thyroid conditions, etc.

I didn't mean to start anything.  If you dont find the girl attractive - that's YOUR thing.. it's NOT a big deal.  

You are an intelligent person - I can tell.   So, please dont stereotype and JUDGE overweight people.  
  You dont know thier habits, dont judge them.  

I know you will find someone to settle down with who will understand your CH.   I was lucky and found my soul mate when I was young .......  

I'm done... [smiley=bag.gif]

peace--
Tina

PS - i am fat - and I love to play tennis. ;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Woobie on Mar 22nd, 2004, 12:00pm
Hey BTW - LOVE the music......
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by thomas on Mar 22nd, 2004, 12:02pm

on 03/22/04 at 11:47:04, Woobie wrote:
PS - i am fat - and I love to play tennis. ;;D

And you also give GREAT hugs!!!!! [smiley=hug.gif]  And I can't wait to get another one. ;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by CJohnson on Mar 22nd, 2004, 1:17pm
You need to slap that luscious round booty!

PFDANs

-Curtis
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Jayne on Mar 22nd, 2004, 1:29pm
Ok here's a story for you all.
I went out with my friends on Saturday night and met this great guy...we talked all night and finally ended up kissing. So I invited him back for some coffee before he went home.
We were in my living room having a really nice time and he asked me where my bathroom was. I told him it was in my bedroom and off he went.
He came back with this wierd look on his face. He asked me if that was an oxygen tank in my bedroom. "AW SHIT" I thought to myself. I played it down and told him very quickly about my CH and said I take great medication and I don't get the headaches anymore and I don't need the 02 anymore.
He didn't say anything. Well we spent another hour sitting and chatting in my living room then he left. I said..you have my # right..he said yes...gave me a kiss and left..
What's the betting he won't call me?????????
I have now put my bloody tank in my closet with a towel over it.....I completley forgot that it was out for all to see. I can understand  that would freak someone out.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Linda_Howell on Mar 22nd, 2004, 6:06pm
As much as I hate to say this to my pool-shoot8ing competitor....I have to.


Jayne This person is NOT worthy of you.


  If he doesn't call?   Consider this to be an act of GOD my dear pool-clue-less friend.  

O.K.?  

  Okey -dokey then.   Linda
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by t_h_b on Mar 22nd, 2004, 6:19pm

on 03/22/04 at 13:29:21, Jayne wrote:
He came back with this wierd look on his face. He asked me if that was an oxygen tank in my bedroom. "AW SHIT" I thought to myself.


When I see people looking at my tank I just ask them if they want to try some!
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by thomas on Mar 22nd, 2004, 6:22pm

on 03/22/04 at 18:19:19, t_h_b wrote:
When I see people looking at my tank thing I just ask them if they want to try some!

Thomas, you dirty dog. [smiley=bloos.gif]
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Superpain on Mar 22nd, 2004, 6:29pm
I must be stingy... Or my tank is too small... Afetr facing a night without it I conserve that stuff now like it's my last crack rock! Just an analogy... I'm not a crackhead...
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by KingOfPain on Mar 22nd, 2004, 6:55pm
If you are truly interested in someone,
inform/educate that person.

Honesty is the only way to deal with CH & relationships.

IMHO.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Linda_Howell on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:06pm
Oxygen bars????


 Oh please may I ?


I speak from California experience, which means they have NO clue.


Oxygen bars are on the exact same level as sushi bars.

40.00 dollars for a whiff of 02 for 20 mins....(they may sneak in a perfumed scent)   slash//////suszhi bars...raw fish in a pretty plate with a colorful look to it...40.00



US...  here at Ch.com and our experience....PRICELESS.

Linda
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by t_h_b on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:16pm

on 03/22/04 at 18:22:50, thomas wrote:
Thomas, you dirty dog. [smiley=bloos.gif]


That's the pot calling the kettle black! Thomas, I was not trying to be funny!

The only place I have for my 3 1/2 foot OXYGEN tank is in the corner of my room.  It does make people uncomfortable, even if they know about my headaches, but they don't want to say anything about it.  Even had one friend (who should know better) worry about me smoking in the same room with it.  

Offering them some breaks the ice.  Never had anybody take me up on it yet so even if you have a small tank you could still do it.

I'll never forget the day I came home and they had left the tank with the doorman.  Really freaked him out that I was getting O2.  I just said that I get really bad headaches and it helps with them.  Not everyone needs all of the details to satisfy their curiosity and concern.  I try to educate people but try not to bore them with repeated detailed explanations of my medical condition.
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by FZfan on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:17pm

on 03/22/04 at 18:06:31, Linda_Howell wrote:
Jayne This person is NOT worthy of you.


  If he doesn't call?   Consider this to be an act of GOD my dear pool-clue-less friend.  

O.K.?  

  Okey -dokey then.   Linda



This is the best advice in this entire thread.


Quote:
When I see people looking at my tank I just ask them if they want to try some!


Yep, I proudly display it for all to see. And I will talk anyones head off about it if they ask.


Quote:
I must be stingy... Or my tank is too small... After facing a night without it I conserve that stuff now like it's my last crack rock!


[smiley=laugh.gif]
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Tiannia on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:18pm

on 03/22/04 at 18:30:28, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Yeah really, what is with these oxygen bars I used to hear about? Are they still around?


                           -Freddy


Oh god here is Vegas they are customized. You can pick the flavor of O2 you want to breathe.  ;;D

But as far as your comments go about heavy people, I believe that no matter how intelligent you are, you still have a lot of learning to do. I grew up being told that  no one would ever want me because of my weight.  So your mindset is totally understandable, as there are many people who see the world like that.  

I am not a damn runway model, but I am not a frigging blimp either.  I was thinner when I met my husband yes. The fact that I smoked about 2 packs a day was a large part of that.  Due to the fact that smoking inhibited my immune system and allowed my thyroid to work correctly.  After getting pregnant and stopping smoking, my immune system started attacking my thyroid again (like it did when I was a child and did not know) and I gained a lot of weigth.  Luckly with my second pregnancy, I somehow lost 80 lbs while I was pregnant.  

My husband loves me not because of my weight or the lack of it.  But because there was a soul inside the body that connected to his.  There is an attraction there that is simply added to because of the physical not the other way around.  

The point of this whole little speach is this.  That you are unable to get past the physical at this point is fine. It simply means that you are not ready to really look for that person who is going to knock your socks off.  Like others have said enjoy your self. 31 is not old at all.  You have plenty of time.  

But when you mean that person, that one that you can not get the sound of her voice out of your head. The one that hours later you can still feel their touch when she squeezed your hand goodbye. That is when you will have learned that not "all of the good ones are taken".

PF Wishes to you Freddy. Enjoy yourself.  

Jayne - If he doesn't call. Then you have saved your self the touble of having to come up with an excuse to piss him off later.   ;;D Although sometimes it is fun to take a man off at the knees and watch him crumble. Damn I have not had a chance to do that in years.

-Tia
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Jayne on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:46pm
aw shit Linda...do I have to be nice to you now??
Really thank you for your nice words and everyone else for that matter...
I just have a feeling the tank freaked him out....aw..besides he was to young for me anyway.
I can see him talking to his friends...."Hell man I thought she was older than me, but hell I didn't think she was at the "Oxygen tank age" [smiley=laugh.gif]
NEXT!!!
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by jonny on Mar 22nd, 2004, 7:47pm

on 03/22/04 at 19:23:33, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
But is has been somewhat entertaining, and since I am sufferring so bad in a cycle, I find my self at this website all the time.


Try not to forget us when your pain free.

............................jonny
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by KingOfPain on Mar 22nd, 2004, 8:05pm

on 03/22/04 at 19:46:43, Jayne wrote:
I can see him talking to his friends...."Hell man I thought she was older than me, but hell I didn't think she was at the "Oxygen tank age" [smiley=laugh.gif]



LMAO!

[smiley=crackup.gif]
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by KingOfPain on Mar 22nd, 2004, 8:06pm

on 03/22/04 at 19:47:14, jonny wrote:
Try not to forget us when your pain free.

............................jonny



DITTO! Bro
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Kevin_M on Mar 22nd, 2004, 8:24pm

on 03/22/04 at 13:29:21, Jayne wrote:
He came back with this wierd look on his face. He asked me if that was an oxygen tank in my bedroom. "AW SHIT" I thought to myself. I played it down and told him very quickly about my CH and said I take great medication and I don't get the headaches anymore


Sounds like the guy has been told by a lot of women, "I've got a headache," and you were just reminding him of all his loser nights.  He probably
thought, "and this chick gets really bad ones, what is this, HELL!"
 Little did he know it's also used to revive guys before they leave in the morning. ::)
 Whatever, I've got your number, 222-MUCH.
 
Did you give him the same number you sent me?

1-800 438-5678
         (GET-LOST)

Kevin M
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by miapet on Mar 22nd, 2004, 8:38pm
Do I write . . .do I be quiet . . .do I write . . .do I be quiet . . .shoot, I NEVER know when to be quiet!!

It is important to be honest . . .and let us know what you're going through . . .that way we don't freak and you don't run the risk of being let down (if the one you think can hang, can't) . . . we all have our issues . . .if we're upfront about them . ..we have a better chance of meeting THE one. . . and a better chance of knowing they will be there when we need them . . .
miapet (I adore my clusterhead . . .and would rather go to work exhausted with my clusterhead than sleep peacefully without him.)
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by stuey on Mar 23rd, 2004, 12:05pm
So you are a tennis player?  Me too, big time.  I am just coming back after three years though.  I played in the Navy (made 2 finals) but tore my ACL and the following year tore my miniscus in the same knee.  I played 4 years ago in a tournament on Long Island and lost to a St. John's player, but I hung with him.  Funny that my neice's name is Kayla as well.  So anyway, I live in downtown Brooklyn and work in Manhattan and am trying to hook up with tennis players, so It'd be cool to compete against one with CHs.  Good luck at the neuro Scott.  So that's about it.  If you want e-mail me sometime at eadshead@mccarter.com.  Stuey
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Sean_C on Mar 23rd, 2004, 12:39pm
Dude I had to laugh.........................no fat chicks for the Fredsta. Man thats the three letter word that you can't say around my house LOL.

Hope you have a skinny hand. ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D ;;D

Sean
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 23rd, 2004, 1:02pm
eeeeehehehehe  

Lighten up Freddy, I think we all know you deeply regret opening your mouth. ;;D

BTW, good luck at the neuro's, I hope you can get some headway into managing your CH's.

;)mel
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Tiannia on Mar 23rd, 2004, 1:11pm
Freddy - No worries.  You will find the woman of your dream when you least expect it.  Enjoy yourself. Make some friends. Dont worry about finding the one. It will happen, in due time.

Good Luck at the neuro's.  Talk to him about your anxiety. There might be somethign that can help you to calm down when the HA start. It seems to be that you are working yourself up and that might be causeing them to be more intense. I know and understand how bad the HA can get. I have them daily myself.  But Like the excersise that Charlie does helps to relax during an attack, there are other routes then just an imitrex shot.

PF Wishes to you Freddie,
Tia  
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Slammy on Mar 23rd, 2004, 1:27pm

on 03/22/04 at 19:23:33, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
I honestly wish I never started this thread.

                                   



BAHAHAHAHAA!!!   [smiley=laugh.gif]

I'm glad you started this thread!  I haven't laughed this hard in awhile!   ;;D

Though you would never qualify as a slammy...... ROTFLMAO!  



Slammy   8)
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Cerberus on Mar 23rd, 2004, 6:44pm
All men a women are created equal....


WINCHESTER


Told me so... ;;D


Ramon
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by cootie on Mar 23rd, 2004, 11:11pm
I've noticed that some of my freinds in there 40's and even 50's that have been dumped, booted, shit on, shit cann'd and devorced are now lookin at anyone that will give em the time of day. They no longer are the finiky picky people they used to be......they jus want someone.....sumtimes anyone. (that worries me) Alot of people don't wanna be alone.......shit happens and then ya change Pam

Doughnut anyone ?
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by john123 on Mar 24th, 2004, 9:38am
Are you gonna take me home tonight
Ah down beside that red firelight
Are you gonna let it all hang out
Fat bottomed girls
You make the rockin' world go round
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by aprilbee on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:41am
I'm kind of coming in late on this one...But I have to somewhat defend Hypno...I am a VERY picky person too.  Had to kiss a lot of frogs to find my prince...One date is all it ever took for me, as shallow as that was, I just wasn't going to settle.  So whatever the reason, never settle for someone so  you're not "alone" I have watched too many people settle for someone that was "ok" but not perfect for them and months, even years later, completely miserable and wondering how they got there....I have the perfect Husband, man of my dreams!  And I am totally butt crazy happy!  

Good luck in your quest!   ;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Slammy on Mar 24th, 2004, 11:56am

on 03/24/04 at 11:41:23, aprilbee wrote:
And I am totally butt crazy happy!  


Soooo.... is that "lil butt crazy"  or..... "big-butt crazy"   ;;D


Slammy  8)
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 12:02pm

on 03/24/04 at 11:41:23, aprilbee wrote:
  I just wasn't going to settle.  So whatever the reason, never settle for someone so  you're not "alone"


I never said that anyone shold settle, but more times then not the "one" is not always who you expect it to be. I fell in love with my best friend.Which is why no matter how hard things get at times, our relationship is so strong because we have the friendship as a base not just the physical. Grated the physical is nice and really really fun. But it is not the foundation of a marriage that will last.

This is my opinion, I am sure there will be people who might disagree,

PF Wishes to you
-Tia
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Melissa on Mar 24th, 2004, 12:13pm

Quote:
because we have the friendship as a base not just the physical


Ya know, this is SOOOO true!  I have dated some really hot guys in my life, and the reason the relationship did not last, is because they had the personality of a doorknob.  Physical attraction is not sustaining in a relationship and some people tend to get uglier as time goes by.  I REALLY hope I'm not one of them!!

Oh, and since I was a teen, I've always loved this saying, "I may be fat but you're ugly, and I can lose weight."

;;D
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by Tiannia on Mar 24th, 2004, 12:18pm

on 03/24/04 at 12:13:04, Melissa wrote:
"I may be fat but you're ugly, and I can lose weight."


I heard this one as well.
"I may be fat but your an Arsehole, and I can lose weight"
;;D

EDIT the site change the original word of a$$hole to not a very nice person hehe
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by FZfan on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:14pm
Sorry Freddy, but I'm with Slammy on this one! Great thread!


on 03/22/04 at 13:17:20, CJohnson wrote:
You need to slap that luscious round booty!
-Curtis


This reminds me of a piece of advice I got in my younger years from an guy I was working with who was near retirement. This old fart had a reputation as a lady's man, as in any lady.

He told me this, "Son, you'll never know who's best unless you try them all."
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by pubgirl on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:28pm
Viscous attacks?

They must be the thick, gloopy ones as opposed to the runny ones? [smiley=huh.gif]

Wendy
Title: Re: Dating and CHs
Post by jonny on Mar 24th, 2004, 6:31pm
Attacks, Freddy?

You mean like this?


on 03/24/04 at 15:48:18, HypnoticFreddy wrote:
Jonny,
FUCK OFF BITCH!!


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