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Title: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Elaine on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:24pm I can do most anything. I have had ever test the Good Lord could think to thrown my waY. The old devil has even thrown a few things my way and I got by some how. I made it throw illness, death of family members, Money problems, divorce, kids running away, all the heartaches of watching them get hurt by life through the years. Watching my parents slowy dieing every day. I think all the pain that we go throw kills a little part of our heart each time. I think it kills us till it don't beat no more. It gets full of pain and no joy and you just die. This old heart of mine is getting to full of pain. I can usually find something to easy the pain and dull it. I tell ya the pains get sharper with age I guess. Sometimes its really hard to get up! Todays one of those days for me! Just needed a shoulder figgered this was where I could find one or two! |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by hopefull on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:30pm <<<<<HUGS>>>>> Hang in there....find someone and get a hug....take a deep breath and know we are all here and listening! |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by ClusterChuck on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:46pm Darling, what can I do? ANYTHING you need, if possible, I will give /send it to you! My heart is yours to use. My shoulder is here to cry on. Use me. Abuse me. (Please?) Chuck |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by JDH on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:47pm I've got 2 shoulders E and they're all your's whenever you need them. And if you need an ear to go with that shoulder, just give me call. You hang in there lady, you're one the strongest people I've EVER met. Try doing something nice for yourself today...it can't hurt and it might even help your outlook a little. take care, Jim |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Charlie on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:54pm Wish you were having a better day E. You're right. It's tough watching our parents get old. I had this problem with mom only. Dad went suddenly. I spent too much time anticipating her death and what I would do. I realize you're describing a very different scenario. Somehow you have to remember to get up and dressed every day and get in a little fun. There's nothing written down that says you can't. No doubt they feel the same. [smiley=hug.gif] Keep your chin up and rant away kid. Charlie |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Tiannia on Feb 19th, 2004, 12:58pm Elaine, Take a little time for just you. Take buddy and go sit in a park or by a river. Dont talk, dont do anything, but let nature be around and you be a part of it. Cry if you need it, yell, hit the ground, whatever. Get it all out. Trying to be so very strong all the time fills up your soul with pain and at some point you have to empty that out or you forget yourself. Tia |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Svenn on Feb 19th, 2004, 1:41pm Elaine I remember when my pet "Ronja"was alive and well here last year. Those times i felt down she just sat there in my lap and just looking me in the eyes until she got contact, Dont think i can ever forget those eyes. The language those eyes told me was 100% LOVE No more no less shit i still cry and miss her a lot.she was special you know you have a lot of friends here that love you a lot "hope you count me in there" :) you have given us a lot of love,a lot more then you can imagine too. I will gladly lend you my shoulder,and you know that All my wibes on the way to a friend that i love very much Take care Elaine Svenn [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Leesa on Feb 19th, 2004, 1:46pm Elaine, my wonderful loving friend we love you and we are here for you. Im here for you in anyway I can help. A punching bag, a cry towel, a warm hug, a sound board, what ever the case Lady. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and always will be. I love you!!! Love, Leesa |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Cerberus on Feb 19th, 2004, 2:15pm My pops passed on some 20 odd years ago, ya never really get over it. Somehow you just come to accept the fate life deals us and eventually move on. I had it put once to me in a way that was somewhat easier. She had called it the "Comforter" She said that when something traumatic happens the lord feels this pain and in time will send an angel "The Comforter" to come and ease your pain. You may not see it you may not feel it for some great amount of time, but, to be certain it is there none the less. Let us be your "Comforter" E, let us help the pain wash away and to release whatever suffering you may have been or are carrying. The burden can be overwhelming...so in your time of need, let us lighten the load as much as we can. If ya need anything call, If you don't have Woobie and me's number Just holler and we will listen. WE LOVE YOU! Ramon |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by 9erfan on Feb 19th, 2004, 2:25pm Elaine, I'm so sorry that you are feeling such pain right now. I've got 2 shoulders for you! I don't believe that the trials & heartaches that we go through slowly kill us. I believe that they make us stronger. This is why you are the strong, loving, supportive person that you are. If you had an empty heart, you wouldn't be able to help so many others. God has blessed you with the gift of compassion for others. You hurt more because you LOVE more. He will not let your heart become empty. Instead he will continue to fill it with love. There are tons of people here who love you Elaine. We won't let you fall down when you're hurting. I agree with the others....go do something just for yourself today. Get some fresh air, go for a walk (if it's not too cold), or go buy something for yourself ;;D. Sometimes we have to stop to do stuff for ourselves once in awhile. Love, Virginia |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by aprilbee on Feb 19th, 2004, 2:27pm [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] TONS of hugs!!! Stay strong, God will never give you more than you can handle. Love ya! April Bee :-* |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by thomas on Feb 19th, 2004, 2:59pm You KNOW that you can always lean on my shoulders, hon. [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Tim_w on Feb 19th, 2004, 3:06pm Elaine Remember your a Clusterhead You can do anything! Hang in there , and if you need any thing or just need to talk just call any time you have my number remember you were one of the angel that has helped me through the last 8 months , I"m here for ya , as is the whole Clusterhead Family !!! Take care Love ya Timw |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by ave on Feb 19th, 2004, 3:07pm Some broadshouldered vibes are wingeing their way across the North Pole (somebody told me that is quicker than crossing the Atlantic). They should arrive any minute NOW. Make use of them, dear friend of everybody here. |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by BarbaraD on Feb 19th, 2004, 3:36pm Call me (when JD takes a nap) and we'll compare Grandkid stories -- that's get ya back up and going -- Did you ever get the Doggie from Grandmaw's? I worried about that last night... Seriously, you know we're here for ya. Hugs BD |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Belle on Feb 19th, 2004, 5:21pm From one mother to another, even though I'm younger I'm sending some maternal love to you. Belle ::) |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Jayne on Feb 19th, 2004, 5:54pm (((((((((((((((((((((((((Elaine))))))))))))))))))))))))))) |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Ree on Feb 19th, 2004, 6:23pm awwwwwwwwwww Elaine I love you... I think about you every time I color my hair... remember that!!!! love you girly be well....................ree |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by ShariRae on Feb 19th, 2004, 7:29pm Elaine, You are so loved & supported...Take the time you need to talk...cry...laugh..whatever you need.Just know we are here...anytime... Love & loads of hugs.... Shari |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by stevegeebe on Feb 19th, 2004, 8:09pm Elaine, you have been through this before and you will make it through this time as well. We have all been through this in one degree or another. I really do not know you but from what I have heard about you, the things you've written, your blessings, your accomplishments, makes me feel that you possess the qualities and fiber to plow a field of rocks to plant the <a href="http://000info.com?go=flowers" onmouseover="window.status = 'goto: flowers';return 1" onmouseout="window.status=''">flowers</a> for us all to enjoy. Endeavor to endure and never lose hope. Steve G |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Elaine on Feb 19th, 2004, 8:20pm Thanks guys, I am a little better tonight. You all made me smile. Chuck thanks for the ear ! |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Woobie on Feb 19th, 2004, 8:40pm ((((((((((((((((((((((((((*HUGZ!!!*))))))))))))))))))))))))))) [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] E!! Can ya feel me? tina :-* |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Renee on Feb 19th, 2004, 9:41pm E, I got tons of hugs waitin' for ya in 9 days. If ya want a few of them early...here they are [[[E]]] CH'ers are very strong people. We have to be strong to be able to cope with this affliction. At times, we all have days where we feel the mountain is too high. Hang in there and we'll help you shorten that mountain. See ya soon, Love and vibes Renee |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Mastifflvr28 on Feb 19th, 2004, 11:13pm Elaine, all that these wonderful people say is true!! YOU are a the Angel, and you need to take a break for a while. Take a bath and relax and take care of YOURSELF too, Love ya sweety, Mast |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Kevin_M on Feb 19th, 2004, 11:41pm Brushin' the danderf off my shoulders, scrapin' the snot from my sleeves for hugs to ya' Elaine. Outa roll on though. Kevin M |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by cootie on Feb 20th, 2004, 12:44am Stay strong........I've found that hard myself this last few weeks. We've come a 'long ways' baby cootie |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by AlienSpaceBabe on Feb 20th, 2004, 9:16am |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Little Deb on Feb 20th, 2004, 10:08am Elaine, you know you have alot in your life that is special and full of joy...look for it and enjoy! Love that baby...and go give that supporter of yours a head job!!! Love ya sweetie. Big Hugs....Little Deb |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by JDH on Feb 20th, 2004, 10:38am on 02/20/04 at 10:08:02, Little Deb wrote:
as Homer might say...DOH!!! I thought Elaine was the one who needs to feel better... Buddy! get over here and get busy ;) Jim |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by KingOfPain on Feb 20th, 2004, 1:06pm Sure hope your spirit is lifted soon. At least you are not this guy: http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4dc01b3127cceb8bdb1fddc190000001610 Maybe this will make you smile. http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4dc01b3127cceb8bdeaad1dcc0000001610 |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by bobkip on Feb 20th, 2004, 1:24pm E, remember when we first met at the airport in Rochester? One of those hugs and a kiss for ya. And the night we spent on the phone sooo long ago? Talk to me. Any time, pm me if you need the number. Kip |
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Title: Re: The hearts slowly dieing! Post by Elaine on Feb 20th, 2004, 7:30pm OK you guys got me to smile! Thanks for the calls and emails. They are very nice. Everything will be ok in time. Kip I want you to know I will never forget it you knocked me off my feet with that kiss on the mouth right in front of Judy. Someone else did that to me not long ago. Its hard to kiss you men and keep my eyes on the wifes at the same time. I think ya;ll are trying to get me killed LOL! I am glad your back Kip! Thanks for the memory! |
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