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(Message started by: Nimbus on Jan 24^th, 2004, 9:48pm)

Title: I know, this post is lame
Post by Nimbus on Jan 24^th, 2004, 9:48pm

I know you're there but somehow I can't help it... Some night like tonight, in front of my computer with shadows in the head, I feel very alone.
How can I feel like that when my lover is in the bed right next room?
I'm not complaining.... I've just felt the need to throw that on the internet.

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by brad267 on Jan 24^th, 2004, 9:51pm

Nah, not a lame post.... Wake up your partner and talk. Or, if they have to work in the morning....
Come chat with us.....

http://headachesupportgroups.com/echat45/public/index.html

It's always open...

-Brad

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Sean_C on Jan 24^th, 2004, 10:06pm

Nim,

Take your chick out and paint the town bro.....don't get stuck on this puter like the rest of us. I've been married for 13 oops 14 years....... save yourself now LOL....

If all else fails poor a beer on your left hand.........your chances always get better if you get your date drunk ;;D

Hang in there bro......summers comin

Wishin you PFDAN

Sean.............

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by boonie on Jan 24^th, 2004, 10:16pm

Nimbus

alone is when there was no clusterheadaches.com
and you thought no one on the planet suffered from this but yourself, because no one knows this pain unless you have experienced it. But I have to tell you if you have a good supporter count your blessings.My wife Connie is mine and I saw a bunch of them in Davenport Ia.

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by tsayswhy on Jan 25^th, 2004, 12:41am

Hello Nimbus

Not lame at all. I think we all feel that way sometimes. The house is quiet everyone is sleeping and the feeling of emptiness kind of hangs around even sometime coming to the board gets me down only because i read about the meet and greets and there i am a dot on the map out in tin buck too :-/ but its always nice to know someone is always here for you. Hang in there tomorrow is another day ;)
Tsay

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Mr.Happy on Jan 25^th, 2004, 12:59am

And the judges give the Lame Post Award of..............9.16

on 01/24/04 at 21:48:06, Nimbus wrote:

How can I feel like that when my lover is in the bed right next room

Phew. Don't know what yer doing here.....but that's YOUR business.......

It's always something,
RJ

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Callico_Kid on Jan 25^th, 2004, 2:19am

I know how you feel. Haven't been to bed with the wife more than a dozen times in the last year. The shadows and the HA's hit right about that time of night and I know I don't dare put my head down. Hang in there though. That is why we are here. I'm up usually until 2 or later, so if you ever need to talk drop me an email for my number.

Jerry

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Kevin_M on Jan 25^th, 2004, 7:35am

Ah yes, clusters open you to the world on the dark side. Frequently my posts are in the wee hours. Here it is 7:00 am Sunday morning and I've been up for two hours. Second time I've been up tonight. Actually an improvement. Dismotivation though, I notice, accompanies facing the darkness nightly. A major cutdown on my daily routines. I made the extra effort too visit my little nieces and nephews yesterday, which I used to do weekly, but only once since Christmas lately. I loved doing it, but just haven't been as diligent about it lately. Planned on seeing my sister and her kids too but didn't seem to manage that this weekend also.
Some preventatives are a drain on the sex drive. Sometimes I'll suffer more and not take them so I can become more feeling again. Been meaning to go to the show and dinner with someone for a few weeks now but, during the high frequency times, well, I've got a lot to make up for soon when this passes.
People in my life understand, but I wish to be with them instead rather than to have them missing from my life at these times. Though I appreciate the understanding, life is better living with them than without. I miss many of my friends.
At these times, getting to work and making an effort to keep the house clean and maintained is the extent of my motivation.
Keep up the spirits, maintain your humor until the beast is through with you for this period.
The part about slacking on the preventatives is not recommended, I can be a desparate individual at times though. It can be a real test sometimes to the expression, love conquers all.
Best to you.
Kevin M
Things will come back around soon

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by jonny on Jan 25^th, 2004, 8:17am

on 01/25/04 at 02:19:33, Callico_Kid wrote:

I know how you feel. Haven't been to bed with the wife more than a dozen times in the last year.

Your way ahead of me jerry, bed....whats that?

Try the recliner, something about being proped up helps.

................................jonny

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by cakelady on Jan 25^th, 2004, 8:22am

You're not alone. Know that on any given night there are a whole slew of us up and dancing with our o2 tank, glad our partner is sleeping, but wishing it was them we were dancing with instead.
Cakes

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Woobie on Jan 25^th, 2004, 9:03am

on 01/24/04 at 22:16:00, boonie wrote:

Nimbus

and I saw a bunch of them in Davenport Ia.

How you doin, boonie??

Nimbus - I'm sorry you feel alone!!
sometimes.. you can be surrounded - and still feel that way - it's all relative. But, no matter how you FEEL - just know you are NOT alone. Ever. Not when you're part of this familY!

I hope you know that people here are pullin for ya!

tina :-*

Title: Re: I know, this post is lame
Post by Cerberus on Jan 25^th, 2004, 7:58pm

Don't let Mr. Happy fool ya..........The Russian judge only gave it 5.1.

You're never alone while you remain here. Hope ya feel better soon.

Ramon