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(Message started by: Svenn on Mar 24^th, 2003, 11:30am)

Title: Never thought i was able to this because a animal
Post by Svenn on Mar 24^th, 2003, 11:30am

On wednesday the 26 we has a appoinment with the Vet to come home to us to let our loved cat sleep.we have had here since nov 1989
I was crying on the phone so my wife had to take over.Its so sad so i feel so empty,just crying
Just felt to let this out,and could not find a better place then among friends

YOU ARE LOVED RONJA

Svenn

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by maggie_may on Mar 24^th, 2003, 12:18pm

Dear Svenn,
I'm so sorry to hear about your cat. It's hard to have to do this, especially when she's been in your life for so long.

I have an idea of what you are feeling now - on the 12th, we had to put one of our cats to sleep too. He suddenly got very sick and had severe kidney failure. I cried for days, but I know that wherever he is now, he's not sick anymore. At least that brings some solace to my mind and heart.

I'm sending prayers your way
maggie

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by JDH on Mar 24^th, 2003, 12:31pm

Sorry to hear of your loss Svenn. I know how hard it is to say goodbye to a beloved pet.
The following has given me comfort during times that I've lost pets in the past, I hope you like it:

Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by cootie on Mar 24^th, 2003, 12:32pm

I know how you feel Svenn.....I had to put my palimino horse buddy down and he was my best friend...had him for 16 years and had taught him MANY tricks....he was t-totally cool. We trail road regular and I showed him....took me a year to getup the nerve to realize I had to let him go...then I felt guilty for a while....but I know he was only goin to get worse. I've lost a few housepets to that still sets heavy on my mind. Sorry for your loss....here's a pet poem for you....Pam-Coots-that-knows-the-pain

FROM FRIEND TO FRIEND
You're giving me a special gift,
So sorrowfully endowed,
And through these last few cherished days,
Your courage makes me proud.

But really, love is knowing
When your best friend is in pain,
And understanding earthly acts
Will only be in vain.

So looking deep into your eyes,
Beyond, into your soul,
I see in you the magic, that will
Once more make me whole.

The strength that you possess,
Is why I look to you today,
To do this thing that must be done,
For it's the only way.

That strength is why I've followed you,
And chose you as my friend,
And why I've loved you all these years...
My partner 'til the end.

Please, understand just what this gift,
You're giving, means to me,
It gives me back the strength I've lost,
And all my dignity.

You take a stand on my behalf,
For that is what friends do.
And know that what you do is right,
For I believe it too.

So one last time, I breathe your scent,
And through your hand I feel,
The courage that's within you,
To now grant me this appeal.

Cut the leash that holds me here,
Dear friend, and let me run,
Once more a strong and steady cat,
My pain and struggle done.

And don't despair my passing,
For I won't be far away,
Forever here, within your heart,
And memory I'll stay.

I'll be there watching over you,
Your ever faithful friend,
And in your memories I'll run,
...a young cat once again.

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by CathiP on Mar 24^th, 2003, 12:40pm

Oh, Svenn-
Been there, myself. Our pets are part of our family, and saying goodbye is nearly as difficult. My heart goes out to you. We have 5 cats- that is waaaay too many, but they have all found US, rather than us seeking them out. I guess we've always just figured that it was meant to be......now, as 2 of them are growing old, I am dreading the inevitable. My sympathy goes out to you & your family. May the sorrow be softened by the fond memories you have.
Cathi

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by catlind on Mar 24^th, 2003, 12:52pm

Svenn,

My deal friend, I am very saddened for you and what you are going through. Pam that poem was beautiful and brought tears to my eyes.

There is so much to life that we are putting aside right now as we bicker over the right and wrong of a policy and war that none of us have the power to change. Lets all band together and remember the things we can change, like the life of a friend in need, through our comfort and support.

All my love Svenn

Cat

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Mar 24^th, 2003, 8:51pm

My deepest sympathies to Svenn and Bente.

Take care,
Mast

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Charlie on Mar 25^th, 2003, 5:46am

Rats. Sorry Svenn.

It's harder than hell on us but easy on the them. I used to help a vet with euthanasia. Sometimes it got to us as well, but it's almost always the kindest thing you can do for an animal you love. I think we’ve all been there.

Charlie

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by suzy617 on Mar 25^th, 2003, 6:52am

So sorry for your pain Svenn. :'(

suzy

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Leesa on Mar 25^th, 2003, 9:08am

:'( Svenn & Bente my heart goes out to you and family. I have you in my thoughts and prayers. Love to you.

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Riccardo on Mar 25^th, 2003, 9:38am

Svenn, I have had to do this with our first dog (19 years old). Severe heart and lung problems and, anyway, the age that didn't help.

I would give you a suggestion (the same that they gave me.... and I didn't heard...:-( )

When the Vet will do the injection, GO AWAY!
You'll remember your cat better, and you'll avoid to suffer in an incredible way. Your cat will be grateful to you if you go away! Don't think that you owe her your presence. Is too much bad, and you'll mainly remember this last thing.

From the heart, your friend

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by ZAIRA on Mar 25^th, 2003, 10:28am

I'm very sorry Svenn... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Zaira :'( :-X :-[

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by cathy on Mar 25^th, 2003, 10:32am

:'( :'( :'(...Svenn sorry to hear about your cat sending you hugs and kisses.... :-*

Cathy

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Mark C on Mar 25^th, 2003, 11:27am

I am sorry for the loss of your family member Svenn. Animal people understand how it's not much different than losing any member of the family, it hurts.
My blessed children are ages 3 and 7.....my Black Lab, Moose, turned 15 (!) in January. She is still doing pretty good , to be over a hundred (people years) but she is getting really old. I share your pain my friend.

PFDAN's
Mark

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Edna on Mar 25^th, 2003, 12:20pm

Oh Svenn, I am so sorry that the day has come for poor Ronja. Just remember that you know you and your family are doing the right thing for her.

Know that I'm thinking of you guys tomorrow and you know how to find me if you need to talk.

Give Hans an extra tight hug from me AND Kali, OK??

tight hugs pal,
EDNA (pst....check your mail)

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by echo on Mar 25^th, 2003, 2:52pm

Sorry to read of your loss Svenn. Those furry little creatures sure have a way of burrowing deep into our hearts don't they.

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by 2late on Mar 25^th, 2003, 5:47pm

hang in there 'bro it will get easier. ..........Jack

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by firebrix on Mar 25^th, 2003, 10:12pm

Sorry to hear this news Svenn.
We understand.
Sending you kind thoughts.
Try to think what a wonderful life you gave this feline friend. As time passes you will remember happier days with your pet.
Love
firebrix

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by ave on Mar 26^th, 2003, 3:48am

I feel for you Sven.

When my 21 year old cat died, I sat typing with tears down my face. Friends on the Message board rallied round, as they do now. You'll never forget that dear cat but sharing the giref does help.

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Svenn on Mar 27^th, 2003, 5:13am

Its done now.Its so sad sad but at the same time i`m filled with joy and good feelings that we did the right thing.

Had Ronja on my lap when the Vet did that.She was so calm.Just had her sparkling eyes right on me.Just like she would say thanks for all
Ronja`s liver and kidney was destroyd by cancer so she was alive on overtime the Vet said.She would have died within a months time in pain if we did not do this.

Like to thank everyone of you for the kind words and poems.That helpt me a lot

The very best from Svenn

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Roxy on Mar 27^th, 2003, 11:05am

Svenn, I am so sorry this had to happen. Losing a pet is traumatic and painful. You just love them so much. They are your constant companions who love you unreservedly and whole heartedly.

I am glad she went peacefully, and I'm sure her life had been full of love and caring from ya'll. It is so hard at times to do the right thing. Your mind tells you that you have to, but your heart just aches and doesn't stop.

My sympathies to you,

Tracey

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by Edna on Mar 27^th, 2003, 2:24pm

Hey buddy, still there with you in thought..........and know the upcoming days will be rough for you and the family, especially Hans......so you know how to find me if you need to!!!!!!

Proud of your courage, and thanks for sharing with me.

Talk soon, luv ya much,

EDNA (pst.....get off your ass and go walk...hehehehe)

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by OneEyeBlind on Mar 27^th, 2003, 9:53pm

So sorry buddy. Animals are man's best friend. You are in my thoughts.

Title: Re: Never thought i was able to this because a ani
Post by catlind on Mar 28^th, 2003, 10:20am

Svenn,

My thoughts are with you. May you find some peace and comfort in knowing that you did something humane. It is a very difficult thing you did, and you did it bravely.

Cat