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(Message started by: Gailfrank on Feb 17th, 2003, 5:19pm)

Title: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Gailfrank on Feb 17th, 2003, 5:19pm
Hi Guys-

I just started dating this guy who says he has cluster headaches.

he says they start in the back of his neck and move up to the base of his skull and it just sits there.

He also told me that they CAN be seasonal, thats why they are called "clusters".

is this true? does he have "cluster" headaches, or maybe just migranes???

Im just looking for info. And response is appreciated as I KNOW you are not doctors :)

Thanks
Gail

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Silver_Dolphins on Feb 17th, 2003, 5:30pm
Hi Gail,

That is not a whole lot of information to make a determination. If you go to the OUCH website (link provided on left highlighted in yellow), there is a quiz. That quiz is what I used to help me determine if I had CH or not. Of course, I did go to the neurologist to get "diagnost" as a CH sufferer, bu that quiz is a gem for getting the basic information.

Just curious as to why it would matter if he had them or not. It isn't contagious.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 17th, 2003, 5:38pm

on 02/17/03 at 17:30:49, Silver_Dolphins wrote:
Just curious as to why it would matter if he had them or not.


Ditto!!!

.........................jonny

If ya ask me this is a BS setup game, nobody asks this crap without at least having a gender.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by cbolony on Feb 17th, 2003, 5:41pm
Gail print out the cluster quiz on the left side and give it to him.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by cathy on Feb 17th, 2003, 6:16pm

on 02/17/03 at 17:38:14, jonny wrote:
Ditto!!!

.........................jonny

If ya ask me this is a BS setup game, nobody asks this crap without at least having a gender.


Maybe he/she is an hermorfrodate uhuhmmm...Hermaphrodite.. ;)

Cathy...

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 17th, 2003, 6:21pm

on 02/17/03 at 17:19:39, Gailfrank wrote:
Hi Guys-
I just started dating this guy who says he has cluster headaches.


Why are you here and he is not?

Oh, he dont type.....can I get a break here?

.................................jonny

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Gailfrank on Feb 17th, 2003, 7:15pm
Hi guys-

1. Im not a hemaphrodite (spelling?)

2. I didnt know I could put down my gender (girl)

3. IT MATTERS because I like him a lot. I KNOW I cant do anything for him, but If I can get INFORMATION.....now, that WOULD be something.

Dont assume just because someone has questions its a deception.

sometimes a question is just a question.

and sometimnes we do WHATEVER we can to help people in our lives.

Knowledge IS Power!

Gail (in 26" of snow no less)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ted on Feb 17th, 2003, 7:21pm

on 02/17/03 at 17:30:49, Silver_Dolphins wrote:
Hi Gail,

That is not a whole lot of information to make a determination.


Sure it is. Look at where they pain's located. "he says they start in the back of his neck and move up to the base of his skull and it just sits there."
Doesn't sound like it touches anywhere near the sensory branches of the trigeminal nerve and therefore it doesn't sound like clusters.
Gail, you might try researching information on cervicogenic headaches for him. Good luck and I hope you find the info you're looking for.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by cathy on Feb 17th, 2003, 7:22pm

on 02/17/03 at 19:15:01, Gailfrank wrote:
Hi guys-

1. Im not a hemaphrodite (spelling?)

Knowledge IS Power!


Spelt....in the 'Universal English Dictionary' Edited by Henry Cecil Wyld page 546... HERMAPHRODITE   ;)  but your right about the other....Knowledge is Power... ;D

btw: nice to meet you...

Cathy  :)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by suzy617 on Feb 17th, 2003, 7:28pm
C'mon guys, be easy on the girl.  Sometimes people just happen to stumble in here and dont quite know how to start up a subject for help.

Anyway, there is alot of info in this site, read all you can on it and try to get him to post himself.

suzy
(all honked up with cabin fever)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by RicoVon on Feb 17th, 2003, 8:55pm
Wow.... I'm new but.... wow.... I hope I don't ask the wrong question. I've sufferered from these bastards for 16 years.. (Trust me, I have clusters!! Classic case.) Yet I don't blame others for not knowing what they are. It took me 5 years of fear before I found out what they were!!

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Gailfrank on Feb 17th, 2003, 9:40pm
Hey Guys-

 All of you have really good things to say.

I came to this site because I wanted to know if there was ANYTHING I could do.....again, even if it was information.

I know your not doctors, I was just looking for the laymans answer. No one kows more than those who suffer from something.

I have pseriosis. I have had it since I was 12 years old so I do know about having a horrible disease that you have to live with.

I look forward to staying and asking questons and look forward to your continued support and understanding.

Even if it is just a place to ask a naive question :)

Gail :)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Charlie on Feb 18th, 2003, 12:10am
Sorry if you know anyone in lots of pain. To give you an idea about clusters: They are frontal and usually hit behind an eye. The pain comes on very fast and goes away just as quickly. It's so intense no one can sit still.  Clusters will wake you out of a sound sleep and you're likely to have several a day.  They come in cycles of several day for weeks or months. They are bunched like this which is why they are called clusters.

There are no pain medications that will do anything serious for the pain of a clusters.

What you have described so far does not sound like clusters. Take the test and if you think it's CH, tell us more. We'll make nice.

Charlie

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Gailfrank on Feb 18th, 2003, 10:59am
Charlie--

You answer was EXACTLY what I was looking for.

Its too bad I had to go through the BS of some of the other answers to get what you gave me :)

I REALLY appreciate it. NOW I have something to work off of.

Gail

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by west17m on Feb 18th, 2003, 11:19am
Gail,

Don't take too much offense to anything said here.  Fact is, there are a lot of knowledge knowledgeable people here that do care a lot.  I think you can understand why some people would be less than pleased to write a long, time-consuming, heart-felt response to someone who's just playing games.

Anyway, if you do find out your guy is a clusterhead, make sure you get over to the supporters board.  There's a lot of people in your same situation.  Have a wonderful day (and stay warm)

-- Tag

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ann on Feb 18th, 2003, 1:19pm
Hey Gail!

I don't mean to be a bitch, but if you were looking for such simple information without BS, all you had to do was click on the "cluster Traits" button on the left.  Here you'll find a multitude of information and you won't ever have to worry about anyone being mean. ;D

Hope your man doesn't have clusters.  Good luck

Ann

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ted on Feb 18th, 2003, 3:27pm

on 02/18/03 at 10:59:36, Gailfrank wrote:
Charlie--

You answer was EXACTLY what I was looking for.

Its too bad I had to go through the BS of some of the other answers to get what you gave me :)

I REALLY appreciate it. NOW I have something to work off of.

Gail


 You were given something to work off of. You just didn't want to do the work.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Gailfrank on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:13pm
Ted-

Too bad your an idiot.

I did do work, and....ya know what? Im just gonna leave it as your an idiot.

I wont write any more responses. I cant believe that this community has been SO negative.

What happens to the poor 15 year old who comes on who needs help?

Or the not so computer literate 40 year old?

You should all think twice about being so mean.

And I appreciate ALL the kind and nice words from everyone.

I would wish you luck with your headaches, but it seems some of you need luck with your mean personalities.

Thanks
Gail

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:23pm
A thick skin is a must in Clusterville, Gail.

A wise troll once said of Cluterville "Take what you need and leave the rest"

.....................................jonny

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ted on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:26pm
"Too bad your an idiot."
I think you mean "you're," and not "your." And there's nothing too bad about me being an idiot. I'm rather fond of being that way. I get to stay happy that way. Although, I am curious if it bothers you that an idiot gave you information to "work off of" above and you apparently didn't understand a word of it, nor have the intelligence to look up what it meant if the idiot's words were too big for you.
We've helped the "poor 15 year olds," and the not-so-computer-literate 40 year olds would know how to push on the "cluster trait" button if they knew how to push the "message board" one.
"Im just gonna leave it as your an idiot."
Again, I think you mean "you're."

Love,
 The Idiot!

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by oringkid on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:27pm
1) Ted is no where near an idiot!
Just saying that had you clicked on the links to the left, you would have gotten your answers much more quickly.

2) Jonny is right

3) I hope that your b/f does not have clusters

4) click on the links to the left, you will find more info than most doctors can give you

Sherry

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ted on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:37pm
Thanks Sherry. But I disagree with #1. :-)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Slammy on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:39pm

on 02/18/03 at 16:23:16, jonny wrote:
A wise troll once said of Cluterville "Take what you need and leave the rest"

.....................................jonny


Hey Jonny?  What's a Cluter?   :D

and she can't be that bad, she pegged Ted in a New York minute!   ;D



Slammy  8)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:41pm
I agree with #2

Im usually wrong so I gotta take what I can get!!!!

..............................Dumbass ;D

Hey Asswipe, im hurtin over here.....sooory for the typo your hieness(SP?) ;D

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by oringkid on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:42pm
Sorry Ted, but I will have to disagree with your disagreeing with # 1

You might like to pretend that your (lol) an idiot at times as do I, but ..........like a male orgasm, idiocy cannot be faked!  LOL  Sorry if this offends anyone......... I am an idiot!

Sherry

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Slammy on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:45pm

on 02/18/03 at 16:42:55, oringkid wrote:
You might like to pretend that your (lol) an idiot at times as do I, but ..........like a male orgasm, idiocy cannot be faked!  LOL  Sorry if this offends anyone......... I am an idiot!

Sherry


Sherry,
Does this mean that you suffer from male orgasms?   :o

;D ;D

Miss ya!   :D



Slammy   8)

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Ted on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:47pm
Mmmmm. Uuuooooohhhhh GOD. Uhhnng, yes, baby. UUUUUHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
And you thought it couldn't be faked by a man! LOL

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by oringkid on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:53pm
No Slammy, I relish them........... ;D

Ted, all the ohhing and ahhing does not replace the physical evidence! LOL  (females may be able to get away with it (although if you are really attentive you can figure that one out too) but not males)

Yeeeeeeeeessssssssssssss!

(I'm shampooing lol)

Sherry

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 18th, 2003, 4:58pm

on 02/18/03 at 16:53:59, oringkid wrote:
Yeeeeeeeeessssssssssssss!
(I'm shampooing lol)


Bukaki? ;D

............................jonny :D

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by cathy on Feb 18th, 2003, 5:05pm
;D It's at times like this I wish I was a Hermaphrodite then I could experience both....at the same time... ::)

Cathy..

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by echo on Feb 18th, 2003, 5:13pm

on 02/18/03 at 16:41:56, jonny wrote:
Hey Asswipe, im hurtin over here.....sooory for the typo your hieness(SP?)   (slammy);D


Thanks for clearing up who is who jonny.

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by jonny on Feb 18th, 2003, 5:17pm
Ahhh Echo, I see you altered my quote....I guess its not my quote anymore but yours.

...................................jonny

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Frank on Feb 18th, 2003, 8:41pm
To those who get off on flaming new people who come here to ask a few simple questions and are hoping for some SUPPORT... you suck.

Title: Hello/goodbye club
Post by rumplestiltskin on Feb 18th, 2003, 10:09pm
Gailfrank

hello

Please feel free to join the illustrious ranks of the hello/goodbye club here at CH.com.

The only requirement for membership is to post a heartfelt parting message....and then come back....hell ya don't even have to actually leave. Just say you are. Noone comes to yer house and checks.

You will then get a bunch of sympathetic posts, e-mails and IM's.

It's a popular group.

...and all the while you can be checkin through all the links here, searchin and readin archives, finding something that can help you and yers.

goodbye

Walk in the sunshine
den

hello

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by cootie on Feb 18th, 2003, 11:00pm
Here's to you and here's to me, and I hope we never disagree. But, if that should ever be, to HELL with you, here's to ME! (a famous quote) Pam-honk'd

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by eggie on Feb 19th, 2003, 12:22am
:o :oYou people crack me up. You make me laugh my ass off all the time. Keep the good work up. Love you all. hay im that 40 year old computer literate that you are talking about.  :obut im working on geting better. some day ;)and for that boy friend.  if his eye not falling out he not a cluster head or if he don't know what his floor smell like at his house. he just trying to get in your pants. ps hope you have pf days john

Title: Re: Question on Clusters.......
Post by Charlie on Feb 19th, 2003, 5:31am
Can't fake it?
Really?

You never get a break.

Actually, there are some people; I know not why, that just won't, can't, don't, or some combination thereof, and will not do the work of looking up our stuff. I almost understand it. There must be some of this in me. It's more fun to read our scintillating posts rather than search......

She shouldn't have called Ted an idiot though. You can tell how deeply he was wounded by it.

Charlie



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