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(Message started by: athos12 on Feb 13^th, 2003, 4:42am)

Title: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by athos12 on Feb 13^th, 2003, 4:42am

update....

Well it is not as bad as I thought....

this is what happened.

Cami the 14 year old who has been in all of that trouble, just finished a wilderness program. She did extremely well. Graduated with honors and beat out al of the guys in several catregories...

Well... She was being stubborn one night and one of the counselors was yelling at her, and was saying things like stop giving this attitude crap... anyway she started to cry.... They started asking questions about home life... they asked if she had been hit before... She said yes. She was refereing to the time that slapped her mouth when she told me to F-off.
This incident happened over a year ago.

anyway the counselors twisted her words, put words in her mouth saying that she does not feel safe in the home etc.... then ballooned into pulling her out of the home not letting her come home from the wilderness program, and they were going to investigate me for child abuse.

She is in a proctor home right now and will be ble to visit on the weekend and come home in a week or so.

They said that there will not be an invesitgation because this happened so long ago...

Also if it had been recent they would have charged me with child abuse... You know that we have a messed up society when slapping a kids mouth because the told you to f-off is considered child abuse.

Our lives were turned upsied down because some over zealous counselor wanted to get recognized or some damn thing... Thinking that he is going to save this poor innocent (drug user, run-a-way, liar, thief) girl from her evil step father...

If I had told my stepdad to f-off, I would have been picking myself off the ground for days, and I would have deserved it.

So all in all they are dropping the whole thing... I am not sure why Cami has to stay at this proctor home for a week though...

They need to spend their eneregies on real issues and not try and twist peoples lives around for no reason.

I am still pissed about the whole thing.

i am proud that my daughter accomplished what she did in the program, and I hope that it sticks. I hope this little problem that we had does not make her think that it as a waste.

The State social services program is waste as far as I am concerned.

Athos

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by suzy617 on Feb 13^th, 2003, 7:08am

I totally agree with you Athos. The social services need to start really investigating the parents who really neglect their children. Here it is, you send your child away so she can get help and counselling, hoping to do good for her and then they just suck your life into their hell hole. Meanwhile the parents who dont give a crap about their kids just go left unnoticed. ::)

Anyway, I'm glad to hear things are starting to turn around for your family. Maybe your daughter got a bit of a scare in her and has shocked her back to reality.

Good luck, keep us posted.

suzy

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by Karla on Feb 13^th, 2003, 7:18am

Prayers answered! So sorry you had to go through all this hell. I am so glad to hear that this is going to blow over and your lives will be back to normal soon.

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by BruceD on Feb 13^th, 2003, 9:23am

Amen to that.

I'm sure that it's a great relief for you guys. BTW, how's the head doing? Hopefully you're in for a long spell of relief - both head & emotions.

Bruce

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by Roxy on Feb 13^th, 2003, 10:41am

Glad things are looking up for you, and I hope they continue in that direction.

Thoughts are with you,

Tracey

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by Jarvis on Feb 13^th, 2003, 8:36pm

Athos - I am glad to hear its going to work out. Phew.. .. Be carefull your starting to sound a little upset like me. :) . Glad she did well in the program.. ...........mj.....

Title: Re: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by Jarvis on Feb 13^th, 2003, 8:39pm

Good question from Bruce; Did the stress help your CH?

Title: :PRe: & I thought Clusters were bad Part 2
Post by athos12 on Feb 14^th, 2003, 1:12am

Bruce/Jarvis

This was at the same time my CH's have been the worst that they have ever been.... I was technically chronic with 3-4 cylces a month... Since the end of Nov. they went to 4-5 cycles a week.

that was the same time that they put me on Topamax.. After I started Topamax I got a real bad case of depression and my CH got worse... I think that it was Topamax. My nuero took me off of topamax and startred Lithium. The CH are starting to ease back a bit.

With Cami... I still want to talk with the lame asses and ask them how slapping you childs mouth when they are that disrespectpul, and verbally abusing me :P.. how that is abuse. And that they would have charged me with child abuse had this been a recent event.

She is coming home, the strange thing is, is that she has to stay with this proctor home for a week... If there is not going to be an investigation and she is going to come home, why not just send her home. Are they that much into controlling lives that they are just flexing their muscle?

Athos