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(Message started by: OneEyeBlind on Jan 28^th, 2003, 4:59pm)

Title: Miss Ya
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jan 28^th, 2003, 4:59pm

I miss you guys. I miss the way when I first joined how supportive you were of me with my headaches. After four months of headaches I kind of learned how to deal with them on my own, but have yet to find a way to deal with my husband’s illness. I realize that that isn’t what this message board is about … helping to support people through the daily struggles of life and that is why I haven’t posted for a while. Just wanted to let you know that we are still around … dealing with the HepC that hubby has. It is not going real well and he is pretty week and tired at this point. The meds just don’t seem to be working. Just wanted to let you know where I have been. I’ll be back to support when I can .. and Jonny, if I need to get a new name cause I can’t remember my password well ….. give me a break ok? I’m still gonna try and make the Easterner’s OUCH meeting if possible.

Take care and PFDAN's to ya all !!!!!!!

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by echo on Jan 28^th, 2003, 5:08pm

Nice to see you post again Nancy. I understand that you and hubby have been dealt a difficult hand. Keep the faith, keep your head up and remember to take care of YOU so you can help take care of you hubby.

Hang in there.

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by suzy617 on Jan 28^th, 2003, 5:12pm

Its good that you were able to post and let us know how things are going.

I hope you will find PF moments soon and that your husband will become stronger.

Take care,

suzy

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by eyes_afire on Jan 28^th, 2003, 5:56pm

Sorry that your hubby is having a rough time. Thanks for checking in with us and for hanging tough.
PFD&N to you and your family.

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by CathiP on Jan 28^th, 2003, 6:12pm

Hey, Nancy-
I've seen this group stand behind people for any number of reasons- I know they are the best at that!
Please stay out of cycle, Red needs all you've got right now- and any time you or Red need someone to lean on, I hope you'll come here.
CH is nasty stuff, HepC is nasty stuff, and there is a LOT of strength here to help you deal with BOTH- not to mention the fact that this forum needs YOU, with your great humor and level mindedness.
BTW- ya wanna tell us about the collapsed sewer pipe- and the weather? No one can tell that story better, Nan!
So glad you posted....looking forward to lots more from you....PF, of course!
Cathi

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by brain_cramps on Jan 28^th, 2003, 6:17pm

on 01/28/03 at 18:12:39, CathiP wrote:

Please stay out of cycle

HEY!!! :o >:(

That's no fair. If you know how to stay out of cycle, tell the rest of us! ;D

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jan 28^th, 2003, 6:55pm

Geez Louise Brain Cramps ... get a grip ... it's easy to go out of cycle ... just post a mesage with all "the crappy numbers stuck in the middle" like I just did showing everyone you have no clue whatsoever what it going on, have your husband keep you up all night long with the silent but deadly side effects of the shit he has to shoot himself up with, have your sewer pipe collapse and have the workers not show up for 2 weeks while you are shit*ing in your own back yard, get the severence letter that you have known was coming but hoped never showed up, have your 70 + year old dad move in with you .. who by the way has no clue anymore what is really going on in the world .... and wait .... this is the best .... just wait for that first grandbaby to be born ... and hell, by then you are soooooo stressed that the CH don't dare show up at your doorstep. If you have problems fitting the bill ... well, all I can say is I am willing to share the stress (except for the grandbaby ... that one is mine ... all mine) Hang tough you guys. Glad I got to post after so long. Hopefully I will be back soon.

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by sailpappy on Jan 28^th, 2003, 9:26pm

;D ;D Nancy & Red,
I'm not going to let you miss me too much, I am going to call every week to check up on you and Red!
I know just exactly what your going through and it sure isn't a bowl of cherries, self induced Malaria every other day and the weakness and problems from Red's illness are very difficult to have to deal with, he's as lucky as I am to have some one as wonderful as you to help him through this tough time, and I mean TOUGH TIME, Terri and I are here when ever you need to talk but my Long distance within the us is free after 9pm and on the weekends so I will call you, I pray for you both every day! Love Ya Nancy!!! Pappy

Tell Red to close his eye's and think of doing this to his Gastroendorologist when he beats this bad boy!
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Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by CathiP on Jan 28^th, 2003, 11:59pm

Pappy-
YESSS!! Nan, Red, didja get that? Pappy says to just give the old salute- and we all know, Pappy's always right!!
Pappy, you & Terri just keep taking care of each other, Nan, you and Red do exactly the same.
Then, we can ALL give a HUGE salute- to BOTH gastros!!
You guys are amazing!!!
:-*Cathi :-*

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by OneEyeBlind on Jan 29^th, 2003, 11:09pm

Well, like I said ... I miss the support I used to get. So with that said ... thanks to those of you who responded ... you know you are near and dear to my heart and will be in my prayers always. Other than that, there is nothing here for me. I'll keep in touch with you as we have done over the last month, other than that ... well, there is no support here for me. Perhaps if I am ever head banging again for another few months ... well, maybe I will change my mind. But for you guys that say people don't stick around when out of cycle .... well, you need to give a little to get a little and that is all I will say.

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by Edna on Jan 30^th, 2003, 1:36am

OK here I go........."Miss Ya"

Not sure I understand things here nancy, really wishing you and your husband the best with both your pain right now.....and hoping you really know how sincere that is.

So please offer me an explanation as to your "getting nothing here" ......."give a little to get a little" not really sure what you're meaning there and I would surely HATE to see that you TRULY FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT US HERE

Get nothing, gee, I find that a little hard to believe.....for if you "get nothing" from us, why would you come back to the ppl who evidently "give" nothing.

Please explain soon, as I really am confused and don't want to get agitated by this

And to those that are offended by my post here, sorry........jonny'll take my side......won't you podna???

pf wishes,
EDNA

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jan 30^th, 2003, 1:39am

Yeah, I was a tad confused about this one too...
Actually REALLY confused.
Please clarify Nancy,
and vibes going out to your hubby!!
Mast

Title: Re: Miss Ya
Post by 2late on Feb 1^st, 2003, 9:09am

glad to see ya post again Nancy! i'm sorry to hear the shit's hitting the fan and ending up in yer backyard. your strong, take it day by day & keep the faith & things will improve you'll see, i'm sendin' some strong vibes to you & your husband, best of luck for some much needed relief! ..........2late