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(Message started by: BlueMeanie on May 15th, 2008, 6:08pm)

Title: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by BlueMeanie on May 15th, 2008, 6:08pm
Cindy and I admitted our son in the hospital yesterday and there is a 99% chance that he has cancer. There is a 5" diameter tumor on his left lung. The tumor caused pneumonia which they are treating with antibiotics which has helped the pneumonia to subside.

It's going to be a long wait for the biobsy results to see what type it is. The cancer doctor said the type Lance Armstrong had is the easiest to cure so we are hoping at worse case that that's the type we will be dealing with.

We are just totally devestated and can't believe it's true as he is only 24 years old. We have family support here with us at this time. Even though the doc says it would take a small miracle to not be cancer, we are not giving up and asking for vibes/prayers if you don't mind sending them his way.

We found out today that the cancer is lymphoma. My son Dave is totally devestated and wants some time alone. We will be heading back to the hospital in a little while. Cindy and I want to thank all deeply for your love and support. Some of your know Raye, my sister, she is her with me, as always, and says thank you too.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Callico on May 15th, 2008, 6:11pm
We'll be praying, and I'll pass it along to my church.

Jerry

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by DonnaH_again on May 15th, 2008, 6:22pm
Most certainly....prayers are and will continue to be said.

Please let us know regularily how your son and family are doing.  

The best time to seek a support group is right now.  I know you have us and you know we'll be here for you all, but you also need people who have or are going through what you are now.  Your doctors office staff most probably has all kinds of information for you to help you find a group that's right for you.

Praying for a miracle....there's still that 1% out of the 99 that your doc mentioned, also.


Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by TxBasslady on May 15th, 2008, 6:42pm
Bob,

Sending all I got to you and Cindy, sweetie.

Please let me know if you need anything.

Much love to you, Cindy and the rest of your family   :-*

Jean

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Jackie on May 15th, 2008, 6:46pm
Blue....all our  prayers, positive thoughts and vibes are going out for your son...and for you and Cindy too.

Holding you all close in our hearts...

Much Love,
Jackie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by alchemy on May 15th, 2008, 6:49pm
Prayers and vibes going out to your son

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by nani on May 15th, 2008, 6:52pm
Wow, Bob... that really sucks.  :(

I'm sending all I have to all of you. Let us know if we can help in any way, OK?

love ya, buddy.

hugs, nani

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on May 15th, 2008, 6:59pm
Prayers on the way from Canada for Bob and Cindy and their son.

Please do keep us posted when you can.

Hugs
Carol

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Jean on May 15th, 2008, 7:01pm
As soon as I read your post I prayed for your son.  I will continue to do so.

Jeannie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Mastifflvr28 on May 15th, 2008, 7:01pm
Blue,
Huge vibes and prayers going up to you and your family.  Take care and let us know,
Mast

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by artonio7 on May 15th, 2008, 7:05pm
Everything I can muster is coming your way. As I write this I am lighting a votive candle on your son and your family's behalf.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Melissa on May 15th, 2008, 9:56pm
You have my prayers Bob!!

hugs,
mel

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by debOUCH on May 15th, 2008, 9:58pm
prayers........hugs................................hope...........................from long island.................................
deb [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Charlie on May 15th, 2008, 10:10pm
Rats.

This is a nasty thing and you have all the vibes and prayers I can come up with.  [smiley=hug.gif]          

Charlie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Brew on May 15th, 2008, 10:40pm
Your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers, Bob.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Jimi on May 15th, 2008, 10:50pm
We will be lifting him up in our prayers as well.  :(

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Lizzie2 on May 15th, 2008, 11:08pm
Bob,

You, Cindy, and your son are in my thoughts and prayers!  I will be praying that it is not cancer, but that if it is, I pray that you all have strength and the best team possible helping your son to beat it.  Please let us know if there's anything you need.

Hugz,
Carrie/Lizzie2 :)

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Gator on May 15th, 2008, 11:18pm
Sending up prayers for your son and for you and Cindy, Bob.


Mike


Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by George_J on May 15th, 2008, 11:21pm
All we've got headed your way, Bob.

Best wishes,

George

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Kevin_M on May 15th, 2008, 11:30pm
Sure, Bob.  All I can.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by kayarr on May 15th, 2008, 11:34pm
Prayers for you. :)

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Langa on May 16th, 2008, 12:42am
I pray it's not cancer, there's always that hope.
I'll be praying for strength for all of you.

Langa

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by purpleydog on May 16th, 2008, 1:24am
Bob, wow, I'm so sorry to hear this news. You and your family will be in our thoughts. Please keep us updated.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by sandie99 on May 16th, 2008, 2:45am
Prayers are on their way from Finland.

Sanna

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by barry_sword on May 16th, 2008, 5:50am
All the prayers we have for your son, Bob and Cindy. Here's hoping it is not cancer. Miracles do happen.

  Barry&Angie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Edna on May 16th, 2008, 6:35am
Blue,

Thanks for sharing with us and asking for our help. It can work wonders as you know.


Praying for your son, that God be close to you all during this time.

Please keep up posted.


EDNA

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by catlind on May 16th, 2008, 8:31am
You have everything I can send your way Bob, keep us posted, and we'll keep working on that miracle.

*hugs*
Cat

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE
Post by Cathi_Pierce on May 16th, 2008, 9:13am
Blue,
What a blow! I am so sorry you and your family are dealing with this.
I do, however, want to remind you of something. cancer has come a long way. Many forms are cureable...and each day, scientists come up with more options. canceris no longer a death sentence. My mother survived breast cancer 23 years! Cancer never did take her life. Get good doctors, keep a positive attitude and lean on your friends in Clusterville when things get tough.
Please keep us posted,while we all pray in our own way.

Cathi

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Lizzie2 on May 16th, 2008, 11:24am
I second what Cathi says!  I've actually known several people to beat lymphoma - not saying it's an easy battle because it certainly is not - but with the right doctors and everybody on his side, I'll be praying like mad that he beats this thing.

Hang in there,
Carrie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Melissa on May 16th, 2008, 12:14pm
Cancer is so prevalent now that it's slowly becoming common place to have it and beat it into submission.  Dave is going to be OK!  He has a fight ahead of him so it's good that he has good genes. ;)


Hugs and prayers!
mel

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Gator on May 16th, 2008, 12:39pm
Very sorry to hear this, Bob.  Y'all have a huge emotional support team behind you, so lean on us when you need to.  You know you got all the prayers, vibes, mojo, voodoo and whatever else we got.

You also know attitude is everything.  People with good attitudes and positive outlooks seem to beat cancer even when doctors say it's not possible.  Give him time to get his head around it and then kick him in the ass if necessary to jump start that "I'm going to beat this" attitude.

Mike



Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by LeLimey on May 16th, 2008, 12:41pm
Much love to you and yours Bob, I don't know what to say but my heart is full. Thinking of you and sending all the strong vibes I can.

As Mike said, lean on us. We're your family too

Helen xxx

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Jackie on May 16th, 2008, 4:49pm
Blue,
We will continue our prayers and positive thoughts.

I'm glad Raye is with you all.....there is strenght and safety in numbers.  

Keep us posted when you can and, please, let us know if there is anything at all we can do.

Much love to you all,
Jackie


Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Peppermint on May 16th, 2008, 5:04pm
Most positive prayer and vibes for your son, and for your family as well.  
Praying its not cancer.

Much love,
Pepp

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Jonny on May 16th, 2008, 6:50pm
Prayers and vibes on the way, Bob!  :'(

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Gator on May 17th, 2008, 12:08am
Bob, have they specified what type of lymphoma your son has?  From reading about it, I see there are two main types with about 35 different subtypes.  

All the best hopes and wishes for your son.

Mike


Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Annette on May 17th, 2008, 12:20am

Prayers and strong healing vibes from all of us to all of you every day.


Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by BlueMeanie on May 17th, 2008, 9:50am

on 05/17/08 at 00:08:50, Gator wrote:
Bob, have they specified what type of lymphoma your son has?  From reading about it, I see there are two main types with about 35 different subtypes.


You're right Mike. Now they've determined that they are not sure what type it is again. They are saying it could still be lymphoma, but it's a better chance that it may be thymoma. Luckily they've held off on the chemo for now. Instead he may have to go to Chicago hospital for surgery today to remove the thimus gland in his neck and then use radiation on the tumor nex to the liver. Very confusing at this point so we are still continuing to pray that this all works out. Thanks again for all your positive vibes and prayers.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Brew on May 17th, 2008, 9:54am
Every parent's nightmare, Bob and Cindy. Praying for contiuned strength for both of you and for Dave.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by M.R. on May 17th, 2008, 9:57am
Bluedude

    That sucks man. Sending the prayers that I have out. Hang strong. We're all pulling for you and your family.

Mike

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by midwestbeth on May 17th, 2008, 9:57am
So sorry to hear this Bob.  Yor family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Beth

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Redd on May 17th, 2008, 7:54pm
Vibes going out in spades.

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by cash5542 on May 17th, 2008, 9:05pm
My prayers are with you for strenghth, support and well wishes for your son and family.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Sean_C on May 17th, 2008, 10:15pm
All the prayers and positive thoughts heading to you and your family Blue.

Sean.................................

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Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Guiseppi on May 17th, 2008, 10:54pm
He will be added to our prayer chain, as will you.

Guiseppi

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by deltadarlin on May 17th, 2008, 11:01pm
Sending good thoughts and strength your way.  I can only imagine what you are going through right now (my daughter will be 24 in June).

Carolyn

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by George_J on May 18th, 2008, 12:36am
:-[

Bob, I can't think what to say, other than my thoughts and the thoughts of my family are with you--and with your family--in this very difficult time.  

I can't imagine what you're going through.

All good wishes to you and yours,

George

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by chefjohn on May 18th, 2008, 2:59am
Hey Bob,

 Ex Chicago guy living in Connecticut now.  you have some of the best doctors in the world out there so you son should have top notch care available to him.  Just think positive and he will have a long long life ahead for him.  You are in my prayers.   John

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by DennisM1045 on May 18th, 2008, 7:16am
Bob/Cindy,

I'm so sorry to hear this news.  The pain we feel when our children are threatened is the worst.  You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

-Dennis-

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by lashultz on May 18th, 2008, 8:39am
Thoughts and prayers from Southern Wisconsin.


                                  Lee

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by BlueMeanie on May 19th, 2008, 1:05am
Cindy and I thank you so very much. The responses have helped our spirits like you would not believe. I have printed your posts and will take to David to read before his surgery in the morning. They will be taking another sample of the tumor, as they are still figuring which type it is and what approach to take to cure him.

With Love,

Bob, Cindy & David

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by sandie99 on May 19th, 2008, 6:15am
Bob,

lots of prayers will be on their way to David and you all.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Wishing for the best,
Sanna

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Charlotte on May 19th, 2008, 9:53am
good luck today.

Charlotte

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Lizzie2 on May 20th, 2008, 2:50pm
Bob,

Still praying for all of you!  How did the surgery go?  Do they know any more?

Hang in there.....

Hugz,
Carrie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by BlueMeanie on May 20th, 2008, 7:12pm
Small update. Surgery went ok. It will take a few days for the results so we're hoping to have a treatment plan by Friday. Right now they're leaning toward chemo & radiation to shrink the tumor, than surgery after that.
Love,
Bob & Cindy

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Jonny on May 20th, 2008, 7:27pm
My vibes and prayers are still flowing, bro!!!

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on May 20th, 2008, 7:35pm
Still sending prayers from Canada.

Keep us posted when you can.


Hugs
Carol

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Jackie on May 20th, 2008, 8:07pm
Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.....holding you close in our hearts.

Much Love,
Jackie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by eddie on May 21st, 2008, 1:30pm
you have my prayers

eddie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Ray on May 21st, 2008, 7:41pm
All of the best and prayers going up!

Ray

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Charlie on May 21st, 2008, 8:05pm
More vibes and prayers here too, Bob

Charlie

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by nani on May 21st, 2008, 11:39pm
All of you are still in my thoughts and prayers, Bob.
[smiley=hug.gif]

hugs, nani

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Woobie on May 22nd, 2008, 12:55am
[smiley=hug.gif]

Keep your chin up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  We're with ya!

woobs and Ramon :-*

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by LeLimey on May 22nd, 2008, 8:34am
Still thinking of you all and sending love

Helen

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by LeLimey on May 24th, 2008, 5:45am
Still keeping positivity headed your way!!

love
Helen

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by barry_sword on May 24th, 2008, 6:36am
All the prayers we have for David and for you bob and Cindy are still being sent. [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Vibes/Prayers PLEASE (update)
Post by Jackie on May 26th, 2008, 7:33am
Prayers and positive thoughts still on the way.....

Much Love,
Jackie



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