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Title: Bossman needs prayers Post by Sandy_C on May 13th, 2008, 3:24pm As I've posted over the last several months, my boss has suffered heart problems, stokes, congestive heart failure, the whole nine yards. Yet, this man still tried his best to come in here and be as productive as he could. And, yes, I complained bitterly because he could not be helpful while here, and most often caused more problems. For the past few weeks, bossman has been driven in to the office by his wife, and has been able to spend just a couple of hours here trying to do what he can at his business. This morning, his wife brought him in and they both stayed an hour or two while he read through the mail. Then, they left to take him to a doctor's appointment at noon. About 20 minutes ago, his wife shows up here because she had left her cell phone on bossman's desk. She told me that he had been transported via ambulance from the doctor's office to the hospital, and she needed her cell phone to be able to contact their two daughters and their son. This does not sound good. As much as I complain about my boss, would you please send some prayers his way? His name is Bill. Thanks Sandy |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Brew on May 13th, 2008, 3:29pm You got it, Sandy. Vibin' and prayin' for Bossman. |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Charlotte on May 13th, 2008, 3:45pm I will be praying for Bill and his family. Charlotte |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by kayarr on May 13th, 2008, 4:08pm Praying |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by mummymac on May 13th, 2008, 4:22pm Sending vibes to Bossman and family |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Charlie on May 13th, 2008, 9:33pm I'm with you. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by DennisM1045 on May 13th, 2008, 9:40pm Vibes are coming Sandy... -Dennis- |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by tanner on May 14th, 2008, 1:19am Sandy, I have just asked God to grant Bill, his wife and all concerned the grace to weather this storm and I pray that you and yours are well and safe. I want to reassure you that you are always in my best thoughts and warmest regards. .......tim |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by sandie99 on May 14th, 2008, 2:46am Prayers are on their way. Sanna |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by TomM on May 14th, 2008, 9:35am How's the BossMan today? TomM |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Sandy_C on May 14th, 2008, 1:36pm Bill is still alive, although extremely weak. He is connected to some sort of pump system that is draining excess fluid from his body. His body cannot get rid of fluids, even though he is and has been taking Furisomide (sp), which is supposed to get rid of the excess fluid, which is causing him to have congestive heart failure. The reason he was transported so quickly is because is blood pressure was dangerously low and he needed to be stabilized. I wondered about this a few days ago because when he tried to stand up out of his chair, he had no balance and started to fall. I was standing right in front of him, so I was able to grab his arm and let him fall back in to the seat of his chair, so no harm was done, but I wondered what was causing this loss of balance. Low blood pressure can do that. I appreciate all the prayers and vibes. As difficult as this man is to work for, I've been with him 18 years, and I hate to see him this way. Please keep em coming. Sandy |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by midwestbeth on May 14th, 2008, 1:42pm This is so sad Sandy. Prayers and vibes on the way. Beth |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Callico on May 15th, 2008, 12:23am Praying! Please let him know we are here for him too. The encouragement will do him as much good as anything else. We see miracles happen here. Jerry |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by artonio7 on May 15th, 2008, 12:52am everything I got... coming your way Sandy. with warm regards, Tony |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers-UPDATE Post by Sandy_C on May 15th, 2008, 12:21pm Well, things are not looking good. Bill is now on a respirator and is heavily sedated. His body is building up fluid faster than they can pump it out. I don't think he's going to be coming back here again. Thanks for the prayers, please keep them coming. Sandy |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Redd on May 15th, 2008, 12:26pm Sounds like the kidneys have shut down. My thoughts will be for all involved, and that whatever is best for this situation is what happens. |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Cathi_Pierce on May 15th, 2008, 12:30pm Ohh, Sandy, I know he has given you fits in the past, but noone wants to see someone cut down like this. Please remember, miracles DO happen..........in one form or another. Please let Bossman know there are people thinking of him, sending vibes and prayers. Oh, and take some for yourself as well. This cannot be easy for you. Hugs and PF wishes, Cathi |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Jackie on May 15th, 2008, 2:57pm I'm sorry, Sandy.......positive thoughts and prayers on the way. Bless your heaart....this has to be very hard for you. Love & Hugs, Jackie |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by nani on May 15th, 2008, 5:27pm :( Sending all I have, Sandy. hugs, nani |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by LeLimey on May 15th, 2008, 5:47pm Furosemide is on of the meds I'm on Sandy I'm on something called amilofruse or something as well though. I hope they can stabilise him soon. It all sounds so horrible. I'm thinking of you ((HUG)) Thank you for calling me too, I really appreciated it lots of love Helen xxx |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on May 15th, 2008, 7:35pm Sending prayers from Canada, Sandy. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by barry_sword on May 15th, 2008, 7:43pm More Canadian prayers Sandy. |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by George_J on May 15th, 2008, 8:11pm Sorry to hear about this, Sandy. My best wishes to his family--and to you. George |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers-UPDATE Post by Sandy_C on May 22nd, 2008, 5:35pm Bill passed away late Monday afternoon. The fluid build up in his body ended up being more than his body could bear. At last post, he was on a respirator because he had fluid in his lungs, his blood pressure was almost non-existent, and his heart rate was skyrocketing. The respirator did help in raising the BP and lowering the heart rate. They began to wean him off the respirator on Monday. Bill had a defibrillator in his chest from a previous heart attack and once the respirator began to allow his lungs to breathe on their own, his heart stopped and the defibrillator began going off - 7 times. They could not re-start his heart. I've worked for him since October of 1989. At that time, I was a real estate agent, working in a really down market, so I picked up a little part time job doing some typing for Bill and his son, Eric. Well, that little typing job evolved in to an almost 19 year long partnership. Bill was a demanding employer, and I've complained about him several times on these boards on days when I had just about had it, ready to walk, and totally frustrated. He always expected perfection, and 110% dedication to our customers. The buck always stopped at his desk. If something went wrong with a job and the customer was unhappy, Bill made it right, no matter the cost. In my early days with Bill, there were times when I got my paycheck, but he didn't. This is integrity. Bill and I had two distinct personalities, political views, social views, economic views, and racial views. He was probably the worst bigot that I had ever met in my life, and as far as women were concerned, he, as the man, had to shelter us and take care of us. He had never really known a liberated woman until me got to know me (his words) So sparks flew frequently in the office. Yet, Bill taught me everything I know about site lighting, and I don't profess to know it all, but I know a good damn lot of it. He was an avid summer gardener and taught me how to grow tomatoes, corn, beans (I grow tomatoes, but that's about it). His summer garden at his home was huge, and I benefited every year with bags of beans, corn, tomatoes, cucumbers, which Tarey and I thoroughly enjoyed. Bill also taught me a few other things like how to read a racing form. He was an avid thoroughbred horse racing fan. He told me about reading the bloodlines, the history of races, the sire and dam. He taught me about across the board betting, trifectas, etc. We spent many fun-filled hours before the Kentucky Derby, Preakness, Belmont Stakes, and the Breeder's Cup "picking our ponies". We made actual money bets in earlier years (we had a bookie), but in later years, just fun bets. This year, he was able to watch the Derby, but was unable to see the Preakness. Preakness day (Bill was hooked up to a respirator in the hospital). I picked horses and made just for fun bets for Bill. One of my bets was a trifecta, which I had never bet before in my life, but Bill always laid money down on a trifecta, so I bet Bill's trifecta. He/we won! And, then he died on Monday. Bill's funeral was today. I'm sorry this post is so long. I guess I'm just letting go of my grief, venting as usual, but also remembering. Thanks to all of you for your prayers and reading this long post. Bill is in a better place. Sandy |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Redd on May 22nd, 2008, 5:50pm I'm so sorry Sandy. I know it was frustrating at times, but with his ill health, maybe this was the right thing for him at this time. Sometimes a body just say's "I've had enough." He's no longer suffering, and this is what we who are left need to hang tight to. Love you. |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Jackie on May 22nd, 2008, 5:53pm Sandy, I'm so sorry. Your post is a lovely tribute to Bill. He was your "bossman", your friend and mentor. I think you were both lucky to have had each other. May your fond memories help you during this grieving period. Sympathies to you, Sandy, Bill's family and all who knew and loved him. Much love, Jackie |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by artonio7 on May 22nd, 2008, 5:57pm Sandy you have my sympathy... Bossman sounded like one hell of a guy. The friction often makes for the most rewarding relationships. May he rest in peace. with warm regards, Tony |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on May 22nd, 2008, 6:59pm I'm so sorry Sandy. :'( I know he had a special place in your heart. Hugs Carol |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Charlie on May 22nd, 2008, 8:40pm Rats. I wasn't expecting to hear that. :( Very sorry for you Sandy. Charlie |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by eddie on May 22nd, 2008, 9:43pm im so sorry for your loss may he rest in peace eddie :'( |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Brew on May 22nd, 2008, 10:23pm Please accept my condolences, Sandy. |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by DennisM1045 on May 22nd, 2008, 10:38pm I'm so sorry for your loss Sandy. It isn't often we find people that make a difference in our lives. Bill sounds like one of those few. Your tribute was great. I'm sure he would have loved it. -Dennis- |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by George_J on May 23rd, 2008, 1:01am I'm sorry to hear about this, Sandy. That was a fine tribute to a fine man. Best wishes, George |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by mummymac on May 23rd, 2008, 2:31am So sorry about the sad news |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by barry_sword on May 23rd, 2008, 6:19am My deepest condolences Sandy, so very sorry. :'( |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by sandie99 on May 23rd, 2008, 7:28am Sandy, that was a beautiful tribute you wrote. I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences... [smiley=hug.gif] Sanna |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Cathi_Pierce on May 23rd, 2008, 8:38am Sandy, I woke up this morning, wondering if there would be an update on your Bossman, and now this........ Miracles happen in many ways. I think Bill's miracle was being able to slip away quickly. His body had been put through an awful lot. In time, the pain will be replaced by good memories, and a peace will settle in, knowing he no longer suffers. Thanks for sharing your friend with us. MY Sympathy., Cathi |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by kayarr on May 23rd, 2008, 11:11am So sorry for your loss. Lots of love and peace being sent your way. Kimberly |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Peppermint on May 23rd, 2008, 11:22am Sandy.. I'm sorry to read about your loss. It was a lovely tribute you gave him. I like that in spite of some of the not-so-nice attributes, you found the positive and special qualities that made him special in your life. That is a gift between the two of you. My deepest condolences... Pepp |
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Title: Re: Bossman needs prayers Post by Sandy_C on May 23rd, 2008, 1:51pm Thank you all so much for your kind words. They mean everything to me. I'm OK, just a little depressed and I cry easily, especially when reading your posts. Bill was a great man, whether I agreed with him or not. It's time for this thread to be put to rest, just as Bill has been put to rest. I love you all. Sandy |
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