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(Message started by: AussieBrian on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:18am)

Title: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by AussieBrian on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:18am
Would you?  

I've seen our Prime Minister make certain budgetary cuts in health care and thought,  hmmm,  a two-minute Kip8 might make him change his mind about the need for dedicated health-proffessionals on the ground.

These thoughts have only ever happened during times I've been PF.

My last cycle was pretty tough, though I like to believe I coped with it quite well, yet even so I considered a Kip4 might be a nice little wake-up call to certain world leaders regarding climate change, AIDS, Iraq, poverty, drugs and whales.

As always, it finished with a K10 fit to pierce my ear drums and I honestly wouldn't wish that on Osama bin Laden.

Perhaps it's just me.




Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by chewy on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:22am
I'd pass along a 30 minute KIP 9 to everyone who has told me I should rest and meditate.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by barry_sword on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:28am
I would pass along a kip 4 to a certain little hemroid at my work place. He is an "in your face" type who is trying for years to get on medical leave as he doesn't sleep well.

Hmmm, maybe up that to a kip 5 for him. He rolls his eye's  ::) anytime I mention CH's. >:(

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by LeLimey on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:39am
Paedophiles. CH wouldn't be bad enough for what they should get

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Emily on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:41am
Or people who say 'oooh, I know what you mean. My head was so bad last night I had to have a lie-down'.

Just 5 mins. Nothing too stretched out.

I feel horrible now.  :-[

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by jimmers on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:44am
I'd give mine to the guy who put his kid in the microwave.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by rickyshot on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:05am
All politicians, Insurance companies, pedaphiles, and anyone who has said Again? or try this diet etc...Just a kip 4 would shut em all up never mind the worst ones and don't forget to give them 8 weeks of this shit daily, Plug em with the meds that kill as well as "help" us. that should do the trick.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:05am

Yes, give it to any and all of the child abusers ! Kip 10 all round for them at 9 am, 12 pm, 3 pm, 8 pm, 11pm and a couple more through the night too for good measure.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by seasonalboomer on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:17am
Nope, none of them. Our luck would be that they would get it, and then look for a community of other sufferers and then our little online community would be full of paedophiles, criminals, child abusers and pricks.


;)

Scott

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by LeLimey on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:21am

on 04/11/08 at 08:17:09, seasonalboomer wrote:
Nope, none of them. Our luck would be that they would get it, and then look for a community of other sufferers and then our little online community would be full of paedophiles, criminals, child abusers and pricks.


;)

Scott


Bloody hell Scott you flamin' spoilsport!!

We were having a lovely game of Smite 'em all and you go and spoil it by being sensible.

That's me wishing for two hungry flea's in your socks  :P  ;)

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:34am

on 04/11/08 at 08:17:09, seasonalboomer wrote:
Nope, none of them. Our luck would be that they would get it, and then look for a community of other sufferers and then our little online community would be full of paedophiles, criminals, child abusers and pricks.


;)

Scott




Not a problem, if they come here we will recommend they go see Ali , get some colon cleansing and capsaicin sprays ...   ;)


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by debOUCH on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:41am
i would not wish this on anyone....................

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by brewcrew on Apr 11th, 2008, 9:25am
The buttmunch across the street who has threatened my wife's life. We call him Mr. Sunshine.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlotte on Apr 11th, 2008, 9:39am
no, i wouldn't pass it to anyone.

Charlotte

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by midwestbeth on Apr 11th, 2008, 9:48am
My GP who said that since ch doesn't last very long (15 min. to 3 hours), it couldn't be that bad  >:(  What a clueless a$$hole!


Quote:
Posted by: brewcrew Posted on: Today at 8:25am
The buttmunch across the street who has threatened my wife's life. We call him Mr. Sunshine.  


Hey Brew, Didn't know we lived in the same neighborhood.  My Mr. Sunshine neighbor (mean drunk) threatened to shoot me, my kids, and my dogs.  I wish a kip 9 on him everytime he gets drunk and starts screaming at his wife and stepson.  (I can hear him 100 yards away with my windows and doors closed)

Beth




Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Melissa on Apr 11th, 2008, 10:09am
nope.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by brewcrew on Apr 11th, 2008, 10:25am
The fact that I would if I could probably makes me a lesser person than some, but when people start threatening my family, well, it brings out the papa bear in me.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by seasonalboomer on Apr 11th, 2008, 10:34am
I'm not saying I don't sometimes wish it on some, I just don't want them hanging out here. Nothing noble here.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Rosybabe on Apr 11th, 2008, 10:50am
I normally would not wish CH to anyone but..as and exception...I wish a chronic K10 to that nasty teacher who hurt my baby  >:(..I will not need no witness to enjoy her suffering  8)

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by mummymac on Apr 11th, 2008, 11:02am
I would smite people with KIP10 if I could, I suppose I am not so very nice either

But I do try to avoid hearing about nasties in any sort of detail.

This was too much detail Jimmers


on 04/11/08 at 07:44:38, jimmers wrote:
I'd give mine to the guy who put his kid in the microwave.






but I love these

Quote:
The buttmunch across the street



Quote:
That's me wishing for two hungry flea's in your socks

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by artonio7 on Apr 11th, 2008, 11:44am
I guess I would pass it on to EVERYONE working in the Food and drug administration and all senators, governors and congressmen. But they would only be allowed to have chronic Kip 8-9 and 10's for 3 years and no more than 5 a day lasting for an hour each. ;)

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by alienspacebabe on Apr 11th, 2008, 11:48am

on 04/11/08 at 07:39:31, LeLimey wrote:
Paedophiles. CH wouldn't be bad enough for what they should get



How about giving them CH pain in their dicks?

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Tara Ann on Apr 11th, 2008, 12:04pm
I would not want anyone to have CH permantly.  But as for someone that is not understanding about CH, I would not mind them having a minute or so of a K9 and explaining the time frame of what a full blown life as a Clusterhead is..................the fear, the lack of a life that can happen, on and on.  If they are intelligent enough to understand that is.

On the other hand.  It may be a waste of time and breathe to explain after a minute or so of acute pain like that.  

Sooooo maybe not.  I know I don't want to waste too much more time explaining the extent CH has on my life to someone stupid.  Hmmmm this thread is quite thought provoking.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by lydia on Apr 11th, 2008, 12:50pm
I'll say it again!
I'd give mine to people who say, "oh, I know what you mean. I have migraines"
I usually have to concentrate on keeping my eyes from rolling and my hands to myself!!

Only a kip 5 for 5 minutes (maybe 10 minutes!)

Peace, love and Migraine sufferers,
Lydia

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by gore2424 on Apr 11th, 2008, 1:11pm
KIP 10's to all the terrorist's in the world for as long  as it takes for them to blow their own fraking brains out
Terry

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 11th, 2008, 2:50pm


  Besides what everyone else has said here about Pedophiles and Terrorists...I'd give 1 full min. of a KIP 10 to every Dr. who refused to give 02 to one of us.  At about the 45 second mark...I'd hand him an e-tank and a mask and ask him if he'd like to re-think that decision.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlotte on Apr 11th, 2008, 3:06pm
I changed my mind about not passing it to someone.  I would like to pass a 10 for 1 minute to the Dr who said I had migraines and wouldn't have a problem if I obeyed him, and turned his back and walked away.  Only a minute, that should do it.

Charlotte

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Paul98 on Apr 11th, 2008, 3:46pm
Nope!  I have had it long enough that it has shaped my outlook on life and defined part of who I am.

It is not something I would give to anyone.

-P.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlotte on Apr 11th, 2008, 3:50pm
Not even for 1 minute?

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Paul98 on Apr 11th, 2008, 4:00pm

on 04/11/08 at 15:50:42, Charlotte wrote:
Not even for 1 minute?


Nope.

-P.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by HappyElaine on Apr 11th, 2008, 4:50pm
I never been that mad at anyone ! I been mad but not that mad.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Melissa on Apr 11th, 2008, 4:54pm
My answer didn't mean I was above anyone.  

Basically I feel that it is not my place to "punish" others with a CH for their ignorance.  IMO, that is up to a higher power...

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 11th, 2008, 5:20pm
I dont somehow view wishing CH on someone as a "punishment", maybe more as an experience so that they understand what pain and suffering is and therefore will become more compassionate.

Edited to add: Maybe my view is different because I am not a CHer, but I sure have wished CH on myself many many times if that would take away the pain for someone I love. So I dont see it as a punishment.

Maybe its just me .


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlie on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:08pm
I'm not such a nice guy. http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/steamed.gif

Hard to argue with your choices. Richard Chartoff, most of the FDA adminstrators and anyone connected with the heartless and incompetent handling of Katrina.

Mean Old Charlie

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Melissa on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:36pm

on 04/11/08 at 17:20:38, Annette wrote:
I dont somehow view wishing CH on someone as a "punishment", maybe more as an experience so that they understand what pain and suffering is and therefore will become more compassionate.

Annette, I didn't mean that that was what others were doing, it was just my own belief for myself.  I have to live with the karma...

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by BMoneeTheMoneeMan on Apr 11th, 2008, 7:56pm
I'd rather not give someone a CH...............
......but i can think of a certain someone who I wouldn't mind holding under water til they died.  After this person died, i would piss on them.
But i wouldnt wish a CH on anyone, that's cruel.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by brewcrew on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:07pm

on 04/11/08 at 19:56:53, BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote:
I'd rather not give someone a CH...............
......but i can think of a certain someone who I wouldn't mind holding under water til they died.  After this person died, i would piss on them.
But i wouldnt wish a CH on anyone, that's cruel.

The CIA is looking for a few good men...

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by George_J on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:17pm

on 04/11/08 at 20:07:32, brewcrew wrote:
The CIA is looking for a few good men...


Speaking of that, if anyone figures out how to induce a CH in a non-clusterhead, let's not tell the gummint (any gummint) about it, okay?  I'd just as soon they didn't know.

[smiley=eek.gif]

Best,

George

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Paul98 on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:18pm

on 04/11/08 at 19:56:53, BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote:
I'd rather not give someone a CH...............
......but i can think of a certain someone who I wouldn't mind holding under water til they died.  After this person died, i would piss on them.
But i wouldnt wish a CH on anyone, that's cruel.


Oh Brian, don't hold back Bro!  Tell us how you really feel!  Not good to keep things inside ;)

-P.



Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Langa on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:21pm
Aussie, my luv, you had to ask a question like this and get me all confused.
I'm torn...I would like some people to know what it's like, but then i'd feel guilty - then again when I think of pedaphiles, rapists, terrorists, and those that torture animals I might not feel that guilty... :-/

Langa

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by PollyPocket on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:30pm
Osama Bin Ladin.  10's

I had to live thru it, and I didn't murder 3000 people. Fuck him. Give him 10's, in a cycle lasting as long as the number of victims.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlotte on Apr 11th, 2008, 8:36pm
I really love Linda's 1 minute idea, though.

Charlotte

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 11th, 2008, 11:19pm

on 04/11/08 at 19:36:36, Melissa wrote:
Annette, I didn't mean that that was what others were doing, it was just my own belief for myself.  I have to live with the karma...



You are a better person than me Melissa and I mean it  :-*  I do take the laws into my own hands  too often.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by outofcommission on Apr 11th, 2008, 11:38pm
well i would give a couple of kip 9s to carl stedman. after 5 years of working for his company he fired me after a 3 month cycle.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by nani on Apr 12th, 2008, 12:01am

on 04/11/08 at 23:19:03, Annette wrote:
I do take the laws into my own hands  too often.


How?

And count me as a no. I wouldn't give it to anyone.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Ray on Apr 12th, 2008, 1:17am
Although it might be gratifying to think of it from time to time, I wouldn't wish these on anyone.  Not even the monsters of this world.

Some of them, in their memoirs would then state that they really weren't that bad, the cluster headaches drove them to it.

Wishing you all well,

Ray

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Pinkfloyd on Apr 12th, 2008, 3:04am

on 04/11/08 at 10:25:57, brewcrew wrote:
The fact that I would if I could probably makes me a lesser person than some, but when people start threatening my family, well, it brings out the papa bear in me.


I hear ya and sympathize, but....
I have a hard time believing anyone here could watch ANYONE writhing in pain on the floor with a K10 and withholding 02 for very long. (even those that say they would)
Easier to say than to practice.

Maybe suffering with clusters has made some of you better people than you realize ;-)

Bobw

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by zanychef on Apr 12th, 2008, 3:11am
I wouldnt want to pass it on to anyone just let them who 'deserve' it spend a week as a supporter to see what happens 'specially the dork of a neuro  i landed up with ;;D ;;D ;;D
Zany

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by sandie99 on Apr 12th, 2008, 3:38am
I have been thinking about this one. I do know few individuals who definetily could learn a lot from experiencing ch for about 5 to 10 minutes.

BUT I'm not sure that if I would actually give it to them if I had the ability to do so.

Sanna

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 12th, 2008, 3:50am

on 04/12/08 at 00:01:15, nani wrote:
How?



The same way you do, by making judgements and telling people where they have gone wrong when its not really my place to say so.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by brewcrew on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:03am
Isn't this all just so much mental masturbation anyhow? Start with a flawed premise and see where it takes us?

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by E-Double on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:08am

on 04/12/08 at 08:03:26, brewcrew wrote:
Isn't this all just so much mental masturbation anyhow? Start with a flawed premise and see where it takes us?



I just shot a mental load ;;D

I could not do such a thing.

It would be easier for me to choke some sicko out or to impose harm by my hand to someone who has done such evil then to wish something that I personally have felt the devestating pain of.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by brewcrew on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:14am
Get your mental hands up on the mental table where we can see them.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by nani on Apr 12th, 2008, 12:15pm

on 04/12/08 at 03:50:05, Annette wrote:
The same way you do, by making judgements and telling people where they have gone wrong when its not really my place to say so.


Oh, well that's not exactly taking the "law" into your own hands, then.

I take the law into my hands when I use clusterbuster treatments, but not when I call people out.

When a "Dr" says they take the law into their own hands, I start imagining some very unsettling stuff.   ::)

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Sandy_C on Apr 12th, 2008, 5:59pm
Count me as a "no" too.    I just can't wish this on anyone.

Giving someone CH wouldn't solve the problem of uneducated doctors, insurance companies, even our wonderful government leaders.  I think it should be mandatory for each one of these lovely people attend an OUCH convention and witness attack after attack after attack.

Now, that's an education!

Sandy

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:08pm

on 04/12/08 at 12:15:55, nani wrote:
When a "Dr" says they take the law into their own hands, I start imagining some very unsettling stuff.   ::)



Maybe thats why we have clashes Nani, somehow you keep interpreting what I say by imagining unsettling stuff.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:27pm

 
Quote:
I think it should be mandatory for each one of these lovely people attend an OUCH convention and witness attack after attack after attack.

Now, that's an education!


I couldn't agree more Sandy.  Just one technical session where one after another has to leave in pain, or sitting in the lobby with Cluster Chuck while he tears at his hair is enough of an education to humble anyone.   Problem is they wouldn't come because they don't care.  That Dr. that Charlotte had,  that did this:

 
Quote:
I would like to pass a 10 for 1 minute to the Dr who said I had migraines and wouldn't have a problem if I obeyed him, and turned his back and walked away.


Those types won't "get" anything until that pain is in his own head. Just  For one min. mind you....that's all.



Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by nani on Apr 12th, 2008, 8:42pm

on 04/12/08 at 20:08:43, Annette wrote:
Maybe thats why we have clashes Nani, somehow you keep interpreting what I say by imagining unsettling stuff.


Actually, I find it funny that you'll say things that are unsettling and then backtrack to make it look like you mean something else.

I have a great imagination, but I don't need it to find a lot of what you say unsettling. Or wrong.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 12th, 2008, 9:13pm

on 04/12/08 at 20:42:46, nani wrote:
Actually, I find it funny that you'll say things that are unsettling and then backtrack to make it look like you mean something else.

I have a great imagination, but I don't need it to find a lot of what you say unsettling. Or wrong.




So you completely and accurately understand everything that I have in my head even when I havent actually said it ?

Gosh, you are good ! Maybe I should see you as a therapist so that you can interpret for me exactly how I think, as it seems you know me better than I know myself.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Charlotte on Apr 12th, 2008, 9:19pm
It is a moot question since we can't trigger ch in a non clusterhead, and I wouldn't wish a 10 on anyone for more than a minute, and that is impossible, too.

Charlotte

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by starlight on Apr 12th, 2008, 10:34pm
I wouldn't wish it on anyone.  Not b/c I'm saintly or anything.  When I think about it, might sound egotistical but i think it's because we got this cause we're stronger than most and somehow handle it, and other people who didn't get it couldn't handle it.  Wow, that does sound egotistical.  

Edited to say:  not sure what the point of this was

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by debOUCH on Apr 12th, 2008, 10:42pm
LADIES..........................LADIES............................ladies.....................................life is way 2 short 2 b in my opinion "cat fightin"........let it go....................remember the saying "ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVE"..........IN MY OPINION.........(.if it counts as a neubie.)....................THIS M-----F---- has made me the strongest woman i could ever be........(btw   i was strong b4!!)........if i would have ever in my life imagined that i would survive this...NO WAY...i would have had my doubts...............we NEED TO BE TOGETHER ON THIS JOURNEY....................................
deb
xo

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by debOUCH on Apr 12th, 2008, 10:51pm
aussiebrian...........................r u wishing u could take this post back.........UUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG             from Long Island..................
deb

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by AussieBrian on Apr 13th, 2008, 12:12am

on 04/12/08 at 22:51:04, debOUCH wrote:
aussiebrian........r u wishing u could take this post back.

Yes and no, Debs, but mostly no on account of -


on 04/11/08 at 14:50:49, Linda_Howell wrote:
...I'd give 1 full min. of a KIP 10 to every Dr. who refused to give 02 to one of us.  At about the 45 second mark...I'd hand him an e-tank and a mask and ask him if he'd like to re-think that decision.


Then there was Annette's admission that she'd happily entertain this devil if it took the pain away from a loved one.

I'm just glad I'm a CHead because I'd never make it as a supporter.


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by nani on Apr 13th, 2008, 12:23am

on 04/12/08 at 21:13:02, Annette wrote:
So you completely and accurately understand everything that I have in my head even when I havent actually said it ?

Gosh, you are good ! Maybe I should see you as a therapist so that you can interpret for me exactly how I think, as it seems you know me better than I know myself.


Well, you know I have encouraged you to see a therapist.
Perhaps you could just think about what you mean before you type? That might save some confusion.


on 04/11/08 at 08:05:57, Annette wrote:
Yes, give it to any and all of the child abusers ! Kip 10 all round for them at 9 am, 12 pm, 3 pm, 8 pm, 11pm and a couple more through the night too for good measure.



on 04/11/08 at 17:20:38, Annette wrote:
I dont somehow view wishing CH on someone as a "punishment", maybe more as an experience so that they understand what pain and suffering is and therefore will become more compassionate.

Edited to add: Maybe my view is different because I am not a CHer, but I sure have wished CH on myself many many times if that would take away the pain for someone I love. So I dont see it as a punishment.

Maybe its just me .




on 04/11/08 at 23:19:03, Annette wrote:
I do take the laws into my own hands  too often.




on 04/12/08 at 03:50:05, Annette wrote:
The same way you do, by making judgements and telling people where they have gone wrong when its not really my place to say so.


You're all over the place in this thread. Saying what you mean the first time is really helpful to the reader.



Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by sandie99 on Apr 13th, 2008, 3:01am

on 04/12/08 at 17:59:22, Sandy_C wrote:
Giving someone CH wouldn't solve the problem of uneducated doctors, insurance companies, even our wonderful government leaders.  I think it should be mandatory for each one of these lovely people attend an OUCH convention and witness attack after attack after attack.

Now, that's an education!

Great idea, Sandy! :)

And I suppose us Finnish clusterheads should invite the chairwoman of Finland's Migraine Association (yes, CH sufferers are part of that in here) to attend Finnish clusterhead's meeting this fall... Who knows, maybe the chairwoman, a MD and MP/senator and member of health care committee, would learn a thing or two about life with ch if she doesn't know about it already.

Sanna

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Annette on Apr 13th, 2008, 4:05am

on 04/13/08 at 00:23:21, nani wrote:
Well, you know I have encouraged you to see a therapist.
Perhaps you could just think about what you mean before you type? That might save some confusion.


You're all over the place in this thread. Saying what you mean the first time is really helpful to the reader.



Thank you Dr Nani   :)  , so my problem is that I am not consistent enough to you ? My thoughts should be all black and white ? I should say exactly the same things over and over again ? I should be thinking and saying the same things you believe I was thinking ?

I think I like you as my therapist !  :)

Now what should I be doing to improve myself ?


Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by LeLimey on Apr 13th, 2008, 4:41am
I have to ask - would all this shit have started up AGAIN if I had said "I take the law into my own hands"?

I'm a mum, it's what I do. Constantly! Every damn one of us uses that expression and very few of us would mean we were vigilantes by it.

My own doctor is forever saying "well, the guidelines are this but we know that won't work so I'll take the law into my own hands and do that"

I've used the expression in work and home situations. I'm willing to bet that everyone else has done the same at some point in their lives. It's just something people say. Like "I could murder a cup of coffee" or "I wish a house would drop on his head" Blimey, if we're going to get chased by the accuracy police then I'll be the first against the wall with a blindfold!

What if George or Guiseppi had said they would happily give people who drink and drive a quick surge? Would you have got in their faces? Or would you accept that when they are here they are just "here". They give work related advice or explanations sometimes too.

I am incredibly pissed off at the moment, I have far more going on in my life that I can or want to have to deal with. I've stayed away from here alot lately because I don't want to take my bad mood out on people who are just in the wrong place at the wrong time.

That being said, I haven't missed here as much as I should have done, it's been quite nice to NOT be here and I'm finding it more and more of a chore to check in rather than a pleasure. If I can feel like this, and you know how much I have taken from this place - then imagine how other's are feeling.

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by seasonalboomer on Apr 13th, 2008, 7:50am

on 04/13/08 at 04:41:15, LeLimey wrote:
I have to ask - would all this shit have started up AGAIN if I had said "I take the law into my own hands"?



But where would it have gone if we'd have continued down brew's path of taking something else into his own hands....

Move along folks, nothing to see here.



;;D

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by coach_bill on Apr 13th, 2008, 8:32am
Yes i would give a kip 9 to everyone in my doctors office!! the doc, his asst. and even the person who schudles the appt. If my doctor had a kip 9 one time he would certainly be more aware of what this shit is like, and it would also be a nice kick in the ass for him to do the research needed to get some kind of cure, and i know for sure there would be no waiting for my apptments. and lets not forget about my mother in law, but thats another post. coach bill

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by burnt-toast on Apr 13th, 2008, 9:28am
Ignoring the growing tension in this thread, I decided to briefly check in after a long absence.  These are my thoughts on passing CH to another, they are indeed worthless, and I fully realize that the foundation of this topic is whimsical venting.  

Nothing spiteful, nasty, mean, or even vengeful - just a taste of reality for all those “professionals” encountered over the years that haven’t a clue and have no intention of getting a clue as to the reality of CH.  

No permanent, or long-term affliction, I couldn’t wish this on anyone.   I’m thinking just a week… no two concurrent weeks of the sleepless marathon of indescribable pain.  Reaching out to other “professionals” that haven’t a clue for treatments that provide little or no hope of relief.  Experiencing first-hand, complete exhaustion and frustration of having to continue functioning.  Experiencing their mind and body demanding rest that has become impossible, and the unnatural fear of rest/sleep that evolves.      

Just a short-term experience with a nightmare t so easily dismissed as a headache.  Maybe then we might see true progress on this disorder.  Knowing how stupid this sounds, I’ve reached a point where I sometimes  wish I had something that killed me rather than subjecting me to a life of torture that so few can comprehend.  

Best Wishes,

Tom    

Title: Re: If you could pass your CH to another
Post by Groov on Apr 13th, 2008, 12:57pm
Just seeing an attack in person would be enough to make anyone understand how serious it is. I try not to get angry with people who insist a few Motrin or Aleve will do the job.

Before I got CH, I had no idea it even existed or at least had no idea how severe the pain was. The fear of an attack coming on, the fear of losing ones job or ability to function is something you just couldnt understand unless you experienced it for yourself.

Dave



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