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(Message started by: BarbaraD on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:27pm)

Title: Time to Cool Off
Post by BarbaraD on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:27pm
There were some things said on this board today by an employee of mine that should not have been said and they were said without my knowledge. My employees tend to get protective about me when I’m having headaches. Now while I might not condone it, I won’t apologize for it. She did what she thought was right.

As to the comments afterwards – I think it’s time for everyone to cool down, take a deep breath and get back to the purpose of OUCH – to find a cause and cure for these headaches. We’re going to accomplish nothing with this petty squabbling.

OUCH has some good things going on and it has some problems. Both need to be tended to and this BS has got to stop or nothing is going to get done.  


We're all nice people. Why don't we start acting that way?

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by jonny on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:31pm

on 10/30/03 at 18:27:14, BarbaraD wrote:
We're all nice people. Why don't we start acting that way?


Who you calling nice?
[smiley=mad.gif]

...........................jonny [smiley=guyflash.gif] ;;D

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by cathy on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:35pm
Jonny I think your NICE  [smiley=hug.gif]  ;;D

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by Bob P on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:41pm
You are so full of it barbara that I can smell you over the smoke from the California fires.

Stir it up, then play the peacemaker.  Stir it up then, play the peacemaker.  It is so your style.  I for one am not biting.  I see you for what you are and what you are trying to do.  I think a lot of other people in OUCH do now too.  It's probably the most underhanded, disgraceful display of manipulation I've ever seen but the membership is starting to see it for what it is.

I think it's time for everyone to cool down and for you to stop trying to scuttle OUCH.

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by catlind on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:44pm
Seeing all the activity on OUCH and all the dialogue going on is a very welcome change.  It's unfortunate that personalities have clashed.  I have faith in all who are participating with OUCH to be able to keep the focus of the org. on education and awareness.  I also have faith that whatever growing pains and clashes that are going on will be able to be resolved and everyone will carry forward with the best interests of OUCH in their heart.

When we work as a team, we can get good things done.  Not any one of us here at ch.com, or over at OUCH can accomplish things by themselves.  Even the things that are already in motion (slow but sure) require the input and attention of all.  

As Mast has said, lets all be part of the solution.

Cat


Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by BarbaraD on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:54pm
Bob, I'm really sorry you feel that way. I've tried every way I know to be nice.

But at this point, my head hurts and as Rhett Butler said, "Frankly my dear, I don't give a damn!"

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by Jimi on Oct 30th, 2003, 6:55pm
[smiley=bunnybash.gif]  Well Barb I just slammed your employee on the Budget Committee Board. You better warn her before she goes in there and gets her feelings hurt. I have a little blurb in there for you as well. If I am wrong I apologize.  If I am not, I mean it. [smiley=sgrin.gif]

Uncle Jimi

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by BarbaraD on Oct 30th, 2003, 7:01pm
She's a big girl Jimi. And what can I say, I've been around since before dirt. I just say what I think and always have. What you see is what you get with me. I believe in OUCH and want my head to stop hurting. That's why we started OUCH.

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by cathy on Oct 30th, 2003, 7:07pm
Personally I think the only good post here is Catlinds...

Cathy

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by jonny on Oct 30th, 2003, 8:14pm
I try my best to stay out of this shit cause i dont or want too know to much but one thing I do know is that you all should shut the fuck up and stop fighting.

You want to tell someone what you think....CALL THEM and work it out......this is not the fucking OUCH site so take it back where it belongs cause your scaring newbies away!!!

Im done

..........................................jonny [smiley=guyflash.gif]

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by BarbaraD on Oct 30th, 2003, 8:34pm
Jonny has spoken..... we're shut up..... ;;D

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by Ree on Oct 30th, 2003, 8:56pm
O MY GOD NO WONDER I WORK WITH TODDLERS........ AND THEY ARE WAY MORE FUN............. PEACE Y'ALL!!!
REE

PS IM SAYIN A PRAYER FOR OUCH... ITS ALL I CAN DO...

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by brain_cramps on Oct 30th, 2003, 9:15pm

on 10/30/03 at 20:56:53, Ree wrote:
O MY GOD NO WONDER I WORK WITH TODDLERS........ AND THEY ARE WAY MORE FUN...

Too funny, Ree!   I was just thinking about asking if this is what you have to put up with everyday.  ;;D

Thanks for clearing that up,
grant              ;)

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by Charlie on Oct 31st, 2003, 1:06am
http://www.netsync.net/users/charlies/gifs/OH MY SIGN.png

MOC

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by KingOfPain on Oct 31st, 2003, 7:22am

on 10/30/03 at 20:14:52, jonny wrote:
You want to tell someone what you think....CALL THEM and work it out......this is not the fucking OUCH site so take it back where it belongs

..........................................jonny [smiley=guyflash.gif]






Excellent point Bro.

[smiley=thumbsup.gif]



KingOfPain

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by thomas on Oct 31st, 2003, 9:02am
Jonny is right, I couldn't agree more.

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by aprilbee on Oct 31st, 2003, 9:12am
*bump*

You go Jonny!!   [smiley=bow.gif]

Title: Re: Time to Cool Off
Post by Margi on Oct 31st, 2003, 10:43am
I agree that a thread like this should never have been started on ch.com!  This is OUCH business and I, too, saw a post from a newbie who is turned off because of the incessant bickering.

I hope this whole situation will be remembered at election time and that OUCH can get back on track.  I have my doubts, though...  

Jimi and Bob, good for you for speaking up about what is on a lot of our minds these days.  Thank you.



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