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(Message started by: brain_cramps on Oct 21st, 2003, 11:48pm)

Title: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by brain_cramps on Oct 21st, 2003, 11:48pm
This thread was named "Wish my news could be better...", but I was asked to change the name.  Hope this is a little more fitting.

Also the first 40 posts are about events relating to a sudden "downturn" in my dad's health.

#41 was where things turned around.

Hope this makes sense.        (thx fubar      ;) )






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Wish my news could be better…

But today has been a rough day (understatement of a lifetime)

My dad collapsed on Sunday afternoon and was taken to emergency.  The effects of the chemo was finally catching up to him.  At first, it was thought there was a blood-clot in his lung.  He had already decided that he didn’t want to be kept alive by a respirator or to be revived if his heart quit.


Yesterday after work, I went there and talked with him and my mom.  He seemed a little weak and a little drugged-up, but otherwise fine.  We talked about work, football, etc…  It seemed like I would be able to talk to him again today, tomorrow, and the next day.  Looking back, I wish we had discussed more than the trivial things we did.

At 3:15 this morning, I got a call from my mom.  He had been transferred to ICU.  We went down there as soon as possible.  He was very heavily sedated.  Apparently overnight he had difficulty breathing and had to be put on a respirator.  Eventually, his kidneys failed.

Around noon, mom, 2 of my brothers and I met with the doctor.  We were told that there wasn’t much that could be done.  The decision was made to leave him on life support until my two brothers from Calgary arrived.  We called them and they left as soon as possible.

Later in the day, the sedation began to wear off a bit.  He was still VERY groggy, but could recognize us and his surroundings.  The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do was to look him in the eye, knowing that decision we’d already made.  (which he made originally)

I would never wish that on anyone.

Sometime tomorrow, it will be final.  After 18 months of fighting cancer, he will finally rest.

Anyways…

Every kid thinks his dad is as strong, as tough, as cool as Superman.  The only thing is …….   Superman doesn’t die.

He was a good hockey player.  He had a try-out with the Detroit Red-Wings of the NHL in the late 40s, but kept with his job at Canadian General Electric.  He stayed with that company for more than 30 years before being squeezed out in a merger.

He was a great hockey coach.  He gave endlessly to neighborhood kids, teaching them the skills he knew so well.

He raised 5 boys that never got into any (serious) trouble.   ;)

He loved the same woman for 49 years.  Unconditionally.

He would drive us kids hundreds of miles to go skiing and sit on the deck in the cold watching because he didn’t ski himself.  Never complaining.

He would drive long hours every summer to make sure we had long trips.  From Saskatchewan, it is a long drive to California, to the Great Lakes, to the west coast.

He would take us camping whenever possible.  He bought a cabin at the lake to relax at, even though it couldn’t be too relaxing with 5 boys running around.

He broke up hundreds of fights that come with having 5 sons.  He would discipline us whenever we got out of line.

He would go out of his way to make sure that we had whatever was needed.  He turned down many promotions, not wanting to uproot the family and move them across the country.  Saskatoon was home, because it was just the right size. Not too big, not too small.  A great place to raise a family.

He would work endlessly at the church in his later years.

He was the best dad in the world and nobody will ever be able to change my mind about that.

Thanks for everything dad and I hope your suffering is finally over and what comes next for you is even better than you imagine.  You earned it.

grant                       :'(








and Thanks to all of you for your support, prayers, vibes and everything else!          :-*
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by KingOfPain on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:00am
Grant,

That is the most heartfelt,
touching post I have
ever read.

My thoughts & prayers are
with you & your family at
this most difficult time.

I don't know what else to
say, words escape me now.

:'(


Your friend always,



Steve

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by taraann on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:06am
Grant reading your post brought tears to my eyes.  You should not regret not talking about "trivial things" with your father yesterday because those are the best conversations sometimes.  I remember watching my grandfather pass away and those last few "trivial" conversations were the best conversations in a way.  I remember the day my mother died before she left my house her fateful day we just lounged around my house and chatted about "nothing" but it was great!  If you had known that was going to be the last conversation with your father it would have of ccourse not have been an enjoyable conversation and it would have been awkward and unenjoyable....how much better it will be to look back at a "normal" conversation with your father.  You know what I'm trying to say grant?  I want you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and if you ever need to talk you just give me a shout.  There is nothing I can say to help you through this difficult time cause I was in your similar shoes not to long ago myself, but you just remember this is NOT the time to be by yourself, this is the time to surround yourself with your friends and family and lean on eachother.  

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by CathiP on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:07am
Grant, your dad is lucky he has you, as well. Your tribute is wonderful, touching and loving....and it, too, is a testament of your Dad's love. My thoughts will be with you, tonight, tomorrow, and throughout this terribly sad time.
This one is in hands far bigger than ours.
My heart, and my hopes go out to you and your family.
I'll be here if you need me...
Fondly, Cathi

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by ClusterChuck on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:07am
Grant, my heart goes out to you.  And of course prayers.

That was a beautiful post you just posted.   One of the most heartfelt I have ever read.  Keep all those good thoughts and memories with you.  As long as you have those, he will still be with you.

I don't know what else I can say, but you have my support and prayers.  Let me know if I can do anything for you.  Remember, your family's decision is, as you said, HIS decision.  It is a hard one to make, but it is probably the right one, at this point.  He needs the release, and all of your family's support and love.  Make sure you tell him over and over how much you love him and appreciate all he has done for you.

Chuck

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by andy on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:20am
Grant, sorry about your dad.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
We are here for you if you need us.
......andy


Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:48am
Grant,
My vibes and prayers to you and your family.
Take care sweety,
Mast

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Svenn on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:51am
Grant,
My vibes and prayers to you and your family.


Take care friend

Svenn

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by suzy617 on Oct 22nd, 2003, 3:30am
Dear Grant,
So very sorry for the pain your family is going thru right now. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your Dad.

Suzy

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by BarbaraD on Oct 22nd, 2003, 4:17am
Grant,
Your post was the most heartfelt I've ever read. My prayers are with you. We're here for you.

BD

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by ave on Oct 22nd, 2003, 4:22am
Grant, Your tribute was very moving. I know from experience what you are going through.

I  am thinking of you and your family. and wish you all the spiritual support you need in this difficult time.


Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Woobie on Oct 22nd, 2003, 5:56am
:'( :'( :'( :'(

I'm feeling your pain.. Grant.  You wrote a beautiful post!   I will be thinking about you today.  God bless you!

tina   :-*

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Melissa on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:27am
Grant,

I know this is a very emotional time for you and you probably wrote the lovely words of your dad with tears in your eyes.  Just know you are not alone in this, your family here, is here for you.  We understand if you'll be away for awhile or if you just want to ramble.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

love,
melissa

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Turts on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:41am
Grant,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. It sounds like your father was a wonderful man. A trait that has been passed on.  
Diddo about the conversation. A natural chat in these circumstances convey our feelings and emotions without them being openly discussed. (know what I mean)

Your dads Pain Free days are on there way.


Thinking of you
Turts

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by juvy on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:46am
*hugs*

I'm sorry to hear this Grant.

If you need anything at all, let us know.  Even if it just an ear to listen.

Lots of love,
april

aka ~Juvy

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by JDH on Oct 22nd, 2003, 7:44am
Grant,
Sorry to hear it man. Wish there was something I could say to make things better.
I've been through this and I'm not going to say I know how you feel 'cause nobody does but I know how tough this is on a family and we're here for you when you need us.
Take care and try and be there for your mom,

Jim

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Karla on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:06am
So sorry to hear of your difficult day ahead.  I will be praying for you and your family.  May God be with you and give you peace and comfort during this time.  Love, Karla

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by thomas on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:11am
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. [smiley=heart.gif]

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by echo on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:22am
Sorry to hear of the pending situation Grant. I can relate to what you are going through these last few days.

When it ends your dad will no longer be in pain, play a daily game of hockey, and score continual hat tricks while waiting for his mate, and watching his 5 sons get on with their lives.

Take care Grant.

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by Donna on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:11am
Grant......having been where you are now, I would like to tell you what my sisters and I experienced when our Mom died 5 years ago.

When we knew that the end was near, we demanded from a negative doctor that we get permission to call in Hospice.  It was the smartest thing we have ever done.  They were there very quickly.  They made Mom more comfortable and were all that kept my sisters and me sane at the time.  They were there for all of us.....and absolute angels.

They would probably tell you and your family to sit around your dads bed and talk about the good old times, maybe even read him your post, sing together if you've ever done that as a family, remember silly things, tell him and the others how much you love them all.  Forgive each other if there's a reason (out loud).  Just talk everything out.  And when he trys to hang on because he thinks his family still needs his protection and he fights and hangs on harder, tell him you are all OK now thanks to him, and it is OK to go.

You still have time.....he can probably hear you when you think he can't.

You will never know how much of a comfort this can be later on.  And it makes him feel much better, believe it  please.......I've lived it and am so thankful.

My heart and my prayers are with you and your family.


Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by tsayswhy on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:18am
Grant  :'(

your in my prayers

                     tari

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better?
Post by Miklos on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:26am
Sorry to hear this. Lost my Dad many years ago in a similar way. It is really tough.

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by ZAIRA on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:40am

Grant :'(, I’m so sad, I don’t know what to write you.
I hate to hear that your dad suffers in this way. I would like to help you in some way but from here it sounds impossible. My heart goes out for you, your family are still in my prayers.

Be strong.

Zaira  [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by BruceD on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:41am
Grant,

Your post was one of the most heartfelt messages that I've ever read. Just reading it left me with that lump-in-the-throat feeling that words just cannot express. You and your whole family are in my thoughts & prayers as you go through this difficult time.

Blessings
BruceD

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by Jackie on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:45am
Grant,
That is a beautiful tribute to your Dad.  Bless your heart....these are very difficult days and my thoughts are with you all.  Someone once told me that God did not promise us life without pain but he did promise that there would be sunshine after the storm.  That is hard to think about when your heart is breaking but it did turn out to be true.  We'll continue to hold you close.
Peace to you and your family, Grant.

Our love to you and yours,
Jackie

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by gmlevenhagen on Oct 22nd, 2003, 10:01am
[smiley=hug.gif]

Sending A hug to ya.


Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by miCHel on Oct 22nd, 2003, 10:12am
Grant,

That tribute to your father was extremely touching.  Something you can be very proud of.

I can't say I know how you feel because I have never had to face a situation like that.  All I can say is continue to be strong.  All your clusterhead friends are behind you.

Take care friend.

miCHel

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Mikey on Oct 22nd, 2003, 10:16am
Grant,
That was a very touching post, and a tear jerker.
Lean on our shoulders all you want Grant, that's what family is for, and that's what we are! We are all here for you so USE us.  If you need someone to talk to, e-mail me your number, and i'll drop the dime for the call, i'm always around the house so i can talk anytime.  I just lost my grandfather not too long ago, and haven't gotten over it yet, and wont for sometime to come.

Can't say much more than this Grant, because i'm at a loss of words now.  I'll be praying and sending vibes out to you and your family, and concentrate on the good times Grant, it seems to help me.

Wish you PFDAN, and peace and safety to you and your family.

Mikey,  :'(

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by 9erfan on Oct 22nd, 2003, 11:00am
Grant,

Your beautiful tribute brought me to tears.  :'(  I'm so sorry that you are losing your Dad and that he has been suffering for so long.  His pain is almost over and I'm sure he was thrilled that his last conversation with you was just about normal stuff, you know?  He was blessed to have such a wonderful family.

My prayers go out to you & your family.  Remember, we're all here for you.

Love,
Virginia

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Darleen on Oct 22nd, 2003, 11:35am
Grant,

Don't know what to say to that except that you are very lucky to have had such a great man as a father.  Nothing I say can really make it easier so I send you and your family many thoughts and prayers.

D [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 22nd, 2003, 1:02pm
Grant,


Even Superman couldn't get past  KRYPTONITE.  

I know this is so very hard on you, but  you did well in talking to him about trivial things, so no guilt trip and no regrets.  O.K.?

Tell us more about what a wonderful Dad he was.

LindaH

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by Tiannia on Oct 22nd, 2003, 1:23pm
Grant -

All of our thoughts and prayers are with you.  The converstaion that you had with your dad was like many said probably better cause the love and support  that you felt for him and vise versa was there in the fact htat you could have this conversation.  Words are not needed for THAT kind of love. My parents do not talk to me due to the fact that they do not accept my husband.  Cherish the times that you had with him and know that when he passes from this life that the painand suffering will leave him as well.

/huggs and a sholder to cry on or rant at if you need it

Blaessed Be,
Tia

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by grumpett on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:01pm
[smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

WISH I COULD REALLY BE THERE TO GIVE YOU THE REAL THING!


 MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHT S ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by judyw on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:30pm
Grant, what a beautiful tribute to your father...From our conversations when you found he had active CA again, I knew just where you were pulling your strength...your Dad...how blessed you and your brothers were to have had such a Dad...In the days to come you will go through many emotions, but know that in the end, he has only gone to a beautiful place to await each of his loved ones arrival...in the right time...you will meet again...Take this time to grieve his going and support your mom as she goes on without her beloved partner...How lucky you are to have such a loving family there, as well as here...know that someone is always with you in spirit...I am here anytime, as always...just holler....143

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;
Post by River_Rat on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:33pm
Grant, I'm so sorry for what you have to go through, When my Mom died of cancer (62) She used to say "well! Ya can't get outta this life alive" I used to think WTF. Anyway, It was very hard to lose her, I couldn't understand how people could just go on with there lives like nothing ever happened, I would walk into a gas station and people would be cracking jokes.

Then 3 years later, cancer took my dad (67) and WOW! I had a very hard time accepting it, I talked to a priest and if there was one thing I can take from that conversation that really helped me was:

"In fifty years we'll all be together again"

This may sound stupid to you, but for me it really helped, it made it seem less final.

I hope this helped, even a little, you will never forget. But time will help heal. I still think of my folks everyday but it doesn't hurt as bad any more.

Thoughts and prayers,

LEE

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Roxy on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:38pm
Grant, I'm so sorry that this time has come.  It sounds like he was a wonderful father and husband.  That his family loves him so much is the best legacy he can have.  You and your family will be able to draw strength from each other, and that kind of love is what your father would be proud of.

Don't worry about not talking over the serious things with him.  My mother absolutely forbid it when she was in that position.  She wanted to hear us joking and laughing as we always did.  He knows he is loved, and that's all that matters.

Thoughts and prayers for you all,
Tracey

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by aprilbee on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:51pm
Grant,

Sending you more hugs... [smiley=hug.gif]  and prayers...for you and your family

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better?
Post by jonny on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:59pm
Really, really sorry bro  :'(

.....................jonny

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Margi on Oct 22nd, 2003, 4:18pm
So sorry to hear this, Grant.  Our prayers and strength are with you and your family through this.
Margi and Mike

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by Edna on Oct 22nd, 2003, 4:21pm
GRANT........you are truly a wonderful son for your father.......more loving words could not be written.

I'm dreadfully sorry for what lies ahead, but we left behind always have the hardest time dealing with it. You must believe that your father moves on to much better things that we here can only hope to one day have.

I've sent you an email I wish you would read ASAP.

Draw strength from where you need it friend, and you know where to find us WHEN you need us.

My prayers are with you and your entire family along with your dad, for the strength you will all need to endure and continue.

sincere warm wishes and hugs,
EDNA

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by cathy on Oct 22nd, 2003, 4:49pm
:'(...Grant im so sorry to read your post, but that is that is a beautiful tribute to your Dad....i'll be holding you in my thoughts tomorrow... [smiley=hug.gif]

Cathy

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…
Post by brain_cramps on Oct 22nd, 2003, 5:33pm
UNBELIEVABLE CHANGE TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Before going in this morning, mom went to see dad's GP to get some questions answered.  She seemed to be having second thoughts about the decision that we made.

The doc told her not to let anyone at the hospital "railroad" her into making any decision that she didn't want to (as far as when dad would be taken off of life-support).

When we got to the hospital, the night-nurse told us that he was awake, alert, and even knew that today was the day of the civic election and he wanted to vote.

His blood-pressure had began to stabilize overnite.  He had began to breath while still with the help of the respirator, more and more on his own.  Also, his kidneys seemed to be showing signs of improvement.

By 4:00PM, he was breathing on his own 90% of the time, BP meds had been reduced to 10%, and his kidneys were functioning around 40 to 50% and improving.

He is now out of the "immediate danger zone" and will probably be moved from ICU tomorrow.

While meeting with the ICU doctor this afternoon, it was amazing how non-chalant he was about the major improvements made by dad.  Its almost like he was telling us "Next time you should be more well prepared as far as knowing what level of care you want him to get".  No mention was made that 24 hrs ago, he was telling us "Well, you could keep it going for another 24 hrs, but there is really no reason."

What a roller-coaster this has been.   He is, by no means, out of the woods yet, but will probably be able to "recover" to the point at which he was.  

The decision has been made that chemo will not be an option since it was the main reason in his quick deterioration.

SO UNBELIEVABLY HAPPY HERE!!!!!!!!!!

Miracles DO happen!


Thanks so much to all of you.        I don't really know what else to say.




grant                [smiley=shore.gif]  (doing the HAPPY DANCE!!!)

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by Karla on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:02pm
Praise God.  Thanks for answered prayers! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)  I am so happy for you Grant.

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by 9erfan on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:28pm
All I can say is....GOD exists!

You got a miracle today Grant, this is so awesome!  Love to hear about these miraculous turn-arounds!  

I'm sure you're doing tons of celebrating with your family tonight.  I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO happy for you!

Love,
Virginia

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better&#8230;  (** U
Post by CathiP on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:29pm
G- it is good news, indeed.....I guess we all need to remember, once again....EVERY SINGLE MOMENT IS IMPORTANT!!
Dad is one strong guy......
You just keep on dancing- oh, and give your dad a hug for me!
Happy for you, G-
Cathi

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by Cerberus on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:30pm
Grant......

 I am just getting to see this post today for the first time.

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


thats about all I got man!..........That is incredible!
Still praying ,
Ramon

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by OneEyeBlind on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:31pm
Grant, do me a favor, and now that your dad is out of the woods for today ............ read him the post you put up.  Don't put off telling someone you love them today until tomorrow.  You never know what tomorrow brings.    

I'm really really happy for you and your family that your dad is somewhat out of the woods.  Keep the faith, Nan

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by DaveHar on Oct 22nd, 2003, 6:33pm
Congrats to you and your family. All of us here in the Harlan clan continue to send out good vibes and well wishes for more days togethere with your father and family. Keep the faith as miricals do happen every day.

Dave, Leesa, John, Dan, and Mykee

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by fubar on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:07pm
Grant,

Wow.  What else can be said?

Do you think you could change the post topic and encourage people to read this one in reverse?  I went on the whole roller coaster ride and I'm spent, tears and all.  Would have been nice to start off with the good news... ;)

-Shawn

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by Callico_Kid on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:07pm
Grant,

Just had the chance to read your awesome post.  You and your Dad and family have been in my prayers.  So glad to hear of the turnaround.  Enjoy the time you have with him and your mom.  Words can't say what you really feel, but love is never misunderstood.

Jerry

Title: Re: Wish my news could be better…  (** UPDATED !!!
Post by brain_cramps on Oct 22nd, 2003, 8:57pm
Shawn:

Enough said.   I wasn't sure what I would do as far as changing the name (and have people still know it was the same thread), letting people know where the "bad" ended and the "good" started, etc...

We'll see what I can do.

grant                       :D






Just got back from the hospital.    We came home for supper, went back there and he continues to improve.  The respirator had been removed and while his throat is VERY sore, he wanted to talk and talk.  We eventually had to cut the visit short.  A bed in an observation ward is available, but he won't be moved until sometime tomorrow morning.

I'll keep you updated.   Thanks for everything.

grant


Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Woobie on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:08pm
WOW WOW  WOW    [smiley=JAW_DROP.gif]

I TOLD you people... CH.com VIBES WORK!!!!  

I'm sending more..........

[smiley=headbanger.gif]
ROCK ON!

tina   :-*

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by JDH on Oct 22nd, 2003, 9:24pm
Infuckingcredible news Grant!
see, it really does work  

Jim

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Edna on Oct 22nd, 2003, 10:20pm
Grant, wonders never cease to amaze me...........sounds like your dad had a pretty kewl afternoon as I'm sure this afternoon was great for you too.

Hang in there buddy, we know you're one tough cookie!!

prayers for you all, and please keep us posted,
EDNA

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by taraann on Oct 23rd, 2003, 12:02am
What wonderful news grant......you have been given a gift grant a gift of time.  Enjoy.  Strength and prayers to you and yours.

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by ClusterChuck on Oct 23rd, 2003, 1:23am
Grant, AWSOME does not even begin to describe your miracle, but I can't think of another word that would!

I am dancing the "happy dance" for you and your family!

After something like this, how can anybody say that someone isn't looking out for fools and men?  (Men= people like your Dad, and Fools= people like me!)  The "man" upstairs has heard the call, and responded in an awsome way!

My prayers are still with you and your Dad, because, as you said, he is not out of the woods yet ... It is only a matter of time before he gets back to the way he was!

WOW!  Has the change in this thread made my day!!!

Great news, Grant

Chuck

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 23rd, 2003, 1:35am
whooo hoooo grant :)
Mast

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by ZAIRA on Oct 23rd, 2003, 7:02am

Thank you, GOD!!! [smiley=bow.gif]


Keep us informed, Grant....... [smiley=hug.gif]


Zaira








Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by oringkid on Oct 23rd, 2003, 8:06am
Life is so wonderous!  You just never know what is around the corner!!  I'm so happy for you and your family for getting this wonderful opportunity for extra time, and what I'm sure is a whopping booster shot of renewed hope for this journey we call life, and faith that miraculous things still do exist... I know it has given me a boost!

Love ya!

Sherry

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by vig on Oct 23rd, 2003, 8:39am
Grant,
People in our hearts never die.
Paul

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by BruceD on Oct 23rd, 2003, 9:07am
Amen & Hallelujah!! That is simply awesome news, Grant! I continue to lift you guys up in prayer.

BruceD

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Ann on Oct 23rd, 2003, 11:26am
Grant!

I saw this thread last night..but I really didn't know what to say!   ???  I'm not very good in these situations.  I'm thrilled this morning to be reading that your dad is doing so much better.  That is incredible news.  I'll keep the vibes acoming!

Get some rest yourself...you might just need it!

big fat hugs
Ann

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by arby on Oct 23rd, 2003, 9:26pm
Grant

Just got to this thread.  

Great news!!!

Hope it continues.

Ross

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Charlie on Oct 23rd, 2003, 10:51pm
This is cool Grant. It's your turn. Enjoy it.

Good news is welcome here too.

Charlie

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by Ree on Oct 24th, 2003, 7:32am
God Bless your Dad Grant... and you too... love to you Ree

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by taraann on Oct 25th, 2003, 6:27pm
Hey Grant so how's your dad doing now?  Still well I hope!

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by brain_cramps on Oct 25th, 2003, 9:39pm
Tara-ann

When I was up there, he was complaining about the food, the weather, the civic election, hockey scores and upcoming football games.

Guess that means he's starting to feel better.    ;)

Also havin a bit of fun with the younger nurses.   ;;D

I'll be going up to see him tomorrow morning.  Today was the first day I didn't have a chance to, but he had a number of other people there to keep him company.

Thx for asking,
grant        8)

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by nancyc on Oct 26th, 2003, 2:16pm
What a beautiful post...I, too, was blessed with a wonderful father and friend who I truly miss everyday of my life...You are truly blessed....you and your family are in my prayers.... :)nancyc

Title: Re: I witnessed a miracle.
Post by goaway on Oct 28th, 2003, 1:14pm
Grant-

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there are no words.....
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mike



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