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Title: why I haven't had much time to post or chat.... Post by taraann on Oct 20th, 2003, 9:10pm I'm here just alot of crap going on lately. Ray (my brother that we're guardians of for those who dont know) has been very stressful, we have reported him as a missing person/run away TWICE last week. Things are a little better with him this week. My 18 year old sister just told me she is pregnant by her not a very nice person LOSER boyfriend (sorry but he has not had a job in MONTHS and just parties all the time and treats her like crap) Sam's boss has been blowing him off about hours and pay so bills have been building up, and he's job hunting again. I have been in a bad cycle since the end of June and usually they are gone within 3 months but I think the stress is making them hang in there longer. I start physical therapy on my neck next week to see if it will help some (origional appt was today but the starter went in my car and sam's truck is a gas hog so I rescheduled) I also have an appt at dartmouth with a headache specialist but thats not until January and I'm just sick and tired of having this headpain multiple times a day and night. My kids schedules have all been out of whack since ray moved in at the beginning of summer and they just keep getting worse! I swear I don't know what sleep is between the kids and my headaches. We had planned on moving away after the holidays and after income tax return but now I am having second thoughts because of my sister Chelle getting pregnant and she really only has Chrissy(my other younger sister) to lean on if I'm not here (my father isn't part or our lives and my mother passed away a couple years ago so I"m all my siblings have as a mother figure). GRRRRRRRR Just a TON of crap going on. So that's SOME of whats been going on. |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by Melissa on Oct 20th, 2003, 9:31pm Boy, when it rains it pours! Taraann, I know how you feel, when things get bad at my house, they are multiple things all at once. I am sending some positive thoughts your way hon!! ~~~~> Take care and hang in there! love, :)mel |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by Mastifflvr28 on Oct 20th, 2003, 9:38pm wowsers Taraann My bigest strongest vibes going up to you. Hope things calm down soon Mast |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by cootie on Oct 20th, 2003, 10:10pm Daaaammmmmm you got alot goin on......I'd run away.....I'm a "coward" to stress like that these days. Power vibes goin out to you to hang in there and be strong. Pam that's against stress crimes |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by Ann on Oct 21st, 2003, 10:04am Holy Cow Taraann!!! I'm with Cootie...run away, run away!!! But in case you decide to stick it out...I'll send you some positive "stop causing Taraann stress" vibes for you and your siblings! ;;D Hope things calm down for you. hugs Ann |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by Cerberus on Oct 21st, 2003, 3:54pm Taraann, Ya know After reading yer post, just before I scrolled down to reply I saw that Melissa said exactly what I was gonna say. Yer sister's boyfriend needs a lot of this [smiley=bigguns.gif] But I'm at a loss for words to the rest so maybe we can settle this for ya with a heavy dose of personal artillery and a few hundred feet of barge chain. I really hope things improve for ya soon, geez, and I thought shit around here got deep. Ramon |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by Tiannia on Oct 21st, 2003, 4:06pm Taraann- I'm with Cerebus, maybe some personal time away from everything would be beneficial. Remember, that even if everyone thinks that you can (incuding you), you can NOT be responsible for everyone. And if you can not take care of yourself, you will be no good for anyone. You might think you are Wonder Woman, but that gold bra is very uncomfortable. [smiley=crackup.gif] Tia |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by taraann on Oct 22nd, 2003, 2:02am Thanks everyone I'm hanging in there and trying hard to not let the stress get to me too much on 10/21/03 at 16:06:51, Tiannia wrote:
Had to laugh at that and yeah i do have a prob with trying to be everything to everyone all the time in my fam and I am trying hard to not be that way so much anymore.... |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by ShariRae on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:15pm Wow sweety.. heres hoping things turn around for you real soon.. Huggs Shari |
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Title: Re: why I haven't had much time to post or chat... Post by 9erfan on Oct 22nd, 2003, 12:38pm Geez! That's a lot going on all at once. >:( You need a break! You & the hubby need to get away for a couple of days or something. You can't continue to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. Eventually, we all have a breaking point. Even if you could just go to a hotel for a night & order room service and just sleep in peace...you would feel a LITTLE better...maybe?? Big hugs to you. I hope things get better for you. virginia |
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