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(Message started by: Brewcrew on Oct 9th, 2007, 5:20pm)

Title: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 9th, 2007, 5:20pm
"...Bands come and go. You gotta keep playin', no matter with who."

The Empty Suits are no more. Call it a falling out, call it a difference of opinion on direction, call it whatever you want. But it's cool. This was the first band I participated in over 15 years, and the first one for which I acted as co-founder since middle school. It was a fun two-and-a-half year run, and it got me playing again. For that I am grateful.

I have a few other irons in the fire, so stay tuned as to what I'm up to musically.

It was fun while it was fun.

http://i156.photobucket.com/albums/t13/brewcrew2b/Suits4BWquartersize.jpg

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by thomas on Oct 9th, 2007, 5:22pm
Sorry to hear it.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Karla on Oct 9th, 2007, 5:24pm
Wow, I am sorry to hear it but glad that you seem to be ok with it.  Let us know if something comes up in the future.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Guiseppi on Oct 9th, 2007, 5:44pm
"...Bands come and go. You gotta keep playin', no matter with who."

Because without music, life is a mistake. Don't put the hack down and don't let those callouses go soft........

Guiseppi

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by melissa on Oct 9th, 2007, 6:28pm
Oh Bill, I am so very sorry!!  This sucks, but I'm glad you have some irons.

[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Redd on Oct 9th, 2007, 6:42pm
There goes the Summer Party in the Park Series.  


Keep the irons in the fire and the right venue will come along.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Charlie on Oct 9th, 2007, 7:07pm
Dell Paxton. What a name....almost as bad a name as our police chief whose name is Rex Rater.

Charlie

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Oct 9th, 2007, 7:20pm
I'm sorry to hear that your band has gone their separate ways.

Maybe you and your son will form another band one day?

Carol

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Kevin_M on Oct 9th, 2007, 7:48pm

on 10/09/07 at 17:20:23, Brewcrew wrote:
"...Bands come and go. You gotta keep playin', no matter with who."

The Empty Suits are no more. Call it a falling out, call it a difference of opinion on direction, call it whatever you want. But it's cool. This was the first band I participated in over 15 years, and the first one for which I acted as co-founder since middle school. It was a fun two-and-a-half year run, and it got me playing again. For that I am grateful.

I have a few other irons in the fire, so stay tuned as to what I'm up to musically.

It was fun while it was fun.


Brew, you handle it well and look back in a good fashion.  
 As long as I've known friends in bands it has been happening, you've mentions some reasons in the fold of why, too.  Even as age advances, life obligations take on priorities different than before.  Personally, "it was fun while it was fun" has been said by myself of periods in life that ended, and in fact even wanted a tattoo saying "fun 'til it's done".  Hell, even the Beatles broke up.  :)

Good stuff, good times, for great causes -- you've got a lot of great accomplishment and memories there.  ;)

Congratulations on the band history you've been a part of and the amazing revival together again.  

you da man, guy.  

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 9th, 2007, 7:54pm
Thanks for the kind words everyone. I'm actually the one who initiated it. I announced I was leaving, and instead of forming plans to look for a new bass player, within 12 hours the band was history.

Carol, while it's a nice sentiment, I've never heard of a band that performs with more than one bass player. Except Spinal Tap, and that was just for one song, Big Bottom:

Big bottom, big bottom,
Talk about mud flaps, my girl's got 'em.
Big bottom, drive me out of my mind.
How can I leave this behind?
[smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Miss Independent on Oct 9th, 2007, 7:55pm
I'll miss seeing you guys play.....

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Oct 9th, 2007, 8:01pm

on 10/09/07 at 19:54:45, Brewcrew wrote:
Carol, while it's a nice sentiment, I've never heard of a band that performs with more than one bass player. . [smiley=laugh.gif]


What better time to make changes then!!!!  Why not two bass players - throw in a pedal steel guitar and just go Country! ;;D

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by nani on Oct 9th, 2007, 8:13pm
On to bigger and better things, Bill. Just don't stop. You're too good not to play.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by jimmers on Oct 9th, 2007, 9:20pm
Brew,

I always knew down deep you wanted to be a Rapper anyway! ;;D

If change was not a good thing, everything would always stay the same. ;)

jimmers

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by melissa on Oct 9th, 2007, 10:06pm

on 10/09/07 at 19:54:45, Brewcrew wrote:
Big bottom, big bottom,
Talk about mud flaps, my girl's got 'em.
Big bottom, drive me out of my mind.
How can I leave this behind?
[smiley=laugh.gif]

So THAT'S what I have?  Mud flaps??

I did not know there was a name for it!

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 9th, 2007, 10:18pm
What made you think these 3rd party lyrics were directed at you, dear? :o

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by DennisM1045 on Oct 9th, 2007, 10:28pm
Sorry to hear it Brew.  The one constant in life is change.  I'm glad to see you are embrasing it. 8)

-Dennis-

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by melissa on Oct 9th, 2007, 10:30pm

on 10/09/07 at 22:18:36, Brewcrew wrote:
What made you think these 3rd party lyrics were directed at you, dear? :o

I was just educated by those lyrics.  Ya know, big bottom n' all. ;;D

actually, I think it's funny.  I'm thinking about making that my username. [smiley=laugh.gif]

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by artonio7 on Oct 9th, 2007, 10:49pm
Always at a crossroad, always having to choose, regardless of the choices you find yourself along the journey.

Change is good... not often easy but when the growing pains stop we know that we are truely dead.

You Bill, are far from dead and have (hopefully) a long and ever changing journey ahead of you. It's all good.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 10th, 2007, 8:07am

on 10/09/07 at 19:07:04, Charlie wrote:
Dell Paxton. What a name....almost as bad a name as our police chief whose name is Rex Rater.

Charlie

Dell was one of the characters in That Thing You Do - the older, wiser jazz guy giving out advice to the young up-and-comers in the pop music world. Great movie - rent it if you can.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by cynjeep89 on Oct 10th, 2007, 7:13pm
That Thing You Do......what a great movie and sound track.  Think I wore out my CD. [smiley=laugh.gif]

The O'Needers were cool. ::) 8)

Sorry about the band, Bill.  I know you really enjoyed it.

Keep us posted on your next move, k?



Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Oct 10th, 2007, 7:29pm
Brew----move to New York---They are looking for a lead guitar ----" Disgruntled Postal Workers"---I smell millions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Kirk on Oct 11th, 2007, 1:04am
Keep stretchin your strings and your axe waxed.
[smiley=smokin.gif]

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Oct 11th, 2007, 9:14am
Sorry to hear about the band....Brian is actually trying to get into a different band since his isn't playing all that much anymore....maybe he should be an empty suit...but he won't move, so maybe they could come to St. Louis... ha ha!  

Also, the guy on your right looks like Jon Lovitz in that picture.  Anybody else see it?

Also, I loved That Thing You Do too!  Such a good movie!

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 10:52am
That's not Jon Lovitz. That's Tommy Flanaygin. He's married to Morgan Fairchild - whom he's seen naked. Yeah, that's the ticket.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Charlie on Oct 11th, 2007, 5:52pm

Quote:
Dell was one of the characters in That Thing You Do - the older, wiser jazz guy giving out advice to the young up-and-comers in the pop music world. Great movie - rent it if you can


I know of it and it pops up on cable but I've never looked at it.....probably because I like old stuff.

As far as I'm concerned the electric guitar ruined music.

Charlie

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Kevin_M on Oct 11th, 2007, 6:23pm

on 10/11/07 at 17:52:59, Charlie wrote:
As far as I'm concerned the electric guitar ruined music.


So you must be a fan of Tiny Tim and Britney Spears.  ;)


Those damn movies that started using color, too.  


;;D

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 6:45pm

on 10/11/07 at 17:52:59, Charlie wrote:
As far as I'm concerned the electric guitar ruined music.

That's one of the oddest things I think I've ever read. It would be like saying the electric crock pot ruined cooking. ;;D

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Charlie on Oct 11th, 2007, 6:56pm
Actually, ridiculous amplification is worse. It's everywhere.  It's not good for your hearing as you get older too. Of course I go days without listening to music of any kind. I love peace and quiet and it's one of the main reasons that I love winter: It's quiet. I think it has something to do with my epilepsy.

Charlie

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Kevin_M on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:01pm

on 10/11/07 at 18:56:16, Charlie wrote:
I love peace and quiet

I think it has something to do with my epilepsy.


No Charlie, I like that too, either its age or epilepsy is contagious.   ;)

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by MR_FLOOR on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:05pm
I'm just glad I got to see you guys,you guys were tight,and your playing will be missed by alot of people. Keep us posted.
How about the Brewcrew you and jr Brew(Roy) and all you guys need is a drummer,just a thought.





Dave

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:24pm

on 10/11/07 at 19:05:36, MR_FLOOR wrote:
How about the Brewcrew you and jr Brew(Roy) and all you guys need is a drummer,just a thought.

'Cept we both play bass. That'd be pretty hard to pull off.

Charlie, I know what you mean about wicked insane amplification. It's one of the reasons I left the band. It was too big and out of control, and I don't like being associated with things I can't control.

The older I get, the more I listen to things on my iPod like Brahms, Beethoven, Vivaldi, etc.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Mosaicwench on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:28pm

on 10/11/07 at 19:24:39, Brewcrew wrote:
The older I get, the more I listen to things on my iPod like Brahms, Beethoven, Vivaldi, etc.


What he didn't tell you is that he also has The Stones, The Who, and the Beatles on that iPod, too.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by MR_FLOOR on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:33pm

on 10/11/07 at 19:24:39, Brewcrew wrote:
'Cept we both play bass. That'd be pretty hard to pull off.

My bad I thought you said Roy played guitar.



Dave

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 7:35pm

on 10/11/07 at 19:33:20, MR_FLOOR wrote:
My bad I thought you said Roy played guitar.

Well, he does, but it's not his main instrument. He's actually pretty damned good at whatever he picks up.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Jonny on Oct 11th, 2007, 8:04pm

on 10/11/07 at 19:05:36, MR_FLOOR wrote:
I'm just glad I got to see you guys


Ditto!  [smiley=headbanger.gif]

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 8:11pm
You guys are all too kind.

But mark my words, whatever comes next will be better. I won't settle for anything less.

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Charlie on Oct 11th, 2007, 9:37pm

Quote:
The older I get, the more I listen to things on my iPod like Brahms, Beethoven, Vivaldi, etc


I know what you mean. I listen to the Buffalo classical station when I want something emjoyable.  I have a few recordings too.

I like stuff that lets you function while listening. I listen to lots of stuff when I do. Benny Goodman through 1960s. There are some good newer blues and jazz recordings...don't ask for specifics, I just like them when I can find the stuff I taped.

Basically, I have zero rock recordings other than greaser stuff which I remember as a kid.

Charlie


Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Brewcrew on Oct 11th, 2007, 9:45pm

on 10/11/07 at 21:37:57, Charlie wrote:
Basically, I have zero rock recordings other than greaser stuff which I remember as a kid.

Almost all of us keep a small place in our heart for the stuff we listened to as kids. ;)

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by cynjeep89 on Oct 11th, 2007, 9:54pm
I know exactly what you mean, Bill.

John has tons of recorded music from the 50s and 60s.

When we run away in the motorhome for a vacation, it is so great to just sit and listen to some good music.

Of course, our neighbors always give us strange looks the next day....guess we sing too loudly. ;;D

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by Kevin_M on Oct 11th, 2007, 10:40pm

on 10/11/07 at 21:54:28, cynjeep89 wrote:
John has tons of recorded music from the 50s and 60s.

Of course, our neighbors always give us strange looks the next day....guess we sing too loudly. ;;D


Yeah, me too when the singing gets too loud with those Alvin and the Chipmunks 45's.  ;)

Title: Re: Dell Paxton said...
Post by cynjeep89 on Oct 11th, 2007, 10:56pm
"Me, I want a hula hoop" [smiley=laugh.gif]



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