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(Message started by: alienspacebabe on Sep 14^th, 2007, 5:55pm)

Title: Daddy's home.....
Post by alienspacebabe on Sep 14^th, 2007, 5:55pm

pretending to be strong......

Didn't end up in the dead letter office.....

sob

no no no. gotta be strong for mom.....

If ever I could use a f'ing man-hug, this is it......

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by Mosaicwench on Sep 14^th, 2007, 6:08pm

Aw Sweetie - there's no way to ease the reality of this.

Just know we're here for you.

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by Guiseppi on Sep 14^th, 2007, 6:09pm

The reality part totally sucks Liz....love ya. :-*

Guiseppi

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by Rosybabe on Sep 14^th, 2007, 6:31pm

:-* :'(...sorry Lizzie....

Hugs

Rosy.

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by phil_h on Sep 14^th, 2007, 7:03pm

The cycle of life.........the baby now holds dad up in her arms... blurring the image of dad holding a baby in his arms........... I remember spreading my dad's ashes in the river...... and in a blink , 6 years later I spread my mom's ashes in the same spot in the river......... sad,joyful,surreal and peaceful....... As before , the ashes of our family are returned to the sea...... so sad , so right............. I return to the same spot on the river to mourn,celebrate and connect with the generations..... All is wrong.....all is right........ You'll be ok , you'll be sad , you'll be strong and then you'll become whole again.... having absorbed all that has seemed to have been lost....... Time will right itself again............ Peace and comfort to you.... phil h hearts have been made to be broken , then made whole again, but different..........................

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by ski2k on Sep 14^th, 2007, 8:06pm

I'm sorry you're going through this. I lost my dad about two months ago, and I know it's hard. I've been helping my mother get ready to have a garage sale. Dad was such a pack rat when it came to anything tool and hardware related... Could almost open up our own hardware store with the stuff we've been finding. Not exactly the same thing you're going through right now, but every time I pick up another saw, or box of various sized screws to try and sort out, it brings back the memories.
God is watching over them, and keeping them healthy, safe and happy. Keep being strong. You know he'd want that.

Hugs,
Adam

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by Charlie on Sep 14^th, 2007, 10:45pm

We're on your side Cuddlepumpkin.

Youse done well kid.

Charlie

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by Jimi on Sep 14^th, 2007, 10:53pm

[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by ShariRae on Sep 14^th, 2007, 11:09pm

Aww hon... i am sorry....

Much Love
Shari

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by nani on Sep 15^th, 2007, 12:13am

:'( [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by George_J on Sep 15^th, 2007, 1:13am

[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by sandie99 on Sep 15^th, 2007, 3:00am

Lots of [smiley=hug.gif] Lizzie... It WILL get easier, I promise.

Sanna

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by DennisM1045 on Sep 15^th, 2007, 7:20am

[smiley=hug.gif]

I listened to this song for a long time after we burried Dad. I found peace in it.

Man of the Hour Lyrics
Artist(Band):Pearl Jam

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThAgP8vPr8s

Tidal waves don’t beg forgiveness
'CRASHED' and on their way
Father he enjoyed collisions; others walked away
A snowflake falls in may.
And the doors are open now as the bells are ringing out
Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
Goodbye for now.

Nature has its own religion; gospel from the land
Father ruled by long division, young men they pretend
Old men comprehend.

And the 'SKY BREAKS' at dawn; shedding light upon this town
They’ll all come ‘round
Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
Goodbye for now.

And the road
The old man paved
The broken seams along the way
The rusted signs, left just for me
He was guiding me, love, his own way
Now the man of the hour is taking his final bow
As the curtain comes down
I feel that this is just goodbye for now.

Peace to you Lizzie.

-Dennis-

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by barry_sword on Sep 15^th, 2007, 8:15am

Here is a man hug for you Lizzie, well let's make it two,ok?
[smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Barry

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by aloneuk on Sep 15^th, 2007, 8:57am

[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by JenniferD on Sep 15^th, 2007, 9:26am

posted by phil h:
"The cycle of life.........the baby now holds dad up in her arms... blurring the image of dad holding a baby in his arms........... I remember spreading my dad's ashes in the river...... and in a blink , 6 years later I spread my mom's ashes in the same spot in the river......... sad,joyful,surreal and peaceful....... As before , the ashes of our family are returned to the sea...... so sad , so right............. I return to the same spot on the river to mourn,celebrate and connect with the generations..... All is wrong.....all is right........ You'll be ok , you'll be sad , you'll be strong and then you'll become whole again.... having absorbed all that has seemed to have been lost....... Time will right itself again............ Peace and comfort to you.... phil h hearts have been made to be broken , then made whole again, but different.......................... "

That was perfect. I hope that gives you comfort Liz.

[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Daddy's home.....
Post by luveemom on Sep 15^th, 2007, 10:57am

Sorry Lizzie.........
You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.....

((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

Alicia