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Title: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aloneuk on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:14pm :'( ive just got basck from hospital tam went into labour she 25WEEKS gone she was laying on the bed and all of a sudden there was blood EVERYWHERE took she straight to hosp and the gave her drugs to stop labour and its seems to have worked, but bleeding wont stop.. they gave her massive amounts of steroids for the baby lungs to stand a fighting chance but they say it doesnt look great :'( :'( and if she does give birth its less than 50/50 they sent me home to get an overnight bag, so im gonna go back now we have lost 5 babies in the last few years PLEASE we cant loose this one i just dont know what to do :'( HELP :'( :'( :'( |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by M.R. on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:22pm Praying for you all. Hang in there. Mike |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Mosaicwench on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:23pm Oh dear - ALL my prayers to you and your wife and baby. We're here for you. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DonnaH on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:35pm Sweethearts......I've been there and know what you are going thru. Wish I could be right there with you now. Just keep praying. Do you have someone with you to lean on? It's important, so call a family member or a friend that can come and sit with you. Please write me!!! I'll share what I've learned. Call me on my cell.....941-323-2311....... anytime. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Jonny on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:45pm My prayers are heading your way!!!!!! |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Charlotte on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:47pm praying & vibing for your wife and baby. Hang in there, buddy. Charlotte |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by kayarr on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:50pm All my prayer with all my heart. :'( |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by alienspacebabe on Sep 12th, 2007, 9:50pm Prayers and positive thoughts going out to all of you.... |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by wobwood55 on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:10pm I wish I knew what to say that might ease your suffering during this difficult time. I will pray for you and your family. And just know we are here for you if you want to talk. I know at times it can seem difficult to endure, but you are not alone and we can help you endure this together. Robert Sherwood wobwood55@yahoo.com |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by HeadhurtinMama on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:13pm All my prayers! Bridget |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by purpleydog on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:17pm Hang in there Ike. You and your wife are in my thoughts. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by barry_sword on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:19pm Prayers and vibes heading your way. Barry&Angie |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Redd on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:22pm You got them..... On the way... |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by 2late on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:27pm solid vibes coming your way. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Sean_C on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:29pm http://www.minibite.com/serious/images%20and%20music/flame.gif |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by UN solved on Sep 12th, 2007, 10:57pm Stay strong, they'll need you. Prayers & vibes on the way UNsolved |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Karla on Sep 12th, 2007, 11:02pm Your in our prayers. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by ski2k on Sep 12th, 2007, 11:20pm Prayers and vibes comin'. Hang in there, all of you. Adam |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by George_J on Sep 12th, 2007, 11:38pm All the best that we have, Ike. George |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Rosybabe on Sep 12th, 2007, 11:45pm Ike, you know you can count with my prayers, May the Lord watch upon your wife and your baby. http://i196.photobucket.com/albums/aa188/julala77/PrayingYouFamily.gif Hugs Rosy. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Mastifflvr28 on Sep 13th, 2007, 1:21am Tons of vibes going up!! Mast |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by fubar on Sep 13th, 2007, 1:29am took me 5 minutes to start typing through the tears... lost my twins last year, I know the pain. Be resolved to live through it... that's about the best thing I can say right now. My heart goes out to you and your wife. 25 weeks isn't unheard of. Don't fight, live. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Linda_Howell on Sep 13th, 2007, 2:19am My prayer to your unborn child: little one...you need to hang on. You're not ready for this world yet. You need more nourishment and warmth and you need to grow a tad stronger and bigger before you come into this world. So grab on to that womb and hang tough and stay where you are til you are big enough to enter this world on your own. You will be glad you waited because you have a mom and a dad who really love you even though they've never even seen you yet. You can do this, I know you can...I've even asked some angels to help you out. Amen |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by sandie99 on Sep 13th, 2007, 2:25am Ike, lots of prayers are on their way... [smiley=hug.gif] Sanna |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by michael on Sep 13th, 2007, 3:20am All the prayers I have are on the way to you and your wife Ike. Stay strong my friend Mike |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by PollyPocket on Sep 13th, 2007, 4:41am Prayers being said now for you, your wife and your baby. With all that I have, Jen |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Paul98 on Sep 13th, 2007, 5:35am Hang in there Ike and Tami, lelumpy and Louisha too. I know how scary this is, I know how desperate and frightened your feeling but please remember we can and do work miracles here and we're all sending vibes to you all and praying just as hard as we can. We're with you in spirit and we always will be, whenever you need us. Just shut your eyes and you'll see us and if you can't hear me yelling at you from here then your ipod is way too loud! Update when you can but just remember the girls are your main job now and you need to be with them. lots of love Helen xxx |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DennisM1045 on Sep 13th, 2007, 6:46am Hang in there Ike. 25 weeks is something that is done these days. I'm not saying it'll be easy, just dooable. I hope things go your way. Vibes and prayers going across the pond to you and your family. -Dennis- |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by davyp on Sep 13th, 2007, 7:41am You have all the positive vibes that me and Julie have :'( :'( |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 13th, 2007, 7:46am Ike , I am praying for all of you.. I have sent ahead my angels to assist.... I've asked my beast to stay here .... One more family has been added to the Sisters of Mercy's daily prayer circle....it can never hurt .. I will light a candle this morning for you and yours... Stay strong , pray for God's grace , do the necessary footwork and God will be responsible for outcome..... All hope , love and prayers your way.... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Ghost on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:17am Ike Got all I can send and then some more!!! I know it had to scare the living carp outta you but there is a good chance all will come out of this good. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Be strong My friend and give your wife hugs from us all. Mike |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DonnaH on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:18am Has anyone heard anything? I hope the "no news is good news" is in effect. My daughter had 26 week twins...it's a battle that can have many different outcomes. Still praying....... |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by nani on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:33am :( I'm sending all I have, Ike. hugs and love, nani |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by E-Double on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:38am tons of hugs brother!!! best to you all |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by andrewjb on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:55am :'(. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Mark C on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:56am |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by luveemom on Sep 13th, 2007, 10:32am sending you all my prayers and vibes ike for you and tam and baby..... ((((((((HUGS)))))))) Alicia |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aubmari on Sep 13th, 2007, 12:39pm All the prayers and vibes I have to you all! [smiley=hug.gif] aubmari |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Rosybabe on Sep 13th, 2007, 1:43pm any updates???? my candle is burning since last night..... |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 13th, 2007, 7:48pm Prayers continue........ vibes continue....... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by zwibbs/Scott on Sep 13th, 2007, 7:54pm In my thoughts and prayers every moment of everyday |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Charlie on Sep 13th, 2007, 8:33pm Wow. My vibes to you and yours. Hope you can find time to keep us up on the lasted. Hang on. Charlie |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by MR_FLOOR on Sep 13th, 2007, 10:01pm You got it bud all the vibes and prayers I can muster from Chi-town.I even put it in the kids prayers before they went to bed.My 4 year old Trina said she is going to pray extra hard. Dave |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 13th, 2007, 11:02pm Regardless of the question , the answer is always love and the love of God will see you through.......prayers for all ....... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 14th, 2007, 7:19am I lit 4 candles this morning at mass . Tried real hard to send positive vibes and prayers....Your family will be in my prayers and thoughts this day..... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aloneuk on Sep 14th, 2007, 8:53am 1stly thanx you all so much i cant begin to tell you how much it means to me to know your all out there, ill reply to the pm in a min donnah fubar linda and phil please ck your pms well the drug that they gave have stopped labour but this baby is coming it just a matter of time so we're paraying hard it stays put for just a few more weeks :'( baby is in slight distress but seems stable at the moment, tams holding on tight her bp is really high then really low and she feels really ill and is finding it hard to stay awake, shes on complete bedrest, everday baby stays where it is the better the chances, the placentre (sp?) is very low and moving away hench the bleeding, my daughter is breaking my heart she just crys and has bad nightmares and i dont know how to help, im trying so hard to keep her calm and tell her it will all b ok, the beast is kicking my head in 3 k10 today and no sleep in days is making it hard to try and make sure lou gets to school on ti me and that she even gets fed, im falling apart :'( im trying to be strong and i WONT cry in front of any of them ill keep you updated as best i can thank you for everything i feel much less alone with you all here, ike tam louisha and bump x |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by sandie99 on Sep 14th, 2007, 9:10am Ike, lots of more prayers and vibes are on their way from Finland! [smiley=hug.gif] Wishing the best, Sanna |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aubmari on Sep 14th, 2007, 12:10pm Thank you for the update Ike ~ I am still keeping you all in my prayers. Best vibes and can give to you and your family Aubmari |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Rosybabe on Sep 14th, 2007, 12:24pm Ike, all my family is praying for you, people in Mexico too and all the people is doing the same. Prayer is so powerful when is done for others. You have faith and hang in there and tell you little one to pray , God listen to the children. My candle will stay on all the time... Hugs and kisses Rosy. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Ray on Sep 14th, 2007, 12:38pm Ike: I haven't the words of comfort that I would like to send, but I am praying. The Lord cares for little children and babies, and the rest of us too. He alone can turn all things to good. All of my best! Ray |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Mosaicwench on Sep 14th, 2007, 1:00pm Still praying for you and your family. We're here for you always. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DennisM1045 on Sep 14th, 2007, 1:05pm Ike, you keep fighting and we'll all keep praying. My heart goes out to you brother. -Dennis- |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by ski2k on Sep 14th, 2007, 8:51pm Thank you for the update. Many more prayers and vibes coming, from here to all of you. [smiley=hug.gif] Adam |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by alchemy on Sep 14th, 2007, 8:59pm Vibes on the way. You're all in our prayers |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! *update* Post by aloneuk on Sep 15th, 2007, 8:19am tami is home with us now there is not much more that the hospital can do right now but keep an eye on her, so she discharged herself right or wrong i dunno but she will sure be happier at home, i wont let her leave the bed (like she could anyway) its made louisha feel better to have mummy at home, were going back to hospital on monday for a scan but at the moment things seem ok no bleeding or pain in 24hrs, still praying hard that baby stays where he/she is. when we got home today there was a letter on the mat saying something was wrong with the mri i just had and theres a change in my tumor and im now booked in for another mri scan next week i needed that like a hole in the head ! on speaking to the doc seems they wanna do surgery asap i cant even think about having that done now can i? another stress that i could have really done without, im just so fucking lost right now :-[ :'( sorry to dump all this shit on you all, but we dont really have anyone else :'( |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by barry_sword on Sep 15th, 2007, 8:31am Ike, dump all the shit you need to on us, we are here for you. You and your family are sure going through a lot and you can count on us anytime for support my friend. ANYTIME!!! Vibes and prayers coming your way Barry |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by George_J on Sep 15th, 2007, 9:27am It seems like people often get too many kinds of hard times all at once. I'm sorry to hear about all your trouble, Ike--hope things work out well for you folks. One thing at a time, I think--you've done all that you can right now for the baby and for Tam. It's time to see about your tumor. After all--if you don't take care of yourself, you won't be able to help Tam or anyone else if they need you. Best wishes, and hang in there, George |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by E-Double on Sep 15th, 2007, 11:11am [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 15th, 2007, 11:18am Ike , I'm glad you are all at home and will continue to pray for and carry you guys in my heart ... now about the head............One day at atime ,one headache at a time and one crisis at a time ..... I agree with George....in order to support the people you love , you have to take care of Ike......... First things first , then second things second..... Follow up and proceed with what your surgeon advises....... I know this seems overwhelming , but God's love will never take you where His grace can't hold you ........ Vent , curse at God,admit your fears....then do what your heart tells you to do.................no judgements , just support on this site.....I'm with you in spirit brother...... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aloneuk on Sep 15th, 2007, 11:38am thanx phil george barry i do understand what your saying im just worried about having it all done, im scared of the things to come, and im really scared about leaving tam for so long while im in hospital they say i will be there 10/14 days and its 2hrs away from home, how can i leave tam at a time like this, what if things change and she goes back into hospital while im so far away and cant do anything? i know its all ''what if's'' but im not sure what road to take. i hate moaning, ive just had all i can take and dont know where to draw strenth from i just dont know anything anymore ............ |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 15th, 2007, 1:14pm Ike, I gave you my best counseling and personal advise.... More like opinion when I'm not in your shoes.... Most often , I live by ....." when the good of the many , out weigh the few..... " then I disregard myself for the good of others........ it's been pointed out to me , that in order to help others , I must remain in the game...... certainly true when I'm not fighting the fires and have time to think..... I don't know whwat I would do... only the hypotheticals............ Be silent and hear your heart.... then make your choices.... who knows..they may say it can wait........... Anyway , I support you no matter what........ Quiet your mind... and in the silence your answer will come..... Give my love to all......... phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Rosybabe on Sep 15th, 2007, 1:19pm Ike, we are here for you my friend, talk to the Doctor find out if the surgery is an emergency and ask if it could wait for a bit, if not, there is someone over there who can keep and eye on Tami and your daughter while you are away?...first you need to calm down and put your thoughts in order so you can proceed and know what to do next. There is always light at the end of the tunnel, we just have to wipe off our tears so we can see it... Go find someone to watch over Tami so you can go ahead and take care of yourself. PLease remember we are all praying for you. Hugs. Rosy. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 16th, 2007, 8:19am Wishing you better days and the strength to be centered and live life . Vibes sent your way hoping to aid in comfort and healing....... Wishing you pfnad's........ phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by barry_sword on Sep 16th, 2007, 10:45am Ike, how are things today? Is Tam ok? Please keep us up to speed on what's going on. I pray for something to give you two some sort of break. Hang in there, we are always here for you two. Barry |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DonnaH on Sep 16th, 2007, 12:31pm Does anyone of us live near enough to Ike and Tami to keep an eye on her in the event that Ike must go to the hospital that is 2 hours away? They are in a horribly uncertain situation and there's nothing either can do about it. I fully understand his not wanting to leave her side and I admire him for that.......but he can't do the right thing without help, and that is help himself so that he can come back well and able to care for his family. Praying........ |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Ray on Sep 16th, 2007, 1:21pm Ike: I sent you an E-Mail. Still praying my little heart out. Ray |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Turts on Sep 16th, 2007, 11:10pm Vibes coming right along. Turts |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by aloneuk on Sep 17th, 2007, 5:28am ray and phil both your emails made me cry like a baby, i was gonna post that things seem ok and tam seems to be on the mend and slowly getting her strenth back but........ this morning things dont seem as good she has been close to passing out over the last day or 2 just from standing up but today she is having weird feeling and has a kinda glazed look and what she says makes no sence she cant sit still and something just aint right so think im gonna take her back hospital ill keep posted as i can |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by JenniferD on Sep 17th, 2007, 5:46am oh no. :( Ike, you, Tam, the baby and the doctors have all my prayers today, for health, strength, peace and wisdom. Hugs, Jen |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by barry_sword on Sep 17th, 2007, 6:55am Ike, man, so sorry this is happening. Give Tam a gentle hug for us, and both of you's and the baby will be in our thoughts throughout the day. Hang in there bro, things will improve. Prayers and all the vibes we can muster up heading your way. Barry&Angie [smiley=hug.gif] |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by phil_h on Sep 17th, 2007, 9:38am Remember.....alone no more.....vibes.....prayers..... wish I was close enough to be of more help....together we fight....together we support.... peace phil h |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by nani on Sep 17th, 2007, 9:50am Both of you are still in my prayers, Ike. hugs and love, nani |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by George_J on Sep 17th, 2007, 10:37am Keep us updated when you can, Ike. All the best to you and your family. George |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Rosybabe on Sep 17th, 2007, 11:21am Ike, my candle is still on for you guys, you have my prayers... Hugs Rosy. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Ghost on Sep 17th, 2007, 11:56am Ike check your PM's hope it helps. Mike |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by Ray on Sep 17th, 2007, 4:27pm Hello Ike: I sent you another E-Mail. Still Praying Without Ceasing.... Ray |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by DonnaH on Sep 17th, 2007, 9:17pm I hope you got to talk to the doctor today, Ike. You're right......she needs medical attention right now. Let them fix smaller things before they get bigger. Love and Prayers to you all. Donna H. |
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Title: Re: URGENT VIBES NEEDED! Post by cash5542 on Sep 19th, 2007, 7:13am Many prayers and hugs coming your way, for you with your tumor, for your wife and baby and for your daughter to cope with the turmoil in her family. Keep us posted! Charlotte |
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